How humble Chen Songling's love is
The woman who left her daughter-in-law aside and hung on her son with affection was Chen Songling's mother-in-law.
This makes all married women can't bear to look at a scene that happened in 2021 in a mother-in-law variety show, when Chen Songling's mother-in-law just entered the door of her son's daughter-in-law's house and hugged her son and cried.
After crying, he looked at this 42-year-old child with affection, and even held his son like a personal pendant.
And when she did all this, her daughter-in-law Chen Songling stood next to her, and what was even more bizarre was that she did not even look at this daughter-in-law who was more than half a hundred years old the whole time.
In the daughter-in-law's home field, she was treated as a transparent person the whole time, why Chen Songling's mother-in-law did not even bother to do face kung fu, perhaps because she did not take Chen Songling as the hostess of this family.
Long before she came here, she had called Chen Songling's husband, his son Zhang Duo, and Zhang Duo said on the phone that she welcomed her mother to her small home.
It was such a sentence that was too normal to be normal that the old mother's heart was broken, and she immediately declared her sovereignty to show that her son was wrong.
It should be changed to welcome the mother home, after listening to this sentence, although Chen Songling and his wife seem to be smiling, they did not think too much.
In fact, in addition to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, in addition to the two sides to identify their own position, the husband's attitude is also very important, because Zhang Duo's connivance again and again has also made this mother-in-law become more intense.
In order not to let her mother-in-law dispose of her personal belongings at will, Chen Songling, at the suggestion of Zhang Duo, labeled everyone's storage cabinet with their own names.
But what caught Chen Songling off guard was that her mother-in-law not only tore off Chen Songling's label, but also attached her own label to her son's chest.
He even said to Chen Songling slightly provocatively, you know, here is the heart. Although seeing this, the image of this mother-in-law has been deeply rooted in people's hearts.
But in the face of this situation, chen Songling himself does not have any responsibility? In fact, I'm afraid she herself didn't know that she had accurately stepped on her mother-in-law's three minefields.
Minefield one: provoking the mother-in-law, in fact, in the link of labeling and distinguishing personal belongings, Chen Songling's mother-in-law reluctantly accepted it at first.
But before her mother-in-law started, Chen Songling had already put her own name label on her husband Zhang Duo, and one sticker was two.
So this also explains why her mother-in-law will put her name on her son's chest, after all, Chen Songling provoked the other party first.
Minefield two: Do not care about the face of the mother-in-law, Chen Songling, as a public figure, never saves face for the mother-in-law, and can spit on his mother-in-law anytime and anywhere.
Even the eighth hundredth time in front of the camera to openly say that the mother-in-law regards herself as an outsider, in exchange for who it is, her heart will respond.
However, these are just trivial things in life, and what really makes Chen Songling's mother-in-law unbearable is actually minefield three.
Because he could not have children, he was treated differently by his mother-in-law
Just by watching Chen Songling kneel on the ground and put shoes on her mother-in-law, she can see how much she hates the person who helped her operate 16 years ago.
In 2021, because of a reality show, Chen Songling personally revealed how humble her married life was.
When the mother-in-law first entered the house, Chen Songling gave her an expensive coat, but as soon as this coat was worn, the mother-in-law was like opening up the second pulse of Ren Dou.
Began to dress up as a noblewoman, but also had to wear high heels to match, Chen Songling could only kneel on the ground to satisfy her mother-in-law's desire to perform.
How many people can serve others so humbly, not to mention that this is in front of the camera, but do you think That Chen Songling's mother-in-law will treat this daughter-in-law who is more than half a hundred years old?
For example, when her mother-in-law first came to Chen Songling's house, she brought a box full of maternal love, all of which were prepared by her own hands.
It's just that this box of maternal love is all prepared for her son Zhang Duo. For her daughter-in-law, she only had to send a bunch of garlic by hand, and Chen Songling's least favorite food was garlic.
What's more, Chen Songling's mother-in-law also personally supervised her to nibble on this garlic sent from thousands of miles, which was to imply that Chen Songling had calculated?
After all, as early as when she first entered her in-laws' house, her mother-in-law had said that she did not take her seriously at all.
For another example, Chen Songling's mother-in-law almost does not take her words, no matter how she is close, the other party only treats her as a transparent person.
What's more, Chen Songling was kind enough to take her mother-in-law to see her and Zhang Duo's boxing match, and when Chen Songling was hit, the expression on her mother-in-law's face was like this.
And when her son was beaten, she immediately shouted not to beat him, you know, Zhang Duo at this time is 40 years old, not 4 years old, is it really necessary for her mother-in-law to take care of him as a kindergarten child?
It turned out that she just looked at this daughter-in-law unfavorably, just after Zhang Duo ended the game, the mother-in-law ignored Chen Songling's shouts of cold, and delivered the towel on her body to her son's hand.
In front of the camera, Chen Songling's private mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions must be far more intense than we see, and the culprit of all this is because Chen Songling is doomed not to give birth to a son and a half daughter for his only husband.
In 2006, Chen Songling suffered from ovarian tumors, and in a hurry, she could only choose surgery to save her life, but due to the mistakes in the operation, she has been unable to have children.
Although for Chen Songling, it is fortunate to meet a man who does not mind her physical condition and spoils her life, but for her mother-in-law, not being able to hold her grandson for life is enough to become her biggest regret.
Perhaps it was because of the fish in her throat that she would not like Chen Songling, but Chen Songling's real pain was far more than that.
Being swept out of the door by the agent and cornered
Until today, I didn't know that Chen Songling had just contracted a tumor and was swept out of the house, and only a few pieces of underwear were left in her possessions.
When Chen Songling was 15 years old, she moved into Ganma's residence in order to seek a quiet learning environment, and At that time, Ganma's daughter Ah Bao and Chen Songling had a good relationship.
After all, Ah Bao's age was one round older than Chen Songling, so he also took extra care of her, not to mention that Chen Songling was only 15 years old at the time, so it was reasonable to unconditionally trust this confidant sister in front of him.
After Chen Songling made her debut, she directly named Ah Bao as her agent, and from the late 1980s to the beginning of 2000, Chen Songling handed over all her income to Ah Bao to take care of.
Whether it is buying a house or investing, she never asks, in the whole 20 years has not personally checked her own property, is Chen Songling too trusting of the so-called friendship, or is her heart too big?
Before the age of 20, it can be said that she trusts sisterhood too much, and after the age of 20, she may have no heart and lungs, until 2004, Gan Ma and Gan Sister Ah Bao broke into Chen Songling's room at the same time, letting her roll up and leave.
At this moment, she understood what kind of savior she had met, it was clearly two white-eyed wolves, and the so-called mother-daughter love and sisterly love had become a weapon for them to occupy Chen Songling's property.
Because just after Chen Songling was kicked out of the house, as long as she returned a few intimate clothes, she found that her property had already been looted, and even eating had become a problem.
At that time, Chen Songling was already a person who had passed the age of establishment, why would he still be played by the so-called girlfriend love?
In addition to her lack of vigilance, more importantly, she is too eager for family affection, in fact, in the years when the Hong Kong film and television industry was rising, many stars were forced into this Vanity Fair.
Chen Songling is no exception, 15-year-old Chen Songling was born with a good voice, was personally sent to the TVB big stage by his mother, and won the championship of the singing competition in one fell swoop.
Just after eating the dividends brought by her daughter's "betrayal" of her talent, Chen's mother began to interfere with Chen Songling's study, and even in order to let her have time to shoot more plays, she was not allowed to take the college entrance examination.
The attitude of serious study, from the mouth of the mother, is to delay making money, not so much that Chen Songling is the daughter of Mother Chen, but rather her cash cow.
Mother Chen even made a big fight against this cash cow, the mother and daughter once made a fuss in the bureau, forced to be helpless, Chen Songling secretly registered for the exam, hid in the mother's house to prepare for the exam.
It also met the vampire mother and daughter of Gan Mama and Gan Sister, and this mother and daughter are also a long-term investment in Chen Songling, because they see her use value.
In connection with the tragic situation that her father did not love her mother, as long as she was given a little favor, she would pluck out her heart and lungs.
This is why Gan Sister Ah Bao was able to seize Chen Songling's savings for 20 years without effort, and more importantly, Chen Songling was driven out of the house and found that she had an ovarian tumor.
In the end, even the medical expenses were cobbled together to complete the operation, and the rebellion, pennilessness, and disease were all enough to completely collapse an adult.
Chen Songling alone has endured these three mountains at the same time, and it can only be said that Chen Songling can appear on the screen again, which is already a blessing in misfortune.