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In the 1990s, Hong Kong's showbiz was popular, and many female stars became famous and became popular actresses from a young age.
After the decline of the wind and moon film, there was also a boom in the mainland, that is, shooting art photographs, due to the closed information at that time, coupled with people's relatively conservative thinking, many female models wanted to try and were afraid of discredit, becoming the object of public discussion, and never dared to take the first step.
Only Tongari dared to challenge, accepted the invitation of the People's Fine Arts Publishing House, took the first set of photo photos, and became the first person to eat crabs.
As soon as the body art photo came out, Tongari became popular, and in the era when the Internet was not developed, the number of single-day searches exceeded 100,000 times.
What she did not expect was that everyone looked at her photo and insulted her for doing whatever it took to become famous.
After his father learned about it, he even promised to break off the father-daughter relationship with her, but what happened to Tongari later?
01
On July 13, 1976, Tong Jiali was born in Hefei, Anhui Province, to a well-off family, the father was a civil servant and the mother was a housewife.
From an early age, she showed a strong talent for dance, and her parents also sent her to learn dance so that she could honor her talents.
At the age of 9, Tongali became a member of the gymnastics team of the Anhui Provincial Sports Commission, and also won two gold medals at the Anhui Provincial Youth Games, winning the title of outstanding athlete.
After graduating from high school, Tongali entered the Anhui Provincial Art School to study professional dance, and due to her excellent performance, she successfully entered the provincial song and dance troupe after graduation and became a dancer.
With good looks and a solid foundation in dance, Tongari was soon appreciated by the leaders of the song and dance troupe, and was recommended to the provincial television station as a special guest actor to lead the dance program.
Tongari's career development is very smooth, but she is not a person who is satisfied with the status quo, she has very strict requirements for herself, so she also applied for the Beijing Dance Academy in her spare time, hoping to enter a more authoritative university.
In 1993, through the preparation for the exam, Tongari was admitted to the Beijing Dance Academy as she wished, and learned dance more comprehensively and systematically.
Only when there is time, during college, Tongari will go part-time to earn living expenses.
During a filming of MTV, Tongari danced with her classmates, and as a result, she waited for half a day on the set, and she was stunned that she did not wait for the director.
The impatient crowd urged Tongari to go to the director, and after half a day of searching, she finally found it in a brightly lit room.
This director is Shen Dong, the first time he saw Tongari, Shen Dong was deeply attracted by Tongari's beauty and temperament.
Knowing that the other party was an accompaniment of MTV, Shen Dong immediately urged the staff to complete the shooting quickly, so that he could rush to shoot MTV.
When the shooting was over, it was already dark, Shen Dong immediately ordered the driver to send them back to the school, and when the driver returned, he also called Tong Jiali specifically to ask if he had arrived at the school safely.
Seeing the director call, Tongari, as a college student, did not dare to be sloppy, and immediately communicated with her in a gentle tone, and said that she had time to come and play.
A joke by Tongari made Shen Dong firmly remember it in his heart, after all, the other party was his own goddess.
02
The next day, Shen Dong drove to the Beijing Dance Academy and asked Tongali to come out for dinner.
Tongari, who received the call, was very surprised, and did not expect that the big director who was busy with work came to the school to invite herself to dinner, which was simply flattering.
One after another, the two soon became acquainted.
In order to pursue Tongari, Shen Dong did not spend less thoughts, flowers, gifts as many, even if he went to filming in other places, he would also write letters to Tongari, and when he returned, he would bring small gifts.
In the long run, Tong Jiali was very touched and slowly accepted Shen Dong, and the two became lovers.
After graduating from university, Tongari was assigned to the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe, and after a stable job, Tongari also began to consider her life's events.
In 1998, at the urging of her parents, Tongari and Shen Dong entered the palace of marriage and became husband and wife.
In their work, the two support each other and make progress, and in life, they respect each other and tolerate each other.
In addition to dancing, Tongari also got a lot of opportunities to shoot, filmed film and television dramas such as "Kangxi Dynasty" and "Silver Rat", and her fame is also getting bigger and bigger.
In 2001, Tongari was favored by a certain brand and was invited to shoot a lingerie advertisement.
What she did not expect was that it was this underwear advertisement that completely changed the trajectory of her life.
After shooting the advertisement, the advertising agency admired Tongari very much, believing that she was born to be a model, and recommended her to shoot a personal photo, which must be a big fire.
At first, Tongari refused, but a word from the female makeup artist made her change her mind.
The female makeup artist said, "Gary, if you walk out of this door today, you will regret it." ”
Tongari, who was preparing to go out, stopped and consulted with her husband Shen Dong, who expressed her support, and she thought of taking advantage of her youth to leave some memories for the future.
After considering it, Tongari made up her mind to shoot the photo.
03
As the first person to shoot a personal artistic portrait, Tongari was on fire.
As soon as the photo was launched, it immediately attracted great attention, but the praise was mixed.
Because many people's ideas were relatively conservative at that time, when they saw such bold and open photos, they began to accuse Tongari, saying that she did not want her face in the guise of art for the sake of redness.
For a time, Tongari became the target of public criticism and was pushed to the cusp of public opinion.
After his father learned of this incident, he was so angry that he could not sleep, called and scolded Tongari, saying that he had lost his face, and he would not see anyone in the future, and even promised to break off the father-daughter relationship with her.
In order to avoid the outside world's non-speech, Tongari stayed at home all day and did not want to go out, and even had the idea of taking her own life.
She began to doubt her decision, was she doing it wrong?
In order to solve the doubts in her heart, she dialed the phone of the leading studio of the People's Fine Arts Publishing House, and the other party responded: "If what you do is not an artistic thing, how can we publish it?" ”
After receiving an affirmative reply from the other party, Tongari's heart was more determined about her own thoughts.
The People's Fine Arts Publishing House asked Tong jiali, dare to take a second photo?
After pondering a little, Tongari confidently returned: "Dare, what is not dare?" ”
In 2003, Tongari released a second photo, but during filming, an accident occurred, resulting in a serious waist injury and nearly disabling.
This accident, like experiencing life and death, made Tongari look down on everything, thinking that life is in the world, if you have to take care of the eyes of others, it is too tired to live.
So she decided to live for herself, do what she likes, and let others say go.
Then, Tongari filmed a third personal art portrait, but the outside world's criticism of her has never stopped, and Shen Dong, as a husband, has not been spared.
Many people mocked Shen Dong, saying that only a stupid man would let his wife take such a photo.
In this regard, Shen Dong did not care at all, and always supported Tongari, after all, he encouraged his wife to do it in the first place.
Although they survived the cold words of the outside world, the two still could not go to the end and divorced in 2008.
The outside world has speculated that the reason for the divorce between the two is because of the photo, but Tongari said: "The divorce has nothing to do with his support for me to shoot the photo album."
Don't want to mention the past again, let the past pass, live well in the present.
After the divorce, Tongari did not remarry, but put all her energy into work, in addition to filming, dancing, but also joined the plastic surgery and beauty industry, becoming a career strong woman.
Although single, Tongari, who is nearly half a hundred years old, lives more transparently, spends the rest of her life doing what she likes, and does not leave regrets for herself.
Life is not smooth sailing, life is not satisfactory, only after experiencing some setbacks and blows, will you understand the meaning of life.
Life is short, you must live for yourself.
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