A woman's innocence may be a man's favorite virtue before marriage. But if this innocence is brought to marriage, it will become a disaster scene, and Princess Diana of the British royal family is a bloody lesson.
However, there are also excellent women who, after hitting a wall with men, have been dormant since then, and their hearts are no longer attached to men. They lived to understand that Bhutan's 32-year-old queen, Gizón Pema, was a good example.
In mid-May this year, Bhutan celebrated the centenary of the founding of the Central Sangha in Punakha Dzong. Queen Pema brought her two sons to the prayer ceremony.
The eldest brother, Prince Kasai Jigme Nanjie, known as the Dragon Prince, prayed with both hands, turned his head, and looked at his younger brother Prince Jigme Ujin with a "loving" face.
The two princes have had thick hair and charming smiles since childhood. Their mother, Queen Pema, had a son, and it was rare to show a smile, looking at her children lovingly, and the scene of motherly filial piety was touching.
After more than ten years of marriage, even though she has given birth to two children, Gizing Pema's face is still as beautiful and otherworldly as the snow lotus on the iceberg, which amazes the white snow of the Himalayas.
Peema is known as the "Iceberg Beauty" and rarely has smiling photos, even in the family photos at the beginning of this year, she has a cold face.
In this snowy landscape that resembles a fairyland on earth, Queen Pema wears a khaki wool collar coat, a long checked dress with a retro flavor of the nation, and holds her second son, who is less than two years old, as always, and people are fascinated.
But as a mother who has given birth to a second child in a row, Pema's face looks too faint, without a trace of joy and hope for the future.
Even more bizarre is the distance between Pema and her husband Wangchuk, as if the boundary of the Chuhan River is insurmountable. The sense of alienation between husband and wife can be felt across the screen.
As the heroine of a beautiful fairy tale like Cinderella marrying a prince, Pema's husband is still praised as the world's most handsome king, Bhutan's Wangchuk.
Their romantic love story began when Pema was 7 years old. After meeting that year, the 17-year-old Wangchuk looked at ten thousand years, not she did not marry, and specially waited until the girl became an adult and went to college, which held a sensational wedding around the world.
In stark contrast to his father, who enjoyed the blessings of the people and married four sisters, Wangchuk also abolished polygamy in the Bhutanese royal family and gave Pema a perfect dreamy love for a lifetime.
Then, in 2016 and 2020, Pema gave birth to two little princes for Wangchuk.
It all seems so beautiful, but if a woman is really happy, the happiness from the inside out cannot be hidden.
If it is true that as the media reported, the couple Qinser and Ming, why does Pema still have the title of "Iceberg Beauty"? And is Gizing Pema really not smiling?
This is not the case. Pema, who was newly married ten years ago, as a shy bride, her face was full of bright and bright smiles.
In 2011, amid the cheers of the Bhutanese people, the famous Bhutanese king Wangchuk married Cinderella Gizing Peema, who was 10 years younger than himself.
On the final day of the wedding celebrations, more than 50,000 people appeared in the stadium to watch the dancing and singing.
Bhutan is not large, the population is concentrated in the capital Thimphu, on the wedding day, the streets are crowded, people rush to tell each other, excited, together to bless the love of this pair of lovers who are stronger than Jinjian.
It wasn't just ordinary people in Bhutan who believed in this romantic love fairy tale, but also Gizing Peema, who was in his early 20s at the time.
Looking at Pema looking into her husband's eyes, there was a touch of shyness and simplicity, with adoration and joy, and with a trust of complete trust.
At that time, Pema was simple and laughing, she was as young as a simple and harmless little white rabbit, in front of the greasy uncle, there was no heart and no city government to speak of.
The subsequent honeymoon trip was a testimony to the so-called love that was stronger than gold, at least for Pema, which was true.
On the honeymoon of the newlyweds, in every picture of Wangchuk in the same frame, Pema either looks at her husband adoringly, smiles shyly, or closes her eyes to enjoy her husband's love, the sweet envy of that hot love.
Like every woman who is new to love, Gizing Pema simply loves her husband, and she should be the happiest woman in the world at this time, but reality soon snaps in the face.
In April 2016, Prince William, Duke of Cambridge, and his wife, Princess Kate, visited Thimphu, Bhutan, and both Pema and Wangchuk had previously studied in the UK, and the two couples were of equal age, and they soon became friends.
A few months before the visit, Peema had just given birth to their first child, and then the media began to nickname the King and Queen of Bhutan under the term "William and Kate of the Himalayas."
In fact, There is a fundamental difference between Pema and Kate, Kate has aspired to become the princess of the British since she was a child, and she is taking the big heroine of the grassroots counterattack.
And Pema is not as good as Kate, she is just a pawn in the politics of men.
Wangchuk did not wait for Pema for 14 years, in fact, he had contacted many women and was in love twice.
King Wangchuk of Bhutan's first love was a Chinese girl, because it was free love, not the fate of the parents, the Bhutanese royal family strongly opposed Wangchuk and his first love together, so he was beaten with a stick and could not be killed.
Another time was with Pema's cousin, although this time it was arranged by the royal family, but in the end it was forcibly separated by the Guoshi on the grounds of eight characters.
Wangchuk is rumored to be very fond of Pema's cousin, and the two have been in love for some time. It is difficult for him to act in front of Pema and the people of Bhutan, a deeply affectionate and obsessive husband.
And even after marriage, there are often rumors that Wangchuk has an outer chamber.
It turns out that this romantic love fairy tale is fake, everything is based on lies, and there is no Rausch to wait for the girl to grow up, in fact, it is just a seemingly lively and cold political marriage.
The sweetness that once envyed others became a big joke. And he is like a fool, willing to cooperate with the performance, which will not be too cruel for Pema, who pays love, the moment she learns the truth.
Looking back at king Wangchuk of Bhutan at the wedding, it seems so ironic.
I don't know how Gizing Pema has persuaded himself to accept this cruel truth in countless nights, but the wood has become a boat, and since he can't escape, he will bravely embrace it and see who will laugh to the end.
Now Wangchuk's sister and Pema's brother are happily married, and Pema's sister is also married to Wangchuk's younger brother.
Queen Pema's position is rock solid, and the future throne of the king of Bhutan will also be her son's, which is enough.
Life is an experience, and no one can get everything. Maybe Pema's marriage had many flaws, but at least, she didn't lose all of herself.