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Preface
In the mysterious kingdom of Nabhutan, surrounded by the mountains of Nabhutan, a seven-year-old girl stepped into the royal palace compound, and she was Pema. Although he is still young, he has already shown his innocence.
With childlike curiosity, her eyes widened to explore this new world.
At this moment, a handsome and tall young prince appeared in her sight, it was none other than the seventeen-year-old Caesar. As the heir, he has shown extraordinary wisdom and innate leadership temperament since he was a child, and is known as "the youngest and most handsome head of state in the world".
At this moment, his eyes were also attracted by this lively and cute little girl, staring at her non-stop.
Pema felt that although the prince looked a little cold and serious, there was a gentle look in his eyes, which made her feel a sense of intimacy that she had never felt before. In this unintentional glance, a wonderful force held them together and forged an extraordinary fate.
Although there was a huge age difference between them at that time, one was a lively and immature child, and the other was already a young man, fate secretly bound this pair of people with a world of difference in a wonderful way, laying the groundwork for a moving love story in the future.
At that time, Pema was still a child who knew nothing about love, but when Prince Caesar gazed at her affectionately, her eyes were full of love, and there was an unprecedented throbbing in her heart, as if there was an invisible thin thread that bound them together.
Dull years
Time flies, and twenty-four years have passed in the blink of an eye. The once innocent seven-year-old girl has now grown into a slim and beautiful-looking 21-year-old Pema.
And the seventeen-year-old Prince Kesar, who has grown into the 31-year-old king of Bhutan, has taken on the responsibility of leading the small country.
After a long wait and pursuit, Pema finally waited for the day when she married her sweetheart. On the day of the wedding, she carefully walked on the red carpet with a beautiful yearning, waiting to exchange vows with Caesar and enter the palace of marriage.
And Caesar, as the king, was also lit up by love at the moment, staring affectionately at the bride who came by. When Pema came to him, he held her hand tightly and made a promise, "May you be with me all the days of your life until the sea withers and the rocks rot."
As soon as the oath came out, bursts of cheers of blessings rang out at the scene.
In this way, two people who met at a young age and have been together for 24 years finally connected closely in a new stage of life and opened a new chapter. In the days after their marriage, they were inseparable, holding hands and strolling on the vast wilderness of the motherland, feeling the breeze on their faces, looking at each other and smiling.
From time to time, Caesar put his arm around Pema's shoulders and whispered affectionately.
Ups and downs
Just when Pema thought she had finally found sweet love and started the married life of her dreams, an unexpected thing hit her hard.
Some media suddenly broke the shocking news -- King Caesar had an intimate relationship with a Chinese woman! Later, this mysterious woman also made public some intimate photos with the king, which was very suspicious of personal attacks on him.
For a time, this news caused an uproar across the country and even around the world. The image of Caesar as the king was immediately questioned and hurt, and even more painful was his new wife Pema.
Seeing that her husband was out of the wall before marriage and there were other women around her, Pema was shocked and had mixed feelings in her heart. She had a beautiful vision for this marriage, but she didn't expect it to be so hard hit at the beginning.
Pema began to wonder if she had really known the man, if she had been too naïve and blind at first, and Caesar could not explain this, and the relationship between the couple naturally fell to a freezing point.
Since then, Pema's smile has become less and less. Even in public, she rarely smiles like she used to. Instead, there was a look of indifference and detachment.
She began to be estranged from her husband, and she was also disappointed and helpless in her marriage, which had already cracked.
Between the two, it seems that an invisible gap has appeared, slowly separating them. This should have been a happy newlywed family, but it fell into the whirlpool of crisis.
Back to light
Although Pema and Kesar's marriage was in crisis, there was a glimmer of hope at the 114th anniversary celebrations of the Bhutanese nation.
It was a day to be celebrated throughout the country, and as the country's supreme leader, it was only natural that Caesar would bring Pema and the two princes, a family of four, to the celebration.
Although everyone was skeptical that they would be able to regain their former harmony, the appearance of a family still made the scene boil.
Surprisingly, although the eldest son, the prince, had a melancholy look in his eyes and seemed to be quite sensitive to the contradictions between his parents, the youngest child seemed extremely happy, waving to the crowd from time to time, and his lively and cute appearance made people smile.
And when the whole family took a group photo together, an even more exciting scene appeared - Pema didn't know whether it was intentional or unintentional, but she actually showed a bright smile at the camera! This is clearly the first time she has shown a smile in public for a long time.
What is even more surprising is that Caesar also smiled sincerely and gently put his arms around his wife's shoulders. The family of four took a group photo together in such a warm and harmonious way, as if they had regained the happy times of the past.
This heartwarming family photo immediately made everyone present feel very happy, and people couldn't help but applaud it, wishing the difficult couple to come together again and resolve the crisis.
Princess Diana's Shadow
The news of Pema's marriage crisis undoubtedly sounded a depressing alarm bell in the ears of the world. Many people subconsciously compare her experience to that of the former Princess Diana - both were cheated on by their husbands and betrayed, and the suffocating fate seems to be repeating itself.
After Prince Charles went out of the wall many times, Princess Diana once fell into extreme anger and despair. Deeply engulfed by the injustice of the royal system and her husband's ruthless betrayal, she stubbornly took confrontational measures, but in the end she was powerless and died in a deplorable way.
Seeing Pema's current situation, people couldn't help but pinch a cold sweat for her. As the mother of a nation, what happened to her is really suffocating; But at the same time, she also has too many responsibilities on her shoulders, and she must not make mistakes again and again like Concubine Dian, and end up losing both.
People of insight advised that Pema should learn a lesson from the tragedy of Concubine Dian, and learn to face the predicament in front of her rationally and calmly, instead of going into a desperate situation step by step.
She must restrain the anger in her heart, let go of selfish distractions, and compromise and tolerate for the sake of the future of the country and her children.
As a member of the royal family, Pema was born with a unique mission and responsibility. She should not put her personal emotions above everything, but should use reason and wisdom to resolve the crisis with the attitude of the mother of a country, and avoid repeating the mistakes of Concubine Dian.
Everyone expects that Pema can be stronger than Concubine Dian, face the test of marriage with a more noble realm, and finally be able to turn things around and get out of the haze.
Cherish the present
After a period of struggle and reflection, Pema finally got out of the haze of marital crisis, and she began to look at her situation with new eyes.
She realizes that although her husband may no longer be able to love her with all his heart as he once did, she still has at least two lovely sons and a plain but dignified married life.
As the queen of Bhutan, she should think more about her country and her heirs, rather than dwelling on personal gains and losses.
So Pema let go of the illusion of being the sole favor of her husband and began to learn to be tolerant and tolerant. She calmly accepted the reality and decided to cherish what she had right now.
Pema seems to have regained her life from the gloom of her marriage. She learns to find meaning in life under limited conditions, and turns her attention more to her children.
Although the marriage is not as good as imagined, at least the future of her and her children is guaranteed.
Yes, the love of the only pet may not be realized, but the warmth of the family is also worth cherishing. Pema made a choice, she wanted to put aside her children's selfish feelings, go down to earth, and hold up a piece of the sky for future generations.
In this way, the queen, who was once in a marriage crisis, finally got back on the right track in life. She gave up the illusion of being alone in love, and instead focused on the affairs of her children and the country, and wrote a new chapter with tolerance and understanding.