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Bai Qinglin
Mention Bai Qinglin's name, the first sentence of most people who are familiar with her is: Pity!
Why do people feel this way? Let's take a look at the story that happened to her today.
01 Beautiful, kind and lively "Xiang Girl"
Born in 1981 in Yueyang, Hunan, Bai Qinglin is a typical "Xiang girl".
Bai Qinglin's parents both work in the railway system, although the family is ordinary, not particularly rich, but she has been their treasure since childhood, and their love has made her grow into a kind and lively, positive and confident beauty.
Early years bai qinglin
Bai Qinglin has been active since she was a child, in the words of her mother, "not at all", once her mother took her to Guilin for a tour, the appearance of the Guilin landscape she has not remembered, only remember the daughter who jumped up and down, let her take care of it so tired.
In addition to being active, Bai Qinglin is also very smart and likes to perform, when she was three years old, she participated in a bodybuilding children's competition, when there was a question that tested intelligence: "There are beans in the bottle, give you a pair of chopsticks, see how you take it out to eat?" ”
After the other children saw it, they were anxious to cry, only Bai Qinglin, she rushed up and turned the bottle upside down, grabbed the beans and fed them in her mouth.
At that time, the teachers laughed and praised her for being smart.
Early years bai qinglin
Perhaps, it is Bai Qinglin's lively and active personality that makes her embark on the road of art in the future.
Bai Qinglin's mother said: "Linlin showed a bit of artistic talent when she was a child, once she followed the children to the children's art troupe to take the exam, she learned "Huo Yuanjia" crooked and drunk fist next to her. ”
She imitated the picture very well, and this scene happened to be seen by the teacher, who found the Bai family's parents and said:
This child is very talented, no matter what, you have to send her to learn, and there will be great potential in the future.
Her parents listened to the teacher's advice and sent her to the art troupe to participate in the study, but at that time, they did not think so far, and the most considered was the child's preferences.
But Bai Qinglin's performance did not disappoint, she has a full passion for artistic performance, actively participates in various activities, when in school, she participates in speech competitions, as a children's program host.
The first time Bai Qinglin saw the scene of filming was in the place where her mother worked, when a TV series with the theme of the War of Resistance was filming in Chenglingji.
She would go to see them every day, see them finish their work every time, and sometimes chase the crew's car for a long distance, just hoping to get closer to them, and then she was full of interest in acting.
After going to junior high school, Bai Qingling is more determined by her ideals, she finds the opportunity to exercise herself, as long as the school has activities, no matter how big or small she will actively strive to be a host, these activities not only exercise her guts, but also accumulate experience.
As she grew older, Bai Qingling became more beautiful.
She seems to have been born to really eat this bowl of rice, not only was she born with excellent conditions, but she herself was also very hard the day after tomorrow, in addition to her outstanding talent, her cultural achievements did not fall.
When she graduated from junior high school, she was photographed by the Hunan Provincial Art School and officially started her art professional training.
Bai Qinglin's parents thought that their daughter went to art school, that is, with the interest, after graduation may be in her hometown as an art teacher is also safe, Bai Qinglin can not only think so, she has ambition, and has this ability.
02 Let it go and leave no regrets
In March 1999, Bai Qinglin, who was studying at the provincial art school, was about to face the college entrance examination.
She made a decision that surprised her parents and family, and she wanted to apply for the Beijing Film Academy.
When they learned the news, they all thought she was crazy, the Beijing Film Academy, which is one of the highest schools of Chinese art, when they let her go to art school, they just followed their preferences, and they did not have too many extravagant expectations.
At that time, no one believed that Bai Qinglin could, and the director of "People Inside the High Wall" she participated in filming also advised her:
The exam is quite difficult, and if you can't pass the exam, it's not that I deliberately beat you back.
Bai Qinglin knows how many people's star dreams are admitted to North Film, just like thousands of troops crossing the canoe bridge.
But she is a girl who does not accept defeat, and the more others are not optimistic, the more she has to try to let go, not to prove to anyone, but to not leave regrets for herself.
Although the mother felt that this was a fantasy, she believed in her when she saw her daughter so determined, so two days before the exam, she accompanied her daughter on the train to Beijing.
When the mother and daughter first arrived in Beijing, they were not familiar with the place, and the hotel guest house near the school was all full, and it was difficult to find the basement of the guest house in an air raid shelter to settle down.
There were four or five thousand candidates who took the exam that year, they came from all over the country, but the college only had 25 admission places, and many of these students who took the exam had already starred in blockbusters and even became popular.
There are also some other students whose parents drive luxurious runs to accompany the exam, that is to say, the background of the students who take the art exam is quite strong, while Bai Qinglin's mother and daughter are very ordinary.
But Bai Qinglin had confidence in herself, the first two games faced 20 examiners, she calmly and smoothly passed, and the number of examiners increased to 40 when the re-examination was held, and one of the examiners also specifically raised political and economic questions to her.
This is a very unexpected question, because the previous involves sketches, language, recitation, acting, imitation and so on, but she has one more issue related to economic politics, but Bai Qinglin is not in a hurry, talks about her opinions, and the examiner is very satisfied.
However, on the day of the re-examination of the list, Bai Qinglin was particularly nervous, she hid and did not dare to look, it was the mother who watched for more than ten minutes in front of the list, and did not find her daughter's test number, she was really too nervous.
Bai Qinglin waited for her mother for a long time and she did not come, she trotted all the way to the place where Zhang Bang wanted to pull her mother away, but she still glanced at the list unwillingly, but she did not expect that she saw her own examination number and shouted:
Mom, I got in!
Bai Qinglin hugged her mother and cried excitedly, while their mother and daughter hugged together, there were many people crying, some were like them who were admitted to the exam and cried, more because they fell off the list and cried sadly.
In this way, Bai Qinglin was not only admitted to the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy, but also enrolled with the first professional result, and became a classmate with Yao Chen, Ling Xiaosu, Du Chun and others.
Later, the head of the department told Bai Qinglin: "After so many years of proctoring and facing so many candidates, I am most satisfied with the questions you answered." He gave her a thumbs up.
The luck of the hard-working girls will not be too bad, and Bai Qinglin was fortunate to play the role of "Xiao Yu'er" in "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang" when she was still in school.
I believe that people who have watched this drama are very impressed by this role.
Stills of Bai Qinglin's "The Secret History of Xiaozhuang"
03 Debut is popular
Bai Qinglin said that the role of "Xiao Yu'er" was accidentally bumped into.
On that day, director You Xiaogang brought the "Secret History of Xiaozhuang" crew to their school to pick people, and Bai Qinglin's classmates went solemnly, only she was late, and she rushed over with a straight face.
What was even more surprising was that she asked a stranger on the way for the time, and this person was no one else, it was You Xiaogang.
Later, Bai Qinglin analyzed that she was selected to replace Li Xiang to play "Xiao Yu'er" after passing the interview, "It should be that You Dao has never seen such a rash girl." ”
Sure enough, You Xiaogang later called Bai Qinglin's appearance and personality very similar to Quan Zhixian, so he called her "mainland savage girlfriend".
Of course, it was also Bai Qinglin who had this strength, for them who had not yet graduated at that time, they were actually not allowed to go out to act, but because her role in the play was relatively heavy, the play agreed to let her go to the scene.
She did not disappoint, in the play she played the "Little Yu'er" to play with Tranquility and Ma Jingtao, as a fledgling actor, she caught up, but also learned a lot from them.
As a "Mongolian princess", Xiao Yu'er has a cruel, willful, jealous but also infatuated, in the face of love, she has never been able to get the sincere treatment of "Dolgun", until the final incense disappears.
Among them, Bai Qinglin interpreted the plot of Xiao Yu'er's love to the fullest, and with this role, she won the applause of the whole hall and won the attention and recognition of the industry and the audience.
After becoming popular with "Xiao Yu'er", Bai Qinglin partnered with director You Xiaogang and Ma Jingtao for the second time to act in "The Secret History of the Crown Prince".
This time, Bai Qinglin starred in "Princess Shu Lun", a role deep and with the style of a mother, and "Xiao Yu'er" is two diametrically opposed roles, but from youth to sophistication, bai Qinglin is properly pinched.
These two Qing Palace plays won the audience for Bai Qinglin, who was called "a woman as graceful as a flower" because of her unique temperament and beautiful appearance.
After that, Bai Qinglin also starred in many dramas such as Turkic princesses, Uyghur princesses and other princess figures, they are gentle and beautiful or amorous and resolute, under her interpretation, a smile, every move makes people believe that she is a princess born in that era, so she is called "foreign princess professional household" by the audience.
In fact, Bai Qinglin's plasticity is very strong, not only costume drama, playing a princess brilliant, modern urban drama, she can also.
And she herself believes that actors should not only have a fixed image, she hopes that she can try more roles, different styles, and constantly break through herself to find more suitable roles for herself.
She did indeed do it, for example, in "Silence and Lies", "Marriage March", "China's Past", "Love Is Not Wrong", "Oath to This Life", "Happiness Falls from The Sky", "Mission 1915" and other urban emotional dramas, period dramas, spy dramas, legendary dramas have appeared in wonderful performances.
Unfortunately, an actor with good looks and acting skills like her was hidden by the company for five years in the best time, and she could have become a first-line actor with great popularity, but it was a pity.
From Bai Qinglin's blog
However, at that time, Bai Qinglin was not deeply involved in the world.
The company did not arrange any activities for her, and she only starred in one of the company's plays in five years, and she did not realize that it was Snow Hidden, until she left the company.
What is even more surprising is that she only learned that the artist was going to participate in the event after signing a new agency, and once when the owner of the new company was ready to take her to the event, she found that she did not even have a pair of high heels.
It's really a really one... thing.
04 Fall in love
Maybe the road ahead was too smooth, and God was going to put her to the test.
If Bai Qinglin was hidden by the company and missed the golden time of filming, it is a pity, then it is a surprise that she divorced and became a single mother.
Because before the divorce, they were in love like that, and they also shared the story of their acquaintance and love on the "Very Couple" column together, and at that time, they could feel sweet across the screen.
Unfortunately, the marriage lasted only two years, and it ended in divorce, and it was still in such an ugly way.
Bai Qinglin and Xu Monk
Bai Qinglin's ex-husband is Xu Monk, who is also an actor, and the two met in the movie "Vegetable Garden Street Awakening Lion Club", in which they play a couple, but they do not continue the love affair in the play to reality like other actors and couples.
Although Xu Monk had a good impression of Bai Qinglin at that time, and after the first meeting, he felt that she was the "most beautiful actress in China" in his mind, but Bai Qinglin did not have a good impression of her, only that this person was very "strange", so there was no spark.
Therefore, after the film was completed, the two ran to each other and filmed their own plays, during which Xu Monk starred in dramas such as "Stinger", "Wolf Smoke Beiping", "See A Lang Again", "Shocking Sand", "Sharp Gun" and so on, and his fame is also getting bigger and bigger.
Xu Monk is handsome in appearance, and most of the actors he plays in the play are iron-blooded heroes, and he is praised by the audience as a "tough guy professional household" together with Yu Zhen, Shen Xiaohai, Wang Ting, etc.
Such a Xu monk and Bai Qinglin are very well matched, and the fate of the two of them is also strange.
Although at first they looked at each other and hated each other, but later after experiencing some things, they found that they were the same people in the same way, and they had different feelings for each other.
In the Spring Festival of 2011, Bai Qinglin's grandfather died of illness, and she posted a message on her social platform, and Xu Monk sent her a message after seeing it.
In this way, the two people have a connection after that, and when they come and go, the two have a new understanding of each other, and they have a different feeling in their hearts.
In March 2011, Xu Monk went on a trip to Tibet, and suddenly, he especially wanted to see Bai Qinglin, and he was afraid that it would be too late to say something now, so he rushed to Hengdian with his bags and dusty servants to visit Bai Qinglin, who was filming.
The moment the four eyes are facing each other, without too much language, the feelings of the two people for each other have been transmitted to each other through the eyes.
In this way, the two of them changed from looking at each other and hating each other to being like glue, and then the two also co-starred in a "Vow to This Life".
In June 2012, Bai Qinglin and Xu Monk officially entered into marriage and gave birth to a lovely daughter the following year.
Xu Monk and Pregnant Bai Qinglin
Although there will be some small friction before and after marriage, they regard this as a small interest in life, and they believe that in this kind of small quarrel, they will be able to continue their love and run a beautiful marriage.
At that time, people who liked them also sincerely sent blessings, believing that the little couple could be happy, but they did not think that it was less than three years, only a little more than two years, Bai Qinglin broke the "five deadly sins" of Xu Monk on the social platform, and publicly divorced the news.
05 What happened after the divorce?
From Bai Qinglin's dynamics, we can see that Xu Monk not only cheated in marriage, prostituted C, but also harassed the actress in the middle of the night in the crew, disrespected her parents, and so on, so that she couldn't bear to choose this way to inform the public.
In the face of Bai Qinglin's accusations, Xu Monk only had five words to respond, "Tell the world."
He did not defend himself, nor did he tear up with Bai Qinglin, but the next day he also responded on his Weibo, which was just a simple sentence:
It's a public platform, Qinglin, you shouldn't be like this. Can outsiders know about things at home?
In the face of Xu Monk's response, many people in the outside world believe that he acquiesced to the accusations, because he was labeled as a "scumbag", if all these accusations are true, then Xu Monk is really as the public said, but "can outsiders know about the affairs of the family?" ”
Every family has a difficult scripture, and the truth is known only to themselves.
But what the public can see is that they are divorced, married for two years and two months, and their marriage has come to an end.
After the divorce, the daughter lived with Bai Qinglin, she became a single mother, and now they have been divorced for more than 7 years, Bai Qinglin took care of her daughter while filming, and lived herself as her husband.
As for personal feelings, they have not been public about whether they will remarry, and perhaps after experiencing a failed marriage, it is difficult for each other to deliver a new relationship, simply focusing on children and careers.
In the past two years, Bai Qinglin has played roles in "An Jia", "Trumpeter in Place", and "Don't Say Goodbye", although the role is not heavy, but her appearance is still impressive.
Nearly middle-aged, she is still so beautiful, the state is still so good, which can also be seen that after the divorce, she still lives very well.
Although Xu Monk was labeled badly, but his career was not damaged, over the years, he has successively filmed "The World's Grain Field", "My Pressure Man", "Great Prospects", "Crossing the Yalu River", "Armageddon" and many other popular dramas.
Perhaps, this is the best ending for them.
It's easy to fall in love, it's hard to be white.
From June 2012 to December 2014, the marriage, which lasted less than three years, eventually died.
In "Knowing or Not", Minglan said: "In this world, no one is anyone's backer, it is best not to count on others too much, the more you count on, it is inevitable that there will be some disappointment, the greater the disappointment, the more resentment, resentment for a lifetime, hatred will arise, this day will be sad." ”
Looking back at the relationship between Bai Qinglin and Xu Monk, when it came and went quickly, it could not help but make people sigh, it is easy to love each other, it is difficult to get along, and although there are regrets and regrets in stopping the loss in time, it may be the best responsibility for the two people.
I believe that at the beginning, they married for happiness, and then divorced for happiness, I hope that every couple can start with sincerity, end with a white head and old age, it is really not as desired, please also keep decent.
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