When people leave in their old age, it is a natural law of life and death, inevitable, and reasonable, and the degree of people's grief is relatively reduced.
However, the departure of some people makes people want to cry without tears, depressed, and should enjoy the age of life, but suddenly pass away, which is really heart-wrenching.
In 2002, actress Li Yuanyuan died of illness in Beijing, and she spent only 41 spring, summer, autumn and winter in this world, and then left forever.
For this world, Li Yuanyuan still has many wishes, but cancer comes, and Li Yuanyuan has to say goodbye to everything around her.
At the last moment of her life, Li Yuanyuan watched her two-year-old son cry bitterly, and the road for the rest of her life could only be carried out by her husband with her children.
Now 20 years later, how has Li Yuanyuan's husband lived, why did he swear that he would not marry again in this life, and how did the son of the two live?
01.
On June 18, 1961, Li Yuanyuan was born, and the excellent family atmosphere made Li Yuanyuan's future life path and direction clear and clear.
Her parents were doing work related to literature and art, which caused Li Yuanyuan to have a different understanding of the cause of literature and art early on.
As a drama director, my father was very busy on weekdays, and he often took Li Yuanyuan with him when rehearsing plays.
Li Yuanyuan knew that her father was at work, so she obediently waited next to her.
But such days are repeated every day, and Li Yuanyuan also found out what her father did, and she became a little interested.
After that, in school, as long as there are literary and artistic activities, Li Yuanyuan will introduce herself and not miss every opportunity to perform.
After becoming a small expert in the school's literary and art propaganda team, Li Yuanyuan studied and rehearsed model plays, Peking opera, etc.
Slowly, Li Yuanyuan became versatile, and the parents saw that their daughter's talent was first revealed, and they planned to send Li Yuanyuan to a professional school to study.
After that, Li Yuanyuan was assigned to the song and dance troupe through her own efforts.
Staying in the song and dance troupe until the age of 16, Li Yuanyuan made the Shanghai Theater Academy her goal to study.
All aspects of the conditions are very good, professional is also excellent, Li Yuanyuan in 1977 successfully became a new student in the department of opera performance.
During college, Li Yuanyuan cherished time very much, and she often rehearsed dramas alone until late at night, just to present the best performance effect on the stage.
In a few years, drama has made Li Yuanyuan, and in "The Merchant of Venice" and "One Servant and Two Lords", li Yuanyuan's roles are impressive.
02.
At the time of graduation, other students have successively found their own suitable positions and entered the corresponding circles, but Li Yuanyuan, as an acting department, hesitated.
Instead, she wanted to stay at school and become a university teacher.
After staying in school, Li Yuanyuan swept the whole school, and everyone knows that the Shanghai Theater Academy has the youngest and most outstanding acting teacher, Li Yuanyuan.
So in the days of teaching at the school, Li Yuanyuan was sought after by many students.
But at the same time as the scenery is infinite, Li Yuanyuan's mentor feels a headache, he thinks that Li Yuanyuan has such good conditions and should not stay in such a small place as the school.
If you enter the entertainment industry to shoot, you may have better prospects for development.
But Li Yuanyuan thinks that her current life is good, teaching and teaching, and she can rehearse dramas in her spare time and live comfortably.
But the mentor still did not give up persuading Li Yuanyuan, as long as he saw Li Yuanyuan, he would tell her a bunch of reasoning.
Over time, Li Yuanyuan also began to have the idea of leaving the campus.
03.
So in 1983, Li Yuanyuan began to grope in the show business circle.
This year, Li Yuanyuan received a movie to shoot.
In the film "Li Bing", Li Yuanyuan played the simple, pure girl Cuckoo.
Although Li Yuanyuan is not the main role in this film, her acting skills on the screen for the first time let the director and the audience remember her.
In 1984, Li Yuanyuan was invited by the Shanghai Youth Repertory Theatre to rehearse a new play, Antony and Cleopatra.
It was also this opportunity that Li Yuanyuan tasted the fruits of love for the first time.
It was just that Li Yuanyuan was 23 years old at that time, and she was in her youth, but the man she fell in love with was 25 years older than her.
So that this relationship has not been favored by people, and even controversial.
This "Anthony and Cleopatra", in the drama, belongs to the performance with a large difficulty coefficient.
In order to achieve better results, the male protagonist set Jiao Huang, who is already 48 years old, and the female protagonist is Li Yuanyuan.
As the male and female protagonists, the two know each other's importance in the play, day and night, Jiao Huang and Li Yuanyuan are very concerned about time, in addition to eating and sleeping, both of them are in the rehearsal room.
The others ended early and went back to rest, still memorizing their lines in the rehearsal room, busy late into the night.
It is said that it is very common for actors to have feelings because of drama, and Li Yuanyuan and Jiao Huang are also getting along day by day, unconsciously falling in love with each other.
At first, it was Jiao Huang, who was still a newcomer in the circle, who was very surprised that Li Yuanyuan could suffer so much, and Li Yuanyuan on the other side was touched by the professionalism of her predecessors and was very revered in her heart.
But Jiao Huang, who is 48 years old, has had two marriages, and even Jiao Huang at that time has not yet divorced.
And Li Yuanyuan has not yet fallen in love, is a pure and flawless girl, in that era, such a combination of two people, will be looked down upon, criticized.
Li Yuanyuan's side, without the support of her parents, the blessings of her friends, and Jiao Huang's side, she did not dare to have further ideas for such a perfect girl.
So for various reasons, Li Yuanyuan and Jiao Huang went their separate ways, and there was no contact anymore.
04.
Letting his throbbing feelings have no results, Li Yuanyuan is a little sad.
However, Li Yuanyuan did not lack suitors around her, so soon after, she got married.
This time, Li Yuanyuan did not take the risk again, her other half Liu Guoqing, is a screenwriter, or her own alumni, know the roots.
So shortly after falling in love, Li Yuanyuan and Liu Guoqing received a marriage license.
In the newlywed life, Li Yuanyuan is like immersed in a honeypot, she is well cared for by her husband, and when Li Yuanyuan is not busy filming, she will accompany her husband at home.
As an actor, when Li Yuanyuan saw that her husband could not write a manuscript, she would come forward to enlighten, tell her husband her thoughts, and share the responsibility.
It was only after such a day became a habit that Liu Guoqing was somewhat dissatisfied, and he began to disapprove of his wife's ideas and was paranoid about his own unique opinions.
After a long time, Li Yuanyuan also could not resist the impulse in her heart and quarreled with her husband.
Since then, the warm home has never returned, and the marriage between the two has come to an end in a series of disputes and loss of control.
Fortunately, frustrated in the love scene, Li Yuanyuan's career began to move smoothly, she starred in several works, and received great support from the audience.
In "Morning in Shanghai", the role of Lin Wanzhi is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and in "Siege of the City", the role of Su Wenyun is well-known.
Since then, the audience has become more and more fond of this beautiful actress named Li Yuanyuan.
05.
When she was full of spirits, Li Yuanyuan's second marriage quietly arrived.
In a chance encounter, Li Yuanyuan and the wealthy businessman Yang Cheng met.
The first time Yang Cheng met Li Yuanyuan, he fell deeply in love with each other, and they both had been hurt because of their marriage, so they stayed together and rarely talked.
Yang Cheng knows how to relieve Li Yuanyuan's inner sorrow, do everything in great detail, considerate and gentle, Li Yuanyuan trusts Yang Cheng, as long as there is something in her heart, Li Yuanyuan will find Yang Cheng to tell.
Gradually, Yang Cheng and Li Yuanyuan got closer and closer.
However, in the eyes of outsiders, Yang Cheng is a businessman and is not a circle with Li Yuanyuan, afraid that Li Yuanyuan will once again plant a head in marriage.
But this time, Li Yuanyuan firmly believed that Yang Cheng was the destination of his life and the most secure harbor.
Soon, Yang Cheng married Li Yuanyuan back home.
One in the entertainment industry to work hard, one in the business field, through thorns, back home, the two enjoy life, life is full of taste.
In 1996, the 35-year-old Li Yuanyuan won the first heavyweight award in her life for her role "Zheng Adai", the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actress.
Shrouded in an aura, Li Yuanyuan became popular, but her career had blossomed, but Li Yuanyuan began to worry that she and her husband did not have a son and a half daughter.
So back home, Li Yuanyuan and her husband discussed wanting a child, and Yang Cheng also agreed with his wife's idea and began to prepare.
Unexpectedly, Li Yuanyuan received a new play on the other side and had to start filming, so Li Yuanyuan went to the "Century Life" crew and began to play the role of Dong Zhujun.
Under the busyness, Li Yuanyuan did not care so much, but she was also afraid of being older and not good at having children.
Who knows that everything is so coincidental, Li Yuanyuan is pregnant with a baby after filming the century of life.
Yang Cheng was extremely excited to learn that his wife was pregnant.
In order to take good care of his wife's health, Yang Cheng disregarded his work and concentrated on guarding Li Yuanyuan at home.
But pregnant in October, Li Yuanyuan's body, but constantly send out abnormal signals, Li Yuanyuan found that since she had a baby in her belly, she would bleed every once in a while.
At first, Li Yuanyuan did not care, only felt that she was old, so her health was not very good.
After the pregnancy, Li Yuanyuan was very careful, she was bent on protecting the child in her belly, hoping that he could be born safely.
After a long ten months, Li Yuanyuan was finally pushed into the delivery room, accompanied by the crying of the baby, Li Yuanyuan and Yang Cheng had a son.
Watching her son's every move, Li Yuanyuan was very happy, at that moment, she forgot the pain of the past, and she did not even remember the phenomenon that she had shed blood.
06.
Just over a month after giving birth to the child, Li Yuanyuan's body began to bleed again.
She went to the hospital for examination, but the result was difficult to accept, Li Yuanyuan was diagnosed with cervical cancer, or advanced.
Such news reached the ears of the family, and the good life was instantly destroyed.
Even Li Yuanyuan did not want to believe it, only thinking that this was a misunderstanding, not a fact, but the hospital appeared one report after another, and Li Yuanyuan had no way to deceive herself again.
She began to accept this harsh reality, to accept the arrangement of fate.
Before being hospitalized, Yang Cheng prepared a camera, he wanted to record the time the family spent together, and asked his wife to feed his son for the last time.
After that, Li Yuanyuan was admitted to the hospital for treatment, and once again lying on the bed, Li Yuanyuan's mood experienced a cliff-like blow.
But fortunately, her son was born, which made Li Yuanyuan feel relieved.
During the hospitalization, Li Yuanyuan quickly underwent surgery, his wife was tortured by illness, Yang Cheng did not abandon it, and has been accompanying Li Yuanyuan on standby.
In order to make his wife alleviate her pain, Yang Cheng found the best doctor for Li Yuanyuan, the best single ward, everything in the ward, refrigerator, VCD, induction cooker.
Yang Cheng was afraid that Li Yuanyuan was worried, and had always shown himself to be very strong, but in the dead of night, Yang Cheng would still go outside alone to drink to relieve his inner sorrows.
Such a man always puts the pain in his heart and does not let his wife find out.
It's just that after the operation, Li Yuanyuan can't be discharged from the hospital, because there are countless times of chemotherapy waiting for her.
In the face of chemotherapy, Li Yuanyuan is very strong, and she has never thought of giving up on herself.
Even when admitted to the hospital, the doctor said that the chance of such cancer surviving in the world is very small.
It's just that Li Yuanyuan is not discouraged, and she still thinks about which day to return to the stage and return to her own place.
In order to make her mental state better, Li Yuanyuan decorated her hospital room, which had flowers and family photos, and everything looked particularly warm and loving.
Every week, Yang Cheng would bring his son to reunite with his mother, which was the happiest time for the family.
Only after many times of chemotherapy, Li Yuanyuan's external image has undergone great changes, and her thick hair has gradually fallen out.
Every time I wash my hair, a large handful of hair will fall off, and Li Yuanyuan looks at herself in the mirror and has some internal breakdowns.
In order to make the torment time shorter, Li Yuanyuan simply cut her hair and became a bald head, so she no longer had to worry about looking in the mirror every day.
07.
However, the disease came quickly, and it did not let Go of Li Yuanyuan.
In 2002, Li Yuanyuan's condition worsened again, and she had a premonition that she did not have much time, so Li Yuanyuan asked her husband to take her out again.
The two went on a trip to see the world's last landscape, Yang Cheng promised his wife, he adjusted his mentality, and took Li Yuanyuan to Shandong for ten days.
In September, Li Yuanyuan went to the hospital for the last time, and this time, Li Yuanyuan's state was so bad that she had no way to stand up and could only sit in a wheelchair.
In the few days that lasted, the person Li Yuanyuan remembered most was her son, who was just two years old.
In October, Li Yuanyuan shouted every day to see her son, the medical staff listened to the most, but also Li Yuanyuan asked her family to bring her son, even if she had no strength and was mentally weak, Li Yuanyuan still endured the pain, held her son, and made her son happy.
Just the child in her arms, but I don't know that my mother is terminally ill and there is not much time.
On October 16, 2002, Li Yuanyuan met her son for the last time, she told her husband that she was not willing, she was very weak, she could not rest assured of her mother, regretting that the career could not be completed again.
Subsequently, Li Yuanyuan entered a coma and was pushed into the rescue room, and after two days and one night of treatment, Li Yuanyuan failed to survive.
On October 20, Li Yuanyuan's years came to an abrupt end at the age of 41, and she was full of regrets and was reluctant to leave this world.
Six days later, Li Yuanyuan's farewell ceremony was held, and thousands of people came to the scene, as well as Li Yuanyuan's friends and colleagues, all immersed in grief.
The saddest thing is that li yuanyuan's husband Yang Cheng, since the moment Li Yuanyuan fell ill, Yang Cheng began to be busy, giving his wife everything a good care, so that she could be at ease with treatment.
At that time, no matter how busy Yang Cheng was, he would go home to cook and then take it to the hospital to give his wife food.
After Li Yuanyuan left, Yang Cheng missed his wife too much, and he also returned to the ward where his wife lived alone, recalling the last bits and pieces of the two.
08.
Today, Li Yuanyuan has been gone for 20 years, and her and Yang Cheng's son, 22 years old, has grown into a big boy, filial piety, both sensible and obedient.
This 22-year-old boy, when he grows up, knows everything about that year, he knows that his mother was not easy, did not think about himself, and finally missed the best period of treatment.
When thinking about his mother, the eldest boy would take out a picture of Li Yuanyuan and see that gentle face, as if his mother had never left.
As the days go by, remembering his mother has become something that the big boy has always insisted on, even if the memory of his childhood has been blurred, as long as he sees his mother's photo, he can feel his mother's temperature.
What Yang Cheng has been doing for 20 years is to accompany his son to grow up, he did not remarry, and he swore that in this life, his lover is only Li Yuanyuan.
The promise to his wife, Yang Cheng has been practicing for 20 years, and for the rest of his life, he will still carry this firmness and go on.
Life is short, art is thousands of autumns, looking back at the Chinese screen in the 20th century, I believe that everyone will not forget the actress Li Yuanyuan, who has an elegant temperament and excellent acting skills.