When I was a child, my mother always said to be sensible, not to let others worry, not to create trouble for others, to let others not create trouble... However, when I grew up, I realized that my life suffered losses in being too sensible, this understanding is to understand other people's affairs, understand the suffering of others, easily be impressed by others, and even when I am in conflict with others, obey the will of others and sacrifice my own interests for others. However, I didn't do anything for myself, and I didn't understand myself. Even I was thinking that this rotten virtue was actually more disgusting than burning and looting, and that he might lead to the destruction of my fate. But to put it bluntly, I didn't fight for myself a little in my life, and I said that children who can cry have milk, so what do we children who don't cry get? (Are you sensible?) What have you done to seek perfection? Leave me a message below, let's hug each other! Today, we will talk about the 3 signs that would rather suffer losses than treat others badly, and be too concerned about the feelings of others.
Libra:
Libra is really a peace-loving messenger, and in the eyes of Libra there are no bad people, mild personality does not love to be angry, would rather suffer losses than hurt others, even if they are hurt, everything in the world of the scales is beautiful, but this does not mean that the scales are good and evil, do not take the scales to your good under the feet as a matter of course, once the heart of the scales is hurt, then there will no longer be you in his eyes.
Libras, whether in life or in work, are a very good temper, although popular, but also the most concessions of the people, this character of our scales is not in contention, only wait for others to notice us, do not like to do the kind of people who pinch the tip, but do not know how to fight for themselves people really lost a lot of opportunities, I hope that the future scales with their own maturity to think more about themselves, to fight for themselves a little more.
Taurus:
As long as Taurus is with people they are familiar with, the first thing they consider is the feelings of the other party, and they do things first based on each other's interests, they can consider all aspects of each other, but they can't even think of themselves, in front of their close people, their strength is gone, leaving their own softness and kindness. For Taurus people, as long as they can be put in their hearts, they are very important people, for these important people, they can suffer some losses themselves, absolutely can not let the other party suffer losses, they will not complain when they are wronged.
Taurus is stubborn and calm, don't think that they honestly seem to be good bullies, honesty and kindness are only based on mutual respect between the two sides, because they don't like to fight, they would rather suffer losses, concessions, and pursue peaceful coexistence, but if someone obviously bulls Taurus, they will always beat each other into the cold palace, so that the other party will never appear in front of them. #福特金牛座 #
Cancer:
Cancer people are usually gentle and kind, and insecure. They often consider problems from each other's point of view, and if they find that other people's faces are damaged, they will find ways to break the siege for them. In ordinary life, even if some people do something wrong, Cancer will take care of their faces, will not say a word, even if they stand behind each other to wipe their butts, they will not easily let others lose face.
Cancer is not only a person who will wronged himself for the sake of others, but also swallow all his grievances into his stomach and not let others see their grievances. Cancer doesn't care if they suffer a loss in a relationship, they are really kind, and the kind would rather suffer their own loss than let others suffer. Although it is a blessing to suffer losses, you can't always let yourself be bullied, you must learn to protect yourself, kindness is not bad, but you can't always wronged yourself because of your kindness, let yourself be hurt.
Conclusion: Are you upset by your kindness or your own condescension? What kind of person are you? Leave a message below to tell your story, let's hug each other together.