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Member of the lecturer group of the Yubei District Family Education Mobile School - Tu Lijun
Parenting ambition is key
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On April 28, after I received a text message from the District Women's Federation, I immediately forwarded it to the family of three, and my daughter immediately replied to me, "Tell me how you taught me from the details of life." I asked, "How do you educate you?" Daughter: "For example, the diary of planting vegetables, the diary of raising pets, the dictionary of family happiness, the classic recitation in the morning, the "Today's Statement" at noon, the lottery to exchange feelings ..."
Yes, these are my "Parenting Golden Formula": when I was pregnant, I used to read books, listen to the guqin, and guzheng for prenatal education. Seven days after the child was born and discharged from the hospital, I began to record her growth in a diary, and set training goals in the form of tables, cultivating her temperament, love, responsibility, habits, optimism, interest, temperament, diligence, time management and other qualities from four aspects: temperament, morality, will, and intelligence.
At one year and three months, you can eat with chopsticks, you can get up at night and get dressed and undress at the age of two, take care of your mother on the train for five days at the age of two and nine, cook your own food at the age of four, and start keeping your own diary at the age of five when you go to elementary school. After middle school, take students to the nursing home to volunteer. The university established the Hanfu Club of China University of Political Science and Law and served as its first president. Participated in CCTV's "Happy Dictionary" and donated the first prize prize to Hanfu Society. To this day, I insist on keeping a diary every day, sometimes playing the guqin, painting, doing handicrafts... Make your own meals every day, take the initiative to greet your parents every day, share the gains and losses at work every day... Relatives, neighbors, strangers, everyone cares, family affairs, state affairs, world affairs, everything cares. The child also set up a family rule for our family of three, family style.
Looking back on the past of parenting, it is found that the methods of parenting are different from person to person and are ever-changing, but what kind of person to cultivate children into is immutable. Mr. Yang Ming said: Nothing can be done without the will to establish the world. Since I was a child, I have also made many ambitions: what kind of home to be, what profession to do, in fact, are the aspirations of fame and wealth. Aspirants, their hearts yearn to be a scholar and a person. The combination of ten and one is to be able to turn ten into one: to find the law and essence of things from the complex phenomena; to keep ten as one, to keep one in temptation; and on this basis, although the scholar is unarmed, he can use one to ten. A soldier cannot fail to carry out his duties, and the task is heavy and the road is long.
It is said that children grow up watching the backs of their parents, and the determination of children is first of all the determination of parents. Determination is like a seed, determined in the heart, to be a responsible, with great love, to let go of the ego to serve the public of the reader, not just an intellectual. Under the influence of parents, children's patterns and realms are naturally large. Academic performance improvement is a matter of course. The problems of primary school learning habits, interests, homework checks, and adolescence are not problems at all.
The previous parenting is a specific way to achieve ambition, and determination is the direction and foundation.
Determination is the best gift that parents can give to their children. Let children become spontaneous combustion talents and complete self-education, rather than problems such as parents to fight fires.
It's never too late to aspire. At present, I aspire to be a family education instructor and traditional culture disseminator. Parents study hard, and children will improve every day.
May 18th Aspire Day, love her, let her aspire, deep love will be "lihongzhi, be a strivers", I believe that our future will be better and better. Thank you!
Instructor Profile
Tu Lijun: Retired teacher of the Party School of the Yubei District Party Committee, the first batch of backbone teachers in Chongqing, and "Carry forward the fine tradition of family style and tutoring, strengthen the family construction of party members and cadres", respectively, won the "Excellent Course" and "Good Course" awards of the Chongqing Municipal Party School System (Administrative College) and the Organization Department of the Municipal Party Committee.
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