In this life, people live to be exquisite, not to be, a person who pays attention to things, and has his own principles and bottom lines.
People often say that the character is seen in the details, the virtue is seen in the small things, and a person who pays attention to it is all qualities in his words and deeds.
For example, some people never reply after reading WeChat, and people who pay attention will always reply in time, which is probably the so-called "big things have explanations, small things have replies."
In addition to life, time is the most precious thing in the world, so wasting time is undoubtedly wasting life.
Punctuality is the most basic quality of a person, people who waste other people's time are not trustworthy, and people who waste their time are not worthy of respect.
Regretting time is the wisest choice for a person, time is gone, in a limited time, grasp the opportunity, do a good job in front of you, more important than anything.
The ancients said that people come and go without being rude, people respect me by a foot, I respect people with a foot, in fact, the interaction between people is mutual.
In this world, there is no reasonable payment, there is no unreasonable demand, blindly giving or taking, can not maintain a normal relationship.
Should not take advantage of not to take advantage, should eat the loss to eat, willing to pay will be rewarded, less greedy a little desire, you can enjoy a moment of tranquility.
Even in the face of people you don't know, you must be polite and generous, not difficult, not arrogant, and not wear colored glasses to see people.
Treating strangers well is our quality and cultivation, and only those who know how to treat others well can better understand how to treat themselves and make themselves comfortable.
In short, empathetic people have better emotional intelligence, and those who respect others will naturally be respected by others.
To get along with people, we must take a good measure, no matter how good the relationship is, there must be a blank space between each other, and we must also pay attention to ways and methods when talking and doing things.
Even if you stand on the truth, don't be unreasonable, don't be aggressive, leave a line in everything, and see each other in the future.
Grateful people, the world is full of love, people with hatred, life is full of resentment, so live happily.
In this life, people must seek truth from facts in their words and deeds, do not do empty things, do not talk about excessive reasons, and go all out to implement everything.
In any case, we must control our emotions and adjust our mentality to make people better and better, and the days will become smoother and smoother.
In short, for people to live in the world without blind obedience, without attachment, without forcing themselves, the road is under the feet, the road is in the heart, things are man-made, and people are quiet in their hearts.
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Wen Ling, a freelance writer, has her works in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is the author's original and reprinted with the author's permission.