As the name suggests, Libra exists to weigh all aspects of the relationship, you may wonder, this kind of balance of everything, can really make their own internal balance?
This truth is like, a person who exercises all year round will naturally be much more flexible than a person who has not exercised all the time. In reality, this essence of Libra can easily fall into a state of hesitation or writhing.
Because the more you want to consider some relationships comprehensively, or do not want to offend anyone, Libra is gradually misunderstood as a kind of "wall grass", where the wind blows, where to fall.
But is this really the case? It is true that Libras will easily show a hesitant look because they do not want to offend people, but once they have completely seen through each other's relationship, or really understand the pros and cons, even if they can't give each other a decisive answer on the surface, it is obvious that their hearts are already very clear about what they will do.
To put it bluntly, Libra's non-rejection, non-initiative, and natural mentality are only revealing their own cultivation and cultivation, because they do not want to invisibly hurt each other because of their own temporary choices, opinions and suggestions.
This ambiguity, as well as the unpredictable side, creates a strong need for "understanding", that is, even when Libra falls into a selection difficulty, their subconscious hopes that the people around them can help and give some reference opinions, so that they can make more objective and comprehensive choices.
So Libra is eager for fairness, and also hopes that every valuable thing encountered can play its due value and meaning. This is also why Libra often agrees to the overall situation even if it is necessary to wrongfully admit it.
You can even say that Libra, who has always been pursuing fairness and balance in everything, satisfies everything externally, but cannot satisfy himself or balance himself. This kind of personality of putting themselves in the shoes of others, but not thinking about themselves, once filled them with all kinds of confusion and discomfort.
It is like having a ruler in your heart that can measure everything, but you can't measure yourself, and this scale can never weigh your heart.
At the end of the day, Libra is the kind of person who is very easy to treat others well, and it's often easy to ignore their own type.
For example, if there is something wrong with the people around you, or encounter some difficulties in life and career, Libra will take the initiative to care for you at the first time, take the initiative to coax you, and make people feel particularly comfortable.
But if they feel that they obviously care about you, care about you, and are willing to accompany you to face difficulties and solve problems together, the other party not only does not have a grateful heart, but also snubbs themselves from time to time, when they dislike themselves, Libra will walk away for the first time.
That is to say, no matter what happens, there is a clear sense that everything has a causal relationship, if the problem of not Libra is blamed on them, even if they are ten thousand unwilling to wronged themselves, to fulfill their own pretense and contrivance.
You have to let Libra know that it is because of external factors that will lead to yourself in this situation, let Libra balance your emotions, rather than directly accusing them.
Even if there is a little bit of wrong libra, this matter really cannot pass. In the final analysis, Libra, who has always pursued a balanced relationship, cares most about the thing that "there is a wronged debt and a master", and everything should pay attention to a reasonable and well-founded.
So don't doubt Libra, and when they are genuinely kind to you, they really treat it with a very pure, quite sincere mentality.
After all, whether it is to be pretentious to you or to coax you in reverse, it is enough to show that the other party has won the trust of Libra, and they will also be more determined and sincere to treat you after trust, and always believe that there are more possibilities between each other and a better future.