Father's shoulder

I don't know when and where, I seem to feel my father's shoulders, there is a heavy burden, that is, a shoulder of the feelings of home and country, a burden of ideal vision, a task of inheriting the future, and a hope of carrying forward the past and opening up the future... A heavy burden. Yes, that is a man's shoulder, a man's responsibility that must be shouldered! Everyone must consciously, consciously and voluntarily, take over the burden on their father's shoulders and pass it on! For this inheritance, every man, poor in this life, must fight for this responsibility! I am also a father, and I must also take over this burden and pass on this burden! Father said: If it is not for life, who wants to make themselves full of talent? Yes, my father was full of liver and gallbladder, full of economy, shoulders, and talented.

Memories are for permanent remembrance

One day in March 1990, I put on a military uniform, used a not-so-standard military salute for the first time, said goodbye to my parents and walked into the green barracks, and walked to the coveted PLA troops! Became an honorable soldier.

The song of "A Little Poplar Tree" tells the longing of the recruits; "When the Night is Quiet" is a time of homesickness, singing the mood of leaving home, leaving parents, and fighting horses and soldiers; "The Soldier" really tells the feelings of the soldiers....

The few months of the recruit company, I spent in Xiangfan, Hubei Province, the freshness of a few days was fleeting, and then the tense and heavy military training every day, let us young men, do not know how many skins! Every morning and evening, I went out to exercise, practiced kicks and took a straight step, and broke eight pairs of shoes! The leg kick is swollen! The kick hurts! Practicing grappling fighting, one by one was smashed nose blue face swollen, tired at night can not go to bed, sometimes tired straight urine blood. The bitterness and tiredness of the "recruit egg" is really difficult to say.

The second month of being a soldier

Dad came. He didn't tell me, quietly arrived at the unit, our division commander came with him, the day's training was just over, the regiment commander told me to go to the regimental headquarters, when I arrived at the regimental headquarters, just saluted the commander, I saw the father next to the division commander, I was surprised! I know that the recruit company does not allow parents to watch their children! And my dad, he had this "privilege". The chief gave me three days off, I accompanied my father in Xiangfan for two days, the deepest memory is that with my father in Zhuge Longzhong, told me the history of the Eastern and Western Han and the two Jin Dynasties, told me about Zhuge Liang's spirit after bowing down and dying, and told about the man's feelings of home and country and the responsibility he assumed....

The night Dad left, I woke up crying in my dreams and screaming! The unstoppable crying brought the whole class into a "frog song". Now that I remember this, I am still in the depths of my heart, buried a few drops of clear tears, a few sighs.

Dad was a leading cadre

In my father's circle, I have seen Chairman Jia Qinglin, Vice Chairman Li Haifeng, Chairman Li Zhanshu, Vice Chairman Wang Zhaoguo... Gai Ruyi, secretary of the Harbin Municipal CPC Committee, Wu Changshun, director of the Tianjin Public Security Bureau, provincial ministers of various provinces and ministries, and secretaries and mayors of municipal party committees throughout the country... Because of my father's relationship, I know a lot! My father was very harmonious with his friends in the official field, and his contacts were moderate. Maintain the feelings and friendships of friends! But always within half a step of the thunder pool. Never overstep. When I was promoted to bureau chief, my father earnestly said, "Officials do not love money, love money and do not official", we must control corruption. Reading the cold and seeing through the cold and warm father, he has long looked down on fame and fortune, and regarded fame and fortune as floating clouds and dung. Such a calm official, let our home rest assured, let the family have a sense of security, family stability, everyone harmonious coexistence can enjoy happiness and tranquility!

Dad was a writer

Dad loves literature, especially xi pen ink Danqing, from the impression of childhood, turn out the memory of dad, are reading, writing, painting, writing poetry... Dad is diligent, I don't know how many times I got up in the middle of the night, saw the back of my father reading, I can't remember how many times I saw through the dawn of the dawn, and saw the light of my father's study.

Dad was a poet

I have been practicing ink and Danqing, and I have been practicing for three thousand days. In order to encourage me and spur me on, dad wrote a poem for me:

Life is short and the years are long,

Time flies in a hurry.

Half a century of laughter,

Painted with Danqing Han ink incense.

The sorrow and joy of the cloud crane have long been paid,

A garden of flowers and plants with neon clothes.

and Zhu Xuanli Zi Hao Dance,

The desk rhymes with Hua Zhang.

Between the lines, it is full of kind instructions and earnest hope for his son!

I went to the Central Party School to study, my father was very happy, my father had been a part-time visiting professor at the party school for many years, and my father's "Traditional Culture and Market Economy" is still used as a textbook for party school students. We went to Jinggangshan to study, and my father wrote a poem "Water Tune Song Head" to cheer for his son. Poetry:

Live up to the promise of the country,

Also on Jinggangshan.

The spark of the year,

And now it's on fire.

Still singing and swallow dancing,

Faintly flowing water,

Oriental Bloom Zi Yan.

Yesterday Huang Yangjie,

Red Flag Source Today.

Zhan Jingwan,

Deer Red Flag,

Innovation Day,

Yun Steaming Xiawei,

The Long March has not been returned.

Jiugao Ancient Dragon Teng,

Unify the country and mountains,

The Chinese dream is come true.

Ingenious,

Ambition to climb again.

The students of my party school rushed to copy and recite to each other, which caused great repercussions.

My father published many books

He also often urged me to read and learn to write, and urged me to write a few sentences for the upcoming "Sycamore Storm". I churned through the previous stories in my mind, trying to search for bits and pieces in my memory... because there were too many stories, like the "montage" in the movie, in front of my eyes, I didn't know where to edit it for a while? The picture that often appears in the mind often rings in the ear of the song "Father". I often sing "When I was a child, I used to sit on the shoulders of my father, my father was the ladder to the sky, and my father was the cow pulling the cart... "That's a true portrayal of my childhood.

I used to sit on my dad's shoulder since I was a kid. Folks say I grew up on my dad's shoulders.

I was the eldest son in the family, and I heard my father say that I often took me to work since I was a child, and at that time, I was very well-behaved and obedient, and my fellow villagers often boiled a few eggs for me when they saw me. From childhood to adulthood, I grew up slowly under the care and love of my father. In fact, at that time, my father gave me the most or strict tutoring! So harsh that he didn't dare to talk back to mom and dad. I didn't even dare to look into Dad's eyes. Once, because of "wild swimming", I was spanked by my father for several days and did not dare to sit.

At that time, my father was very busy and rarely came home, and one of the words that my mother used to scare us was "your father is back"! We hid in hiding, like a mouse meeting a cat!

With the adjustment and promotion of my father's work, we changed our homes several times and entered Beijing. I also joined the army with honor, entered the melting pot of the army, remember the new recruit company father to the army to see me, at that time the new recruit training was very hard, did not leave home very much missed my parents, and did not dare to write a letter to say their troubles, see the moment of my father was very excited! That scene is still fresh in my mind! That feeling is still in my heart, carved into the depths of my soul, and I will never forget it in this life!

Father's love is not just a verbal admonition, but an example of oneself! The father's loyalty and filial piety is not a verbal expression, but the establishment of a model and the inheritance of consciousness.

That silent dedication, the devotion to our brothers and sisters! I've been in my arms all night, and I've never had a tooth to forget.

After returning from the army, several critical moments in my life were my father's points and hints, guidance and planning, and only then did we have a happy life today! Dad's longitudinal and strategic planning stems from his knowledge structure and cultural heritage. My father was a thick book, and he could not finish it in his lifetime. Sometimes it's hard to read.

My old leader in Beijing, Zhou Ruizeng, director of the Beijing Tobacco Monopoly Bureau, is also an old friend of my father's, and at a wine banquet, he once gave this passage to my father: "Three points of talent does not have a little arrogance; three points of officialdom does not have a little domineering; three points of literary atmosphere does not have a little sour gas." And a bit of banditry is a bit of arrogance! "All the kings here are impressed! And by the Forbidden City famous calligrapher Mr. Wei Diansong on the spot book. Dad still cherishes it to this day. I think that this passage should be widely recognized by my father and friends, so that I can cherish it, such as getting the most precious treasure, right?

The memory is still fresh, is the Minister of Culture Gao Zhanxiang and his father to participate in the event, the organizers are very warm and thoughtful, Uncle Gao is also a versatile Minister of Culture, piano and chess calligraphy and painting are all exquisite, especially photography as the most, there are calligraphy performances in the activity, Minister Gao had to ask my father to start writing first, this is a modesty, but also a respect! Also see a friendship. After Dad finished writing, Minister Gao asked Dad to leave and go to the room to rest! After my father left, Minister Gao told me that my father was present, and these calligraphers and painters brought by him were reluctant to write! Oh! I suddenly realized! Only then did I understand my father's importance in the world of calligraphy and painting!

Our father often taught us the principles of how to behave in the world, so that we can remember the inheritance of the Yu family training. Be kind to people, be fair in dealing with things, and think of others first in everything. Learn to observe life from different sides and observe things from a multidimensional perspective.

My father was brilliant because he was full of poetry and books, and he was our role model and the mountain in my mind, "the mountain looks up to the scenery and stops, although it cannot be longed for by the heart"! I will try! In the eyes of everyone, Dad is a ministerial leader, a celebrity in the field of calligraphy and painting, but they don't know that the father is emotionally delicate, cares for others, and the relatives and friends around him, especially the father's brothers and sisters, mention the father, will be full of emotions and admiration!

The father is like this, sacrificing himself as a person, feeling the homeland, feeling sangzi, paying attention to every member of the family.... Dad with the rare years, still day and night with a pen, hands do not release the volume, Dad's diligence is famous. Listening to Grandpa, Grandpa took his uncle to Beijing to see Dad, stayed in Dad's apartment at night, got up in the middle of the night, saw that there were lights in Dad's house, Grandpa quietly saw in the crack of the door, Dad was still lying down and writing a book.... Grandpa said that from that time on, he understood his son!

Dad's daily poetry and song are endless, friends say that he is a prolific writer, Uncle Zhang Guangheng often says that Dad "blowout", that persistence, that diligence, that spirit of struggle, that suitor motivation, that pursuit of life and love for life, people are sighed and moved! Breathtaking!

His father was a calligrapher

Influenced by family traditions and indoctrinated, my father was honored as a famous calligrapher! He has donated paintings to many leaders and celebrities. Infected and influenced by my father, I also fell in love with calligraphy, and so far I have been infiltrated by the pond, and I have been writing on the desk for more than three thousand days! Lots of emotions, lots of benefits!

Dad, you are the pride and pride of our children! It is your diligent efforts that have changed the family, changed the hometown, and changed us! Of course, it has also changed future generations!

When my father reached the age of ancient rarity, his health also deteriorated, and in the past two years, he also had some minor problems with his heart and made five stents. Children can't be around all the time, there will always be a little worry! There are always a few regrets!

Thanks to Daddy's red-faced confidant Zhang Ruixuan! Be a wife! She is dedicated, always caring, affectionate, and meticulously cared for! I shared many worries for our children, and it was really hard work for my wife! Sincerely thank you Mrs. Yu! And wish Dad good health! Mrs. Auspicious!

I feel a thousand turns in my heart, and my expression always feels pale and weak. "Overflowing heart, lack of effort"! You have to learn from your dad! This article also represents the common expression of our brothers and sisters!

Confessions of true affection!

Remember the Father's grace like a mountain!

Son of Ding Yi (Yu Long).

Yu Zhongquan

Labor Day in May 1, 2022

Written in the early morning in Hezhu Xuan

Editor's note: Ding Yi, formerly known as Yu Long, formerly known as Yi Ding, originally from Shandong, born on February 21, 1952, of Han ethnicity. He is the grandson of Mr. Yu Youren, the elder of the Republic of China, the disciple of the late Buddhist master Zhao Puchu, and the proud protégé of Mr. Nan Huaijin, a master of traditional Chinese studies. Mr. Ding Yi is a famous calligrapher and painter, who has authored monographs such as "Ding Yi Calligraphy Collection" and "Ding Yi Painting Collection", and his works are loved by celebrities at home and abroad and are widely collected.