"Pay attention to the left side of the defense, very good, dribble, pass to the rear to make up for the position, leave the hand, score the goal, three-pointer, congratulations, win this round of basketball."
In Fu Daren's career, I don't know how many times this sentence has been said.
Fu Daren
Countless professional words came out of his mouth, and when countless games were played, his familiar tones would reach the ears of many people.
Sports broadcasting is a key part of Fu Daren's life, but his 2.5-paragraph marriage is also a major point that has made him discussed by many.
But when Fu Daren is mentioned, more people think of euthanasia.
Fu Daren
As the first person in China to go to Switzerland to perform euthanasia, why did Fu Daren voluntarily give up his life? What was his family's attitude toward Fu Daren's actions?
The whole family sits and waits for death to come
On June 5, Fu Daren, who was sitting in the garden basking in the sun, suddenly rang the phone of his longtime friend.
Fu Daren
The moment the phone is answered, both sides of the microphone know that this is not a simple greeting from an old friend, but a farewell to their friend.
"Are you okay?" My friend."
"It's good, the time for the operation has been set, and the day after tomorrow, all the pain will be over, I don't have to suffer from the pain of the disease, and I can't see the sun on June 8 again."
"I'm sorry, my friend, at this critical moment, not able to accompany you, all the way to go, this life you have worked hard"
"I Love You, my best friend, thank you for taking care of me in this life"
Fu Daren
At this point in the conversation, Fu Daren, who hung up the phone, continued to sit in the garden, looking up at the sun emitting a dazzling light.
Life goes on, everything is thriving, it's good.
The bright sunshine made Fu Daren's mood can't stop being happy, and at this time he didn't look like an old man with less than 48 hours left in his life.
Fu Daren
Fu Daren is 85 years old, but the end of his life is not the final judgment of fate, but Fu Daren's own choice.
Because he was in so much pain.
Fu Daren and his son
In 2016, Fu Daren was diagnosed with a blocked bile duct, and placing a stent in the bile duct became the only option for Fu Daren to prolong his life.
However, the bracket is not permanent, but must be replaced every six months.
This also means that Fu Daren has to do bile duct surgery every six months, the pain of surgery is not mentioned, and the danger of bile duct placement is always worrying.
But even so, the more serious condition still did not spare this old man, during the second stent surgery, the doctor found the diseased cancer cells in Fu Daren's body.
Fu Daren and his son
Fu Daren suffered from pancreatic cancer.
Ferocious cancer can torture an otherwise healthy adult into an inhuman form, not to mention that Fu Daren is already an elderly man who has lost all his functions due to his age.
Because of the pain, Fu Daren began to have difficulty sleeping all night, and his weight plummeted in a very short period of time, from a strong body of 74 kilograms to a skinny old man of only 48 kilograms.
The loss of muscles made Fu Daren's body more painful, and in order to make him lie down more comfortably, his wife Zheng Zhengjue spread a softer quilt on his bed in order to relieve the pain.
Fu Daren and his wife
But for Fu Daren, who was suffering from illness, the effect was really minimal.
Even if he barely fell asleep, the sudden pain would wake him up from the dream, and after each chemotherapy, Fu Daren, who had survived the disaster, did not see any joy at all.
Too guilty, really too guilty, Fu Daren began to gradually lose sight of the hope of life.
The brilliant ideals of his youth seemed to be just a dream that could be broken at a poke, and endless chemotherapy and a large number of pills eaten with three meals a day seemed to be the life that Fu Daren really lived.
Fu Daren
What is the point of living like this?
Fu Daren asked himself this question more than once in his heart, but each time the answer was no.
Fu Daren did not want to continue, he did not want to live a long time, so he chose euthanasia, and accompanied by his family, on June 2, 2018, he came to Switzerland, where euthanasia is legal.
Fu Daren
The execution was scheduled for June 7, and Fu Had five more days to say goodbye to his life and friends and family and friends over the past eighty years.
The old friend who called was one of Fu Daren's many past friends, but not every friend supported Fu Daren's decision.
They wanted Fu Daren to survive, and they wanted to talk to this friend a few more words.
For this beautiful world, Fu Daren certainly had his own concerns, but he was too miserable, and he did not want to live with the disease for the rest of his life.
Fu Daren (middle)
Euthanasia is what Fu Daren considers to be the most decent option.
However, after learning that Fu Daren made this crazy decision, the whole family unanimously chose to refuse, but under Fu Daren's persistent request, they still chose to respect Fu Daren's choice and fulfill the last wish of the old man who had suffered from illness when he was alive.
On June 2, 2018, the whole family accompanied Fu Daren to Switzerland, and on the day of farewell on June 7, they sat around Fu Daren in the middle and waited with him for the arrival of the end of his life.
Fu Daren and his family
Displacement is the loss of ideals
Looking back at Fu Daren's life, the fate is the best description.
Fu Daren was born on April 3, 1933, to a wealthy family in Jinan, Shandong Province, where his father, Fu Zhonggui, was a major general in the Army and made his own contributions in the War of Resistance Against Japan.
Fu Daren
On July 7, 1937, Japanese soldiers stationed at Lugou Bridge, without the permission of the Chinese government, broke into the Chinese garrison positions and deliberately launched an attack on the Lugou Bridge.
In the face of the provocations of the Japanese army, the Chinese garrison did not let it go unchecked, but immediately carried out stubborn resistance, and the prelude to the national War of Resistance Against Japan was unveiled.
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The wolf ambitions of the Japanese army were clearly revealed, and the enthusiasm for resisting Japan and saving the country was rampant throughout the country.
Fu Zhonggui, who was then the commander-in-chief of the Lubei guerrilla army in Shandong, was also not afraid of the fierce attack of the Japanese Kou, and led his guerrillas to engage the Japanese army in the Lubei area.
After the end of the Battle of Xuzhou, most of Shandong Province was captured, and the situation of the battle developed in a direction unfavorable to our army.
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However, the guerrillas led by Fu Zhonggui did not care about the crisis disadvantage of the situation, and still insisted on Huimin County in Shandong Province, and fought a hard and arduous guerrilla war to defend the integrity of the country, until they were heroically martyred and sacrificed on the Yellow River in 1938.
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For the country, Fu Zhonggui is a national hero, but for his family, Fu Zhonggui has not fulfilled his responsibility as a father and husband.
What's more, when his father died, Fu Daren was only 5 years old.
But the tribulations of life did not intend to spare this poor child, and shortly after Fu Zhonggui's death, his long-ill mother also died, leaving only the lonely and lonely Fu Daren.
Fu Daren
Fu Daren, whose parents died twice, not only lost the command of life, but even a stable residence could not be guaranteed, but lived a life of displacement and displacement.
Fu Daren did not feel the joy of home in the world, he only hoped to get a stable residence, to be able to enter the academy to receive ideological education.
Fortunately, Fu Daren was sent to the school of the remnants established by Song Meiling in Nanjing, and finally lived a stable life, and Fu Daren's athletic talent was also highlighted.
Song Meiling
In the early days, although Fu Daren lived a life of hunger and fullness, his height was all the way up, and his adult size exceeded one meter eight, approaching the height of professional athletes.
At the age of 25, Fu Daren reached 1.86 meters and was selected to join the basketball team of the Legislative Business School of Taiwan Province of China.
The outstanding height is supplemented by the talent in basketball, Fu Daren is a star figure in the team, and with his game, there will be a greater chance of victory.
Fu Daren (left)
Fu Daren is very happy, he spares no effort to sweat on the basketball court, he likes the feeling of shooting, but even his hobby has been ruthlessly deprived.
In 1960, the 27-year-old Fu Daren was unfortunately hit and fell to the ground during a game, and suffered irreversible injuries to his legs, and could only tearfully announce his retirement and temporarily leave the basketball court he loved.
Although the road to career development is more bumpy, fortunately, Fu Daren has gained his love in it, and at the age of 28, he entered the palace of marriage hand in hand with his loving lover Rao Lizhen.
Fu Daren and Rao Lizhen
However, the sweet life of Lang's concubine did not last long, and the two began a three-year-long separation between two places.
What's going on here?
It turned out that shortly after the marriage of the two, the newlywed wife Rao Lizhen received the letter of appointment of the coveted Syrian medical team, and in the branch of marriage and career, Rao Lizhen did not hesitate to choose a career.
Although separated from each other, Fu Daren's feelings for his wife still exist, and he is full of expectations for his wife to return home as soon as possible, and the two will have a child and live a stable and happy life.
But three years later, Fu Daren only received news that his wife had immigrated to the United States and the marriage had ended here.
Fateful to find your own value in the microphone
His wife's resignation was a big blow to Fu Daren, who no longer focused his gaze on the love of men and women, but began to concentrate on his career.
Fu Daren (right)
Although Fu Daren had no chance to play in person because of the majeure of the leg injury, he was not willing to leave the stadium he loved, so he became a basketball coach.
But soon, Fu Daren found that the job was not suitable for him.
In order to make a living, Fu Daren also made many attempts to practice, but the results were not quick, until Fu Daren picked up the microphone and became a basketball commentator.
Fu Daren
With a humorous and witty hosting style, Fu Daren has been loved by many users, and has interviewed a number of star players, and they have become like-minded friends with each other.
It was also during this period that Fu Daren re-established a marriage with Zheng Zhengjue, who would be divorced and had a daughter, and began a happy life for a family of three.
Fu Daren and Zheng Zhengjue
But the two never had children of their own.
The two tacitly did not mention this matter in front of each other, but in Zheng Zhengjue's heart, the failure to give birth to a child for Fu Daren was always a thorn stuck in her heart.
This is also the reason why Zheng Zhengjue chose to accept Chen Qiuping.
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Chen Qiuping is Fu Daren's lover, the 33-year-old age difference collapsed in the face of surging love, even if he knew that Fu Daren had a family, but Chen Qiuping, who was young and beautiful, was also willing to accompany him as a lover.
Fu Daren's behavior is a marital infidelity, which is categorically unacceptable and unforgivable in the hearts of many people, but it does not include Fu Daren's legitimate wife, Zheng Zhengjue.
Because Chen Qiuping was pregnant.
In order to make up for his regret that he could not inherit the lineage of Fu Daren due to physical reasons, Zheng Zhengjue chose to accept her husband's marital cheating behavior, and took the pregnant Chen Qiuping to the family to take care of her.
Chen Qiuping gave birth to a baby boy in peace, and Fu Daren named him Fu Junhao.
Fu Daren and Fu Junhao
Fu Daren, who has an elderly son, loves him a lot, but Zheng Zhengjue's love for the child is not under him at all, and he always personally puts his arms around the child every night to sleep, which is even worse than Fu Junhao's biological mother Chen Qiuping.
But this happy and happy life changed after Fu Daren's illness.
Fu Daren, who was tormented by illness, withered day by day, and his whole family could not stop the heartache of watching his whole family lose their fighting spirit due to illness.
However, after Fu Daren proposed the idea of euthanasia, the whole family unanimously disagreed, but under Fu Daren's repeated insistence, they still chose to respect Fu Daren's own decision and accompanied him to Switzerland.
Fu Daren and his family
In order to let Fu Daren leave more marks in this world, in order to let Fu Daren have a good dying memory, in the last moments of his life, they accompanied Fu Daren to take a lot of beautiful photos together.
Even the scene of Fu Daren performing euthanasia chose to record the whole process in the form of video.
Because this is the proof that Fu Daren was finally alive.
In the eyes of the whole family, after leaving the last words of parting reluctantly, Fu Daren drank the euthanasia drug handed to him by the doctor, and soon after collapsed powerlessly in his son's arms, ending his life.
Fu Daren and his son
The Slovaks have passed away, but in the hearts of the living they are eternally mourned.
But after this incident, the public opinion discussion about euthanasia was once again pushed to a new climax.
Some people say that euthanasia is illegal and is an act of forced suicide.
There are also objections to the right of people suffering from illness to end their lives on a voluntary basis.
Although Switzerland supports euthanasia, euthanasia is still not legal in China.
But during the two sessions in 2022, Liu Guifang, a deputy to the National People's Congress, proposed legalizing euthanasia.
Liu Guifang
Liu Guifang is a medical worker stationed at the grassroots level, in the process of practicing, she has seen too many terminally ill patients who are tormented by illness and do not want to die, in front of them, the hope of life is almost dim, their only appeal is to save the last dignity to end their lives, and euthanasia is just a decent choice.
In the face of this complex social problem, people who stand on different positions have their own different views.
But what is certain is that in the future development, whether euthanasia is legalized will certainly have further legal policies, and this thorny social problem will certainly be solved.