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Don't let your phone continue to affect your family and marriage

I believe that this topic may make many people oppose or have opinions, after all, mobile phones have brought a lot of convenience to our work and life. Here, I would say that irrational use and excessive reliance on mobile phones are becoming the "culprits" affecting work and family.

I believe that everyone will have a deep impression of a picture in the history books of that year, adult men lying on their sides smoking opium cigarettes, according to Mr. Fei Yuqing's research on the history of Chinese opium shows that from 1828 to 1836, about thirty-eight million yuan of silver was lost from China. In 1834, China imported a total of 21,885 boxes of opium; in 1838, a total of 40,200 boxes of opium were imported into China. The direct consumption of opium and the invasion of the Eight-Nation Alliance triggered by the opium war later, it can be said that opium was the direct "culprit" that led to the destruction of the Qing Dynasty.

Don't let your phone continue to affect your family and marriage

So is it now that mobile phones are also becoming the "culprits" that disrupt our work and lives?

Seeing this painting, I wonder if everyone will smile and wonder if the reader who is reading this article is lying down brushing his mobile phone. A screenshot of the hot network "History seems to repeat itself": a hundred years ago people were lying down smoking opium, and a hundred years later people were lying down and playing with mobile phones. Compared with the old and new photos, the same posture, the difference is time, which makes people sigh and sigh.

Don't let your phone continue to affect your family and marriage

So what happened? How do mobile phones affect our work and life? Why has mobile phone become the culprit that affects our normal work and life?

Don't let your phone continue to affect your family and marriage

Mobile phone dependence

Don't let your phone continue to affect your family and marriage

Some time ago, in the variety show "Sister Please Eat", the host checked the daily mobile phone use time of the guests in the past week, Chen Farong led with a duration of 9 hours and 25 minutes, and several female stars brushed their mobile phones for more than 5 hours a day.

Don't let your phone continue to affect your family and marriage

If you look at it rigorously, you may not be able to reason in this way. In fact, most people are also brushing their mobile phones during the 8 hours of work. Like what

During the session:

Don't let your phone continue to affect your family and marriage

The image comes from the internet

There has also been recent news of often being punished or even dismissed for playing mobile phones during work.

Don't let your phone continue to affect your family and marriage

The image comes from the internet

Don't let your phone continue to affect your family and marriage

Mobile phones have become "people's life control center"

The study found that of all the time we spend on our phones, 7 minutes out of every 10 minutes are spent on social or photo or video apps. More specifically, the generation born between 1995 and 2009 is more inclined to use photos and videos, while millennials (the generation born between 1982 and 1995) prefer shopping, finance, and food and beverage applications.

Don't let your phone continue to affect your family and marriage

Such high frequency of use has also created a huge business ecosystem based on mobile phone platforms. More and more service systems based on mobile phone development have also closely connected human life with mobile phones, and mobile phones have gradually become "people's life control centers".

Mobile phones affect family life

The most popular passage on the Internet recently: "During the day is a husband and wife, at night is a neighbor, back to back to each other, each playing with their own mobile phones, each looking for their own fun." "This should be the state of life for most people after a few years of marriage."

Don't let your phone continue to affect your family and marriage

And there are also many posts about couples going home without communication, and each playing with their own mobile phones.

Don't let your phone continue to affect your family and marriage

There is also a more exciting paragraph about the mobile phone between husband and wife: "Married life is boring, it is interesting to play with the mobile phone."

Today's family life may be a family of three each holding their own mobile phones brushing, and it is not easy for family members or relatives and friends to get together to eat and chat when they are brushing their mobile phones. So some people joke that now family gatherings have become a large mobile phone brush scene.

suggestion

If you want to put the problems of marriage, family, life and work down to the influence of mobile phones, I think this is unscientific. As a tool, mobile phones have brought a lot of convenience and convenience to our work and life, and have also produced a lot of economic benefits and driven the development of the industry.

The key to the fact that mobile phones have gradually become the "culprits" affecting work and life is that we do not use mobile phones rationally, and our work and life rhythm is disrupted by "brushing mobile phones" and "playing mobile games", and the key is that our own self-control is not enough.

For the sake of their own health and family happiness, it is recommended to strictly control the time of brushing mobile phones. Because now mobile phone social software has become the "primary culprit" that disturbs work. In order to maintain efficient continuity of work, it is recommended to moderately enable the time management system during work, or to keep the phone out of sight and within reach of the hand.

Now the mobile phone basically has a healthy use of mobile phone management function, open to see their daily mobile phone use time and the time spent in various software, you can moderately reduce the invalid brush video, circle of friends and social time.

Secondly, it is recommended that between husband and wife and children, more face-to-face communication, more outdoor sports, or more family common reading and interaction time, the attention of the other half and the child is diverted from the mobile phone, more interaction, more reading, more exercise, more communication, to create a more harmonious family atmosphere.