Kindness to the right person will be grateful to you; kindness to the wrong person will make you chill, soft heart to the right person, will be deeply affectionate to you; soft heart to the wrong person, will make you sad, tolerance to the right person, will be enthusiastic about you; tolerance to the wrong person, will make you feel sorry.
In the relationship, meeting the right person is crucial, many times, perhaps it is not that the other party is not good, but that you are not in the list of the other party wants to show good, so in your eyes, he will be so bad.
In the end, it is just a matter of willingness or not and unworthiness, when a man is willing to be good to you, everything you do will become worthwhile, and vice versa, it is a deep affection and mispayment.
And for lovers, most women want only one point, honesty, but men are not honest, mainly look at these three points, and looks have nothing to do with looks.
1. Emotional history
Perhaps in the eyes of some people, the past emotional history is not enough to explain anything, after all, many times, everyone is passionately involved in love, but the result is not satisfactory.
In fact, having a lover or a relationship experience is a very normal thing in itself, but if the relationship history is very rich, and each relationship does not last long, there are many problems.
A person with too rich a history of feelings, either in his eyes, love is just a pastime to pass the boring time, or he is an amorous person who can like many people, but no matter what, it is not what everyone wants.
The second is the duration of each relationship, if in these failed feelings, it is because of the wrong person, then it is normal to meet one or two wrong people, everyone is the wrong person, it is too distorted.
The most important thing is that each relationship does not last too long, indicating that there is a big problem with itself, rather than putting all the responsibility on the ex.
2. Emotional view
Everyone has their own view of feelings, but for honest men, their view of feelings is often more conservative, which can be seen in the process of daily chat.
Although some men superficially say that they are conservative about their feelings, when they talk about certain issues, the indifferent attitude revealed in their eyes is enough to prove that these things are very normal in his view, and then they can also reflect their true view of feelings from the side.
And really honest men, their conservatism often does not show through blunt remarks, but in daily chat, when it comes to some sensitive topics, they will appear obvious dodge and change the topic of behavior.
When you get along with really honest men, you'll find that they're sometimes really conservative and cute, and they rarely offer to sit in your house and rarely offer to let you sit in his house.
Even if you don't mind, they are unwilling, not because they don't love enough, but in their view, this is not enough respect for your performance, and truly loving someone is not only desire, but more "for your own good".
3. Behavior
How to really understand a person, in addition to daily verbal communication, many details of two people getting along together are very important.
Maybe when you are with him, he will also take the initiative to hold your hand and kiss your lips, but these are necessary expressions of emotion, and it does not mean that he is not honest.
And for those who are really dishonest, these simply cannot satisfy their inner desires, so whenever they go to some sparsely populated places, they will be easy to "move their hands and feet".
They will also call you out in the middle of the night from time to time, either to let you sit in their house or to want to sit in your house, which is the normal mode of communication for adults in the eyes of some women.
But if it is an honest man, there will be no such ideas, and even if there is, it is not easy to bring them up, because in their view, rushing to say their desires will only bring the opposite effect to the relationship.
Especially the men who come up with these ideas not long after they were together, are likely to be with everyone just for some purpose, and they don't love much.
In the minds of some women, there is such a strange logic, they like to incarnate themselves as the image of "savior", even if they meet an dishonest man, they will want to rely on their own efforts to pull each other back to the "right way".
Of course, in this mood, there will also be a desire to conquer, trying to turn themselves into the other party's favorite appearance.
It's just that life is so short, don't be wronged yourself in order to become what others like, be happy when you should be happy, vent when you want to vent, and the first thing to live your life is to live for yourself.
Women must first learn to love themselves, in order to have the ability to love others, only to understand this truth, to have enough ability to distinguish whether a man's face with a false mask, and then harvest the desired love.
Good or bad, will not be written on the face, honest or not, naturally not, so we must not judge people by appearance, we must learn to see and understand with our hearts, at this time, I believe you will be able to find the right person.