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Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

The Chinese women's volleyball team represents not only a sport, but also the Chinese spirit and the spirit of Chinese athletes.

At the scene of the 2015 Women's Volleyball World Cup, the Chinese women's volleyball team won the championship, and this women's volleyball player with an average age of less than 20 years old once again let the world see the power of the Chinese women's volleyball team with its youth and blood.

In the following 6 or 7 years, this team has shown amazing explosive power, allowing the Chinese women's volleyball team to regain the glory of the fifth consecutive championship in the last century.

The reason why we were able to win this honor is due to Lang Ping, to Zhu Ting, the main player who won the MVP of the three major competitions for the first time, and to everyone who has worked hard for the Chinese women's volleyball team.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Chinese women's volleyball team

Everyone only saw Zhu Ting's beautiful appearance and saw her achievements in sports, but no one knew how much she had paid to get these.

In an interview, Zhu Ting said that while she was training in the team, her favorite brother had leukemia and entered the hospital.

In order not to affect Zhu Ting's preparation for the competition, her parents chose to keep silent, and after returning from the competition, Zhu Ting learned that her brother had died of illness, and this incident also became an eternal regret in Zhu Ting's heart.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting and her family

How hard it is to learn sports

Zhu Ting is a very independent woman, she was born in 1994 in An ordinary rural family in Zhoukou City, Henan Province, her parents are honest farmers, a lifetime of dealing with crops, the concept of the older generation is to have more children, they feel that children are born more, and life can be guaranteed after aging.

Under the influence of this concept, Zhu Ting's parents gave birth to six children, Zhu Ting is the third oldest in the family, she has two older sisters above, two younger sisters and a younger brother below.

Although it is said that the parents support the six children in the family very hard, the two still give the children the best living conditions, fortunately, Zhu Ting's father Zhu Anliang in addition to farming, also has a skill of repairing cars.

Juan Liang's car repair shed business is good, and he can earn a little extra money every day.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting's parents

When Zhu Ting was young, she never thought that she would take the road of sports when she grew up, and then her class teacher found her and tentatively asked her: "Zhu Ting, you are so tall, have you ever thought of going to sports in the future?" ”

Hearing the class teacher's words, Zhu Ting was stunned, because she had never touched this aspect of things before, so she just casually vaguely passed.

The class teacher also found Zhu Ting's family specifically for this purpose, and popularized the benefits of learning sports to them, as well as the future development direction, in this way, under the guidance of the teacher, she fell in love with sports and officially took this road.

The reason why the teacher is so determined, Zhu Ting is suitable for taking this road, and her own height is related, zhu Ting was not yet 13 years old at the time, but her height is more than one meter seven, after learning that Zhu Ting is willing to engage in sports, the physical education teacher recommended her to the Zhoukou City Sports School.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting

Zhu Ting is a very sensible girl, she knows how difficult it is to come to this school, so after entering the school, she also behaved very hard.

She quickly received the attention of the school's president, Xia Luhai, and under his tutelage, she underwent a year of professional physical education.

In 2008, the Henan Provincial Physical Education School came to the following prefecture-level cities to select good seedlings, and as soon as he got the news, the principal recommended Zhu Ting to the past.

Because Zhu Ting's performance is very good, and she meets the standard of "women's height under fourteen years old, more than one meter and eight", she immediately transferred to the provincial sports school and entered the provincial team training.

At this point, she officially began to contact the sport of volleyball, and Zhu Ting at that time did not realize that she would go so far on the road of volleyball in the future.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting

After training in the provincial sports school for several years, Zhu Ting went to henan Xinyuan women's volleyball team and entered the Henan provincial youth women's volleyball team in 2009.

As the platform Zhu Ting went to became larger and larger, the burden on her body also became heavier, as we all know, the training volume of the sports school is very huge, and the professional sports team is extremely hard.

We don't know how Zhu Ting, who is only a teenager, survived that time, and we don't know if she secretly wiped her tears in the middle of the night because she was studying alone, we only know that every time she walked on the court, she tried to do her best.

Although she completes six or seven hours of high-intensity training every day, she never complains to the family.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting

For her, her parents can support herself, can give herself this opportunity to learn, she is already very content, she just wants to get ahead as soon as possible, into the school team, provincial team, national team, in the future to repay their parents.

When mentioning this time, Zhu Ting was also very sad, at that time, the conditions in her home were still not very good, but her parents did their best to provide her with the best living conditions.

Zhu Ting's daily training volume is very large, she eats a lot, and her daily expenses on eating are about double that of other girls of the same age, but her parents have never complained about this matter.

Every time I meet her, her parents will ask her if she has enough money? Can you eat enough to train? Have you suffered?

Zhu Ting knows that her parents care about her, so every time she hears these questions, she smiles and replies that it is not hard, you don't have to worry about me.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting and her parents

My brother fell ill and died

Zhu Ting, who is training outside, has always been very concerned about her brothers and sisters in her family, and every time she sees her parents, she will ask about the situation of her brothers and sisters in the family.

Once when her parents came to see her, they also brought her young brother, and After seeing her brother, Zhu Ting was very happy and took out all the snacks she had treasured and gave him.

But while playing with her brother, she sensed his fatigue, and she asked her parents why his brother looked so thin, was it because he didn't eat well?

Zhu Ting's mother said: "It's okay, little child, if there is anyone who is not sick, he is cold, don't worry, we will take good care of him, you train well."

At that time, Zhu Ting was still young, she did not hear that her parents were lying to her, she just touched her brother lovingly and went back to training, before leaving, she also told her brother that the next time she met her sister to buy you good food.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting's father

Hearing her sister say this, her brother also laughed happily, Zhu Ting knew that her brother's favorite thing to eat was yogurt, so every time she met her brother, she would prepare yogurt in advance, watching her brother lick yogurt contentedly, Zhu Ting was also happy in her heart.

But every time she came into contact with her brother, she could clearly feel his tired mental state, and she asked her parents many times, what disease did her brother have? Why hasn't it been good for so long?

Her parents still vaguely told her: "It's not a big deal, it will be fine after a while."

The parents knew very well how much Zhu Ting, who was training alone, had suffered, and the parents also knew that at that time, during the rise of her sports career, they should not put too much pressure on their daughters, so no matter how the daughter asked, they did not tell the truth.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting and her parents

In fact, Zhu Ting's brother did not have a cold at all, but leukemia.

Zhu Ting's family conditions are not rich, in order to send their daughter to physical education, their family has borrowed a lot of money from relatives, in the end how to cure their son of this disease, parents are also worried.

Fortunately, the couple was very popular among relatives, and when they learned that the child had such an illness, the relatives also generously donated money and sent the child to the hospital.

Fortunately, it didn't take long for the doctor to match the right bone marrow for Zhu Ting's brother, and after hearing the news, Zhu Ting's parents cried with joy, but the doctor's next words made their smiles freeze on their faces.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting's father

The cost of bone marrow transplants is very high, and poor parents simply can't afford to pay for it, but in order to save their children, they still promise the doctors that they will use their time to make up for the operation.

After returning, their parents sold all the family property, including land, cattle and sheep, and houses, which they temporarily sold to the buyer, and Zhu Ting's sisters have been working outside to earn money and treat their brothers.

With the generosity of relatives and the joint efforts of their families, they finally paid enough for their brother's surgery and sent him to the operating room.

During this period, Zhu Ting also often called her family and asked how her brother's illness was cured, and every time her parents said that they were almost well, almost well, you can rest assured that you can train.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting

Unfortunately, after Zhu Ting's brother underwent a bone marrow transplant, his condition did not improve, but worsened.

The doctor said that the transplanted bone marrow produced a very strong rejection reaction in Zhu Ting's brother's body, and the brother should not be able to sustain it.

Looking at the doctor's critical illness notice, the parents fell silent, they did not know whether they should tell Zhu Ting, who was training, about this matter.

Just when they hesitated, their son died.

The death of the son directly destroyed the family, and when handling the aftermath for the son, Zhu Ting's parents also fell into self-blame, they did not know how to explain all this to their daughter, they had to lie again.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting's parents

But the paper can not contain the fire after all, after completing the training, Zhu Ting returned home, as soon as she entered the door, she felt that the atmosphere was wrong, after looking around, she asked her parents: "What about my brother?" What happened to his illness? ”

Hearing Zhu Ting's words, her parents did not say a word, and under Zhu Ting's repeated inquiries, her mother finally told the truth about her brother's death.

Listening to the whole process of her brother's treatment, Zhu Ting collapsed, and she suddenly collapsed on the stool.

She felt like her world was collapsing, it was her favorite brother, it was the only boy in the family, how could such a thing happen? How could she not know anything?

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting

Catch up with the good results

Self-blame, collapse, and pain filled Zhu Ting's heart, on the one hand, she felt very broken, she wanted to ask her parents, why didn't she tell her about her brother's illness earlier? Why not let her come back and see her brother one last time? Why not let her share a little more of her brother's illness like the rest of the family?

On the other hand, she blamed herself, she blamed herself for not discovering her parents' abnormalities earlier, not finding her brother's illness, and not being able to share their pain for her parents.

Zhu Ting knew that the reason why her parents chose to hide the truth about her brother's death from herself was that she didn't want to distract herself, they had already borne so much for themselves, and her brother's death had brought them so much pain, how could Zhu Ting bear to question her parents and blame her parents?

Zhu Ting didn't know what to say, she didn't know what to ask, she just sat there, crying vigorously, watching her daughter so sad, her mother stepped forward and patted her and said, "Let's go, I'll take you to see him."

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting

Under the leadership of her mother, she saw her brother's tombstone, and looked at the cute little boy, the little boy who had been chasing her sister, lying under the cold stone stele, Zhu Ting could not stand it any longer, and lay on her brother's tombstone and cried bitterly.

The death of her brother made Zhu Ting grow up overnight, and she knew that her brother's death not only brought endless grief to the family, but also brought tens of thousands of yuan of foreign debt to the family.

In order to make up for her regrets, After returning to the team, Zhu Ting trained harder and harder, and she was determined to pay back the money for her parents as soon as possible, so that her family knew that they did not believe the wrong person.

It is said that if she never forgets, there will be an echo, and Zhu Ting immediately met the person who changed the fate of her life, Lang Ping.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting and Lang Ping

With the help of Lang Ping, she entered the national team and showed her strength, in 2015, she led the Chinese women's volleyball team to win the world gold medal, when she was only 21 years old.

Zhu Ting's ability in volleyball is obvious to all, even her coach Lang Ping said that Zhu Ting's understanding ability and self-control ability is very strong, the most stable performance of the whole team is her, and her offensive level has even surpassed herself.

Zhu Ting: The death of my brother is still an untouchable pain for me

Zhu Ting

The death of her brother became an eternal regret for Zhu Ting and the family, but fortunately, Zhu Ting did not live up to her promise, she helped her parents and family pay off their debts, and she achieved achievements that are difficult for future generations to look up to, becoming the pride of her family and Chinese people.

I believe that her brother will be happy for his sister when he learns all this!

Do not forget the original heart, beyond the self, Zhu Ting did it!

Resources

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From the farm girl to the world champion - Zhu Ting, MVP of the Women's Volleyball World Cup

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