Wen 丨 love words at 10:30
I'm here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
When I first liked someone, it was like looking at flowers, and everything was so pure and beautiful. Therefore, even if you indulge in these beauty, it does not matter.
But if you like someone and decide to be with them in the future, you need to taste it slowly.
After the flowers are thanked, go to see if the petals in the mud make you like it as before, and then decide whether to continue or not.
I think the reason why there is such a judgment is because liking can never only be based on the surprise at the first glance, but also can last long enough by slowly going deeper, touching, and understanding.
But in this era of fast-food love, many people ignore this, always relying only on three words and two words of chat, occasionally get along a few times, and a few seconds of heartbeat, and begin to develop a love.
In the eyes of some people, fast-food love seems to be nothing, but as everyone knows, fast-food love will make people lose their yearning for love.
Therefore, this is destined to start a relationship hastily, and it will end hastily.
After all, in this process, there is not a single bit of real affection between you.
Even if it burns up occasionally, the bits and pieces of likes slowly disappear with the ordinary years.
As a result, love in this fast-food era is always unable to last.
While they envy, "a lifetime of love that is only single-minded", but on the other hand, they are fiery and fiery, chasing feelings with fresh colors.
In this way, how can we harvest the true heart and harvest the unforgettable heart?
In this complicated era, although love has become a luxury, it cannot be allowed to go with the flow of nature to stir up this muddy water even more.
If you want to get love in this life, you want to find the right soul in your own life.
Then, we must understand that in this muddy era, be a clear person, learn to respect love, and learn to like a person.
Of course, this does not mean that you can quickly find a favorite object. Then, go on a fervent pursuit.
In this era, if you want to get a sincerity, you must learn to make liking a natural thing.
Like a person, don't be too impatient.
You can feel admiration for the good qualities of a certain person, and you can also feel admiration for the good qualities of a certain person. But try not to start so-called likes because of these.
Like is a prudent thing, this big world, there are so many excellent people, there are so many good quality people. If you express your liking every time you meet one, then your liking will become worthless.
Therefore, you have to learn to wait slowly, in the beautiful youth time, slowly meet everyone in life, and then to understand, to taste, and then to like a person who is most suitable for you.
Then in the process of liking, slowly unfold, slowly to express, do not put all of yourself into the beginning of love, to know that you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry.
Too early or too much expression will make the other party unable to digest, which will resist you. After all, not everyone is the sunflower that craves the sun.
Some people, he can only accept naturally, just the right amount of sunlight, too warm, but will burn him.
Therefore, when expressing your emotions, don't be too eager, liking someone is not achieved overnight. Although deep down in your heart, you want to express your feelings and show your enthusiasm.
However, you can't let your eager heart scare the other party into retreat.
Besides, your enthusiasm is clear and clear. Then, your feelings for each other will also quickly reach their peak.
However, you ignore that the pace of the other party may not be in agreement with you. And in the process of such uncoordinated expression of emotions, the feelings between you are bound to tilt. In the end, this unequal effort will eventually destroy a relationship.
Therefore, try to slow down your pace, slowly like a person, slowly miss a person, slowly express your likes, slowly approach his heart...
It is not easy to like, enjoy well, this process of liking others, try to taste slowly in this beautiful sweetness.
Sometimes, the most beautiful stage of love is not the time to harvest the results, but the joy when you enter love.