It doesn't matter if your IQ is not high, and your emotional intelligence is not high, it is not a big problem, but the pattern of being a person must be big. If a little setback makes you unable to get up, if one or two bad words make you unable to let go, then your pattern is too small. To put it bluntly, you can not be smart, you can not understand communication, but you must be atmospheric.
1, everyone has a fire in their hearts, and those who pass by only see smoke.
2) Say goodbye, and you never see you again. Some people say that it is not more than 3 years to fall in love, otherwise I don't know what the result will be. Some love talks for too long, everything is too familiar with each other, and it is inevitable that they will be tired. The best way to end an experience is to start a new one. Thank you for giving me sweetness, thank you for your unconditional love and tolerance for me. No one in love is right or wrong. Just the right time, the wrong person, just we don't fit in...
3, others see the shoes, their own feelings are the feet, do not covet the luxury of the shoes, and wronged their own feet.
4, everyone has a Seine in their hearts, it divides our heart into two sides, the left bank is soft, the right bank is cold and hard; the left bank is sensual, the right bank is rational. The Left Bank lives with our desires, prayers, struggles, and all our love-hate anger, and the Right Bank lives with the imprint of the rules of this world in our hearts—the Left Bank is a dream, and the Right Bank is life.
5) You open your arms to me, and I'll trot a few steps; you smile at me, and I'll stop and listen; you take my hand, and I'll spin and dance. If you are about to leave, I will step up and leave.
6, a bunch of soft as water in the heart, let go of a silent dream in the distance, the sun is warm, the years are quiet, time is anchored here.
7, feelings are always a coincidence, each of us in different times to choose different, love and be loved has always been a willing to fight a wish, your selfishness and selflessness to others are in the depths of love, or never in place. In love, no loser or winner is an experience. Don't expect sacrificial devotion to cultivate feelings, that's reality that makes up and moves each other. After the conditions are good, they will respect the heart. Marriage is about identifying with each other and loving each other.
8, bullish people are not not crying, not not afraid, but when crying and afraid, they are still moving forward. It's not that you won't encounter darkness, but that in the darkness, be a beam of light.
9. What is the difference between youth and maturity? When you're young, you always want to change. And after maturity, you always hope to be stable. In fact, at different stages of life, it is best to do different things, because after that period, many things you really can't do. I am most afraid of being lazy when I am young, and regretting it when I am old. Life is just a process, and what should be done is equivalent to living in vain.
10, because of the too much cherishing of some people, and carefully maintain a safe distance. He kept it as light as water, could not enjoy the intimacy of honey, sacrificed many deep exchanges, and missed the spark in order to escape gunpowder.
11, no one will always be smooth. Everyone has gritted their teeth to survive the trough period, only to the closest people to tell, collapse, cry, outsiders still see the spring breeze full of satisfaction. Only when you succeed can you talk openly about failure, and failure will become part of success. May you be stronger, and then finally one day, you can laugh and tell the story of those moments that once made you cry, when you should really let go.
12, I don't know whether it is more and more independent, or more and more weak-minded, after walking for so long, I found that the only thing I can rely on is myself.
13, once people start to walk, they can't stop. Now it's starting to grow like a random tree, trying hard, confused. I hope that there is a branch that can blossom into lovely flowers, grow dense shade, shield me from the sun in summer, and give me fruit to eat in autumn. Make your own tree, so that you can give shade to others.
14, see a lot of people, but can not be dismantled at will; hate a lot of people, but can not easily turn their faces. Sometimes, life is to force yourself to become submissive and not to be insulted.
15, really good friends, must be able to joke with each other, scolding, grinning, crazy, but in fact, never touch each other's pain and weaknesses. On the surface, it is a laugh and scold, and it is straight forward, but in fact, in the heart, it is carefully and gently detoured for him.
16, when I unconsciously walked a long way, I found that I was actually a person who could face loneliness very well. Each of us has limited energy, and perhaps we can only give our minds to a few people. However, there are also disappointments in life, and even sticky friends have their own things. Every two people may start out seeing each other and hating each other late, and later they may only contact occasionally. Encounters are easier often than difficult. All the long-term insatiable things in this world are because of the heart.
17, people who like to blacken themselves are not because they are strong inside, but because they want others to shut up.
18 People are anxious to grow up and then lament their lost childhood; people exchange health for money, and then want to use money to restore health; people are anxious about the future but ignore the happiness of the present; people live as if they never die; before they die, they seem to have never lived.
19 If we can't do big things, then do small things with great love.