Mountains and rivers are far away, there is always someone coming for you
"I blocked him."
As she said this, Yaya sighed a long time.
I asked her, "Is it sad?" People who were once so good are now lying on the blacklist. ”
She smiled and said, "It's false to say you're not sad, but it's all over." ”
Yaya's mouth is his boyfriend who has been in love with her for five years.
Five years ago, their story started with adding friends.
Five years later, their story ended with mutual blackout.
When they fell in love, they were intimate, renting a house together, commuting to work together, eating together, and traveling together.
Yaya's circle of friends background wall, mobile phone lock screen, are all photos of boys.
The boy's WeChat is at the top, and only Yaya is alone.
They have seen each other's worst looks, know where the most vulnerable and deadly points of the other are, and know what the other cares about most.
They had made a promise to try to hold each other's hands and go all the way to the end of their lives.
All love is like this, beautiful at the beginning.
All love is the same, and it doesn't make sense at the end.
After five years of love, Yaya got the other party's breakup because:
"You're fine, but we're not right."
It is ridiculous to say that all the problems in the relationship will eventually be blamed on the "inappropriateness" of two people.
Man, quite a nest, no love, not even a word of truth.
Those moments of day and night, those unforgettable experiences, seem to be just the moon in the mirror of the water, an illusion.
It's not just them, over the years, I've heard and seen countless such lovers.
When they are affectionate, they love me and invest in me.
Once separated, they are like changed individuals, cold and heartless.
Love or not love, judge two people.
The other day, I saw a message in the background.
The girl said that she liked a boy and liked someone else.
When she saw him officially declare his love affair in the circle of friends, her heart seemed to be pricked with needles.
She flipped through their previous chat history and looked at it over and over again.
Looking at it, she smiled. Laughing and laughing, she cried again.
Originally, she wanted to wait for the right time to confess to the boy.
Unexpectedly, I was quickly boarded by others.
This feeling is like seeing your house on fire, you want to fight the fire, but the fire is too big, you can only give up, watch the house become a pile of ashes.
No way, you have more than enough and not enough.
The person she likes has a girlfriend, and she knows she shouldn't worry about him anymore.
But many times, she still couldn't help but want to message him, wanted to talk to him, wanted to listen to his voice.
In order to completely cut off this idea, she could only blackmail him fiercely.
She asked a question backstage:
"Since people are destined to be impossible, why should they meet?"
I thought about it for half a day and replied to her:
"While not all encounters have an ending, every encounter may have a truth and meaning it wants to tell us."
After all, a lifetime is so long, but if you don't come to the end of the day, you don't know who is really the right person.
Some people have not been able to come together with you, but he has appeared in your life and illuminated your world, which is already the best arrangement for fate.
You and I must believe that love and affection in this world are fluid.
All the losses and misses will return in another way.
Mountains and rivers are far away, and there are always people who come for you.
Maybe there is such a person in your blacklist.
Once you didn't say anything, you talked for a long time, and you snuggled up to each other.
You changed the special notes for him, changed the chat background.
When he can't see it, you talk to everyone about sharing him.
You've even imagined countless times the scene where you'll be together in the future.
But somehow, as you walked, you scattered.
He talks to you less and less often and cares less and less frequently.
You are also gradually disappointed in him, no longer taking the initiative to contact, no longer taking the initiative to greet.
When you realize that the relationship is over, you are surprisingly not so sad, but feel relieved.
Because after trying too many grievances and heartache, you are tired and tired, and you don't want to continue to please and please.
"There are many things that can be worked on, but not between people.
Those who can't go to the end are actually not fellow travelers at the beginning.
There is a reason for the encounter, either a gift or a lesson. ”
Yeah, some people show up in your life, probably just to teach you a lesson.
We also have to accept that sometimes we go to a fork in the road in life, but there is no lover waiting on the other side.
So, those who have been on the blacklist, forget it.
Don't look back, don't look back, don't be soft-hearted.
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Author: Uncle Nan, Source: Mr. Nanxu (nanxu668). Please contact the original author for authorization for reproduction.