Text: Xi Xihuan
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Some men feel that women's thoughts in the relationship are always too difficult to grasp, obviously this second is still very happy, the next second do not know because the man said the wrong thing suddenly changed the mood.
In fact, if men really understand women, they will understand that in these behaviors and emotions of women, there is a real need for women's emotions, and they also express women's truest thoughts.
Many people believe in the fate of love, hoping to meet the person who "must be you", so that the other party will put you in the most important position in the heart, rather than making you a passer-by in the other person's life.
Especially for women, if she really identifies a man in her heart, even if she does not say it directly, it will seep out in words and deeds, because true love cannot be hidden.
So men should understand that when a woman "has to be you", she will give you two special treatment, hope you have it, and hope that you don't miss the woman who really loves you.
01 Willing to take you to meet her family and friends
I don't know if you have experienced such a thing, when you fall in love with someone, the other party always hides your existence, you hate to tell her to the world, but she has no intention of taking you to know the people around her.
In fact, the answer is very obvious, if a woman is not willing to take you to see her family and friends, then maybe she has not really identified you in her heart, but just sees you as a passer-by in her feelings.
His friend Shen Yi is a man who is particularly persistent about his feelings, and when he first saw Ling Fei, he was moved, and he also identified her as the person he wanted to protect for a lifetime.
Shen Yi's pursuit of Ling Fei is very straightforward, that is, he gives everything he has to Ling Fei, in his heart, he hopes that Ling Fei can also identify him and regard him as the person who is destined.
However, with the interaction between the two people, Shen Yi found that she was not the person who Ling Fei "had to be you", and even many times, her position in her heart was not as important as that of an ordinary friend.
When the two people had not yet established a relationship, Shen Yi took Ling Fei to meet his best friends, and seemed to be eagerly declaring that he loved this woman.
Later, Ling Fei finally agreed to be his girlfriend, and Shen Yi quickly took Ling Fei back home and met her family.
Shen Yi's family is very open-minded, as long as he likes, they respect, especially Shen Yi's mother, seeing that her son is so serious, she knows in her heart that he has identified this girl.
But Shen Yi waited for a long time, Ling Fei never introduced her friends to him, and even every time at the party, if Shen Yi offered to go together, she would be unhappy.
The two were together for more than a year, Shen Yi had never heard Ling Fei talk about her friends, and he didn't even know who Ling Fei's best friend was.
Sometimes Shen Yi also has emotions, feeling that she is excluded from Ling Fei's world, and she also feels that he is making unreasonable trouble like a woman.
When Shen Yi proposed that she wanted to see Ling Fei's parents, she directly refused, saying that the feelings and relationship between the two people had not yet reached that step.
In the end, even if Ling Fei didn't say it, Shen Yi could see that she didn't plan to seriously cherish this relationship with herself, she was just an object of loneliness and loneliness after she sent her lost love.
After the two people broke up, Shen Yi met a girl who regarded him as the person who was destined for him, she was very clingy to him, although sometimes It would make Shen Yi have a lot less time of his own, but he felt the girl's recognition of himself.
The two people had just been together, because they were injured in the previous relationship, so Shen Yi did not rush to take the girl home, nor did he take the girl to eat with his friends.
But the girl was anxious to introduce him to her friends around her, and when she introduced herself to them, the girl was very proud, and in the girl's eyes and tone, Shen Yi knew that she loved herself very much.
Subsequently, the girl solemnly arranged for him to meet with her family, and when she watched her seriously tell her parents that he would not marry, Shen Yi smiled, he knew that he had met someone who had to be him.
In fact, men should know that when a woman is willing to take you to know the very important people around her, it means that she not only accepts you in her heart, but also sees you as a very important person in her life.
02 will include you in her plans for the future
If you are really treated by a woman as the one who is destined, then she must have you in her future plans.
Because in her heart, she has long regarded you as the person who will spend the rest of her life hand in hand, so no matter what plans she has for the future, she will regard you as a participant in it.
Friend Sun Meng has little emotional experience, but since falling in love with the man, she is like a changed person, some people say that women who fall into love will lose themselves.
Sun Meng has been advised by friends not to invest 100% in men, because investing too much is likely to mean that the future will be hurt more deeply.
However, Sun Meng felt that as long as she identified him, then how much she paid for him was worth it and meaningful.
Sun Meng will always tell men where the two people will settle in the future, what kind of home they want to have, how many children they will have, and she will also look forward to the lives of two people in the future.
The man is very gentle, understands the meaning of every word she says, and understands her mind more, so he is willing to cherish her, so when Sun Meng is most looking forward to it, the man proposes to her.
Sun Meng felt that she was married to happiness, and she said to the man: "I have to be you, from the day I confessed to you, I decided that I would not marry you, and now I have finally fulfilled my wish." ”
The life of the two people after marriage is very happy, because Sun Meng actively plans the future of the two people as always, and the man cherishes Sun Meng's efforts.
Whether it is love or marriage, it is inseparable from the careful management of two people, and sometimes men feel that women's emotions are changeable, and that is because you have never really entered a woman's heart to see what she really thinks.
When a woman has to be you, she recognizes you in her heart, and naturally hopes that you can give her the response she wants, because the effort in the relationship needs to be meaningful and two-way.
So, men have to understand that a woman gives you "special treatment" not because she does this to every man, but because she only sees you as the most important person for the rest of her life, so she is willing to do it for you.
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