The word emotional intelligence, since the emergence of people has been hung on the lips, in most people's view, a person's emotional intelligence is far more important than IQ, people with high emotional intelligence, often able to go smoothly in the society, the upward prospects are frank, high emotional intelligence is not only reflected in the ability to deal with people, but also will bring good connections, and networks have long determined the future development, so emotional intelligence has become a very important thing in the current era, but today to say these constellations They are too straight, always good intentions to do bad things, It can be said that too much integrity is a manifestation of low emotional intelligence, and it is easy to offend people.
Aries
Aries people in other aspects of emotional intelligence is not low, but when they get along with people, their upright personality will be exposed, often talk but the brain, often think of what to say, completely disregard the feelings of others, it is easy to inadvertently hurt others, but they themselves do not know it.
Their straight-talking and straight-forward personality, it is easy to offend people, in life to treat things of judgment bluntly subjective, all depends on the mood, how to do when the mood is good, and when the mood is not good, it will be full of faces written do not come near me, at any time may explode in situ, and the willful Aries regardless of the treatment of people and things, are the kind of arbitrary look, they often because of too blunt expression, and hurt others, if you meet the heart and eyes are relatively small, Then an enemy will be established for no reason, but the stupid Aries will continue to do their own thing with a blank face.
In the adult world, the words without thinking are equivalent to seeking their own death, as the saying goes, the disease comes from the mouth into the mouth, and the words are expressed by the big white sheep. This will not only make it difficult for them to gain a foothold, but also lead to a lot of unnecessary trouble, which is a good thing, but also know how to control the scale.
Taurus?
Honest Taurus has been passive for a long time in dealing with people, they always seem very wooden, although honest and stable Taurus have a shrewd and delicate heart, but they have a great deficiency in interpersonal communication, often difficult to accept.
Stubborn temper, as we all know, the stubborn temper of the Taurus comes up, no one can stop it, saying that it is not good to make anything, they will only insist on going their own way to the end, so their stubborn personality is often a manifestation of low emotional intelligence, taurus is usually very low-key, introverted, but also gives people a polite, modest and respectful feeling, can leave a good impression on them.
But when encountering certain problems, the stubborn temper of the Taurus comes up, their posture of ignoring the three points, being reasonable and unforgiving, is very disappointing, and it is very easy to let the people around them be hurt, and not all Taurus are easy to talk, their stubborn temper comes up, no one can stop it, this momentum of preferring to be crushed by jade rather than for waquan is very daunting.
When the Taurus hurt others because of their stubborn temper, they do not have too many thoughts, but continue to ignore it, this extremely stubborn emotion is difficult to control, so when the Taurus stubborn temper comes up, the emotional intelligence is low to the heinous level, it is easy to hurt the people around them, and it will make others scorn their stubbornness, and the good impression of Taurus will all change. Things are easy to fold, and sleek in order to make yourself comfortable.
Low emotional intelligence is often a person's major hard injury, people are social animals, when getting along with people, if you can't make each other feel comfortable, then the relationship naturally does not need to continue to maintain, which has nothing to do with good character, in the eyes of many people, high emotional intelligence has become synonymous with good character, and low emotional intelligence will become a major flaw in interpersonal communication.
However, emotional intelligence can be slowly cultivated through the day after tomorrow, and when you know that you are not enough, you can correct it in time, no one is perfect, and if you know your mistakes, you will improve greatly. These two constellations with low emotional intelligence often do bad things with good intentions, and they will make enemies invisibly, but in fact, they are not intentional, as long as you understand their personalities, you will know, in fact, they are full of goodwill but the way of goodwill transmission is lacking.
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