A few months ago, a reader friend said to this writer: "I don't know why, the more my boyfriend cares about me, the more I want to do it with him; I also want to make him happy, but I can't help but want to toss it inside, looking at him like a fire, I feel very happy in my heart." ”
The author told her: "You must be the smartest "wind elephant gemini", you not only like to toss, but also have a particularly strong hands-on ability, learning things very fast, right? ”
She said, "How do you know, I'm a talented girl in our studio!" ”
The author then said to her: "The more you want to do what he doesn't let you do, the reason is because you were born in the summer, you like to dominate anywhere, on the surface you look obedient, and you don't talk much; in fact, deep down you are a little demon."
You like to see him burning, but also happy, is to know, your own position in his mind, as well as status, so, you will continue to tempt, when you feel that he cares about you very much, you will be sincerely happy, your love, is to rely on non-stop experimentation, in order to satisfy your curiosity and control, others control, is hard control, your weapon is hot and cold, if you leave. ”
Although I didn't see the reader's friend, I know that when she saw the author's answer in front of the mobile phone screen, she must have narrowed her eyes, and if she didn't hold the phone with both hands, she wanted to applaud.
She must be thinking in her heart: "In this world, there are really not Gemini, but they know gemini's fierce characters so well, it is too powerful!" ”
But it is useless to boast, the author still has to tell the little secrets of "Gemini" today, so that everyone knows more about her.
So that everyone can better "deal" with her in the relationship.
Because in the relationship, in the face of little goblins like "Gemini", they are smart, clever, and like the whole person.
An honest "constellation" is easy, tortured exhausted and temperless, and then dancing messily to her rhythm, even wearing the "favorite" pair of skateboard shoes, can not be "happy" friction.
Therefore, this article is dedicated to all friends who like Gemini and want to chase Gemini, and today I will teach you the method of "countering Gemini".
First of all, let's start from the "Gemini" mate selection preferences and start to analyze.
Gemini likes character
Gemini is the constellation that likes small animals the most, and is also the constellation with the most "shovelers".
So what kind of small animal does Gemini like the most?
Cats, and dogs, such intelligent small animals, dogs, their favorite is "fadou, husky, bear" and so on, why?
Because these dogs, they are more stupid, more listening to her, making her feel very safe.
It also reflects to a certain extent that although "Gemini" looks loose, it still has a "desire to control".
But for "people", they like smart people, because such people are creative and can share a common language with her.
In addition, their thinking jump is relatively strong, if you are not a very intelligent person, you can identify from their words what she really wants to express, and if you are more real, ask her vigorously, and she will be annoyed after a while.
After all, where does the summer sign come from, the good temper, annoyed, she has to give you a look.
There is also a kind of wayward and stubborn personality, which is also very unsuitable for Gemini, because she does not like to be tied, and it is easy to feel that you are too strong and difficult to get along with.
In fact, through the surface of "Gemini"'s "gentle, Lolita, little cute", to see her heart, she is actually quite "strong".
So like that kind of "ink, stupid, boring, and clingy" personality, don't go to find "Gemini", not only will it be fruitless in the end, she will also be sarcastic and sarcastic to you, after all, Gemini is also unforgiving, when the mood is good, talking is extremely good; when the mood is bad, anything can be said.
Gemini's weakness
Gemini is a "spring and summer sign", and her "erratic" personality is too easy to determine that she needs "stability" very much, and perhaps she herself feels that "crazy and crazy" is very good.
But when they "say ugly things and do a lot of things that are too indulgent of themselves", they are immediately greeted by an incomparable "loneliness", that is, because they still pursue "steadfastness" in their hearts.
It's not that they don't know what's good and what's bad, it's just that their "self-control" is slightly worse.
Therefore, she really needs to be managed.
Therefore, gemini's "weakness" is that she has no main heart, and she needs someone who can help her make decisions.
However, this person, at first, can not be too "proud", to be humble in the process of chatting with her, low-key and humorous slowly said something she does not understand, but slightly interested in let her know.
Although she may "pull things around" at first, soon, in her heart, she will tell herself: "This person knows everything, and I can ask her when I have problems."
And the confused personality of "Gemini" will soon encounter problems, that is, "don't worry, your opportunity will come soon".
When she starts to ask you what to do, you must help her make a decision, don't make ambiguous remarks, she will look very flustered, and you will tell her steadily: "Do as I say."
The problems are solved, and you become countless people who can control her.
Because, this "soft rib" of hers, you give her a perfect compensation.
Gemini routines
Gemini routine, you ask any Gemini she will not admit.
Because this is gemini, the magic weapon to ride the "love circle".
The first is that you are cold, she is hot, and at the beginning of acquaintance, as long as she thinks that you are a good person, she will be very enthusiastic about you and will be very active.
However, as long as she feels that you already like her, she will test you "hot and cold" to see how much you care about her.
Therefore, if you want to counteract, you must understand her routine, while she is hot and cold, with her human way, but also to treat her body, she is cold and you are cold, she is hot you are hot.
Let her feel that the routine is seen through, she is normal, and she gives up temptation.
Also, "Gemini" will involuntarily paraphrase your words, for example, she will joke with you in a serious way, ask what kind of "opposite sex type" you like, and when you answer that it is not her type, she will be very angry, but she will not show it.
But this "vendetta" she will definitely remember.
Also, she will be in front of you, showing off her opposite sex, look at your expression, when you are a little jealous, she is the happiest, the author personally suggests, when gemini this attitude appears, in fact, she just wants you to know that she is actually quite good.
There is also want to see you "jealous" look, if you want to be jealous, she is happy, she will feel that you have been completely routine, and want to be hot and cold, so you have to tell her: "You are very good, otherwise how can I like you?" ”
He praised her and praised himself.
The battle of wits and courage must let her know that she is almost on fire.
Finally, the author also needs to say a biggest secret about Gemini, in fact, the person Gemini is ultimately looking for is not a "lover", but a "dependence".
Because the gemini personality is born to fall in love, they talk too much about love, but what they really lack is trust, and steadfastness.
Therefore, their love is not for love, but to find the dependence they need, and they may not know why they let themselves wander in a period of relationships.
It should also be added that "Gemini" is in the relationship, and the most stable eater is "Aries".
Basically, as long as Aries meets Gemini, it is basically completely fallen, because gemini personality is really born to restrain "Aries".
At the end of the article, it is also recommended that Gemini really want to have a stable dependence, a loyal playmate, may wish to consider Aries more.
Really good choice.
I also wish that all friends who like "Gemini" can draw strength from this article, successfully gain the trust of Gemini, and get "Gemini love".