We all know that once girls usher in menstruation, then maybe their height will not increase too much after this, so in the end, how old is it better for girls to take menstrual leave for the first time? Let's take a look at it with Xiaobian.
【Real Case】
Xiao Li went to his colleague's house a few days ago, and did not greet his colleague before going, and only called her to open the door when he went to the door.
After entering the door, Xiao Li saw their family and several relatives sitting at the table, with a large cake on the table and candles.
Then Xiao Li whispered to his colleagues, "Why did your daughter celebrate her birthday again?" Because her daughter just had her birthday a month ago, Xiao Li also brought her daughter to her birthday party and gave her gifts.
Xiao Li's colleague said to Xiao Li with a very proud look: "My daughter will be a girl from today onwards!" Xiao Li was a little confused at the time, and the girl's grandmother saw the situation, so she leaned over to Xiao Li's ear and said, "My granddaughter had her first menstruation last night." ”
Xiao Li's colleague continued: "At this time, we must give our daughter a big birthday, because this is an important milestone in her life journey. ”
What is the best age for a girl to have her first "menstruation"? Come and find out
In general, girls are between 12 and 16 years old when they first come to menstrual leave. This is also the mature stage of growth and development, entering puberty.
If the girl comes to menstrual leave in advance, or over the age of 16 has not come to menstrual leave, this phenomenon is an unhealthy manifestation, which is a parent must observe in advance, and take the child to the hospital in time to do relevant examinations.
Why is menarche blood brown?
It is normal for menarche to be brown, and there is blood stasis in general menarche, so the color of menarche will be brown.
Due to the small age, the regulation function of menstruation is not perfect, so there will be abnormal menstrual color and some symptoms of abdominal pain.
For little girls, when they first experience the phenomenon of menarche, whether it is the color of menstruation, the time of menstruation will be different, at this time, you need to explain this phenomenon to your child, so that your child no longer has too much psychological burden.
What are the signs before a girl's menarche?
1. Chest development: If it is found that the breast begins to develop, swells and appears areola, and there is an induration when touched, then menarche will occur in the next two years.
2. Abdominal pain: On the eve of menarche, girls may have abdominal pain, often manifested as occasional abnormal pain, but there is no other uncomfortable situation, which should be paid attention to the arrival of menarche in the near future.
3. Vaginal discharge: Girls will find their vaginas before menarche, and will secrete a colorless, tasteless, transparent viscous liquid, which is vaginal discharge. This is a symptom that girls will inevitably appear after they grow up slowly, and it is a normal physiological symptom.
When the color of the vaginal discharge is found to be a little red, and a small amount of blood appears, then in the next two or three days, menarche will occur.
How does the mother explain her daughter's first menstrual period?
First of all, tell your daughter that this is a very normal thing that every girl will experience, don't be too shy to tell your mother; secondly, tell your child about the cycle of "menstruation" and how to deal with it after coming to "menstruation".
In addition, you must help your child buy hygiene products to teach her how to use it, and tell your child that you have begun to change from a girl to a woman at this time, and you must learn self-esteem and self-love, and you must know how to protect yourself.
Every girl's growth is a trial, sometimes often complain about why girls have to experience menstrual pain, but it inevitably happens to us, we should cherish it, especially for the girl's first menstruation, the mother should take good care of it, teach the child how to take care of their own body.