Author | The creek is lush green
Anchor | Fan Deng Reading · Anthony
It is often said that life is not a lack of beauty, but a lack of eyes to find beauty.
When you can't appreciate the beauty of the outside world, your life is a disaster.
Appreciation is a kind of ability, but also a kind of realm, know how to appreciate others, in order to get the appreciation of others;
Knowing how to appreciate others is truly excellent.
There is a fable like this:
There are two trees in the yard, one is a willow tree and the other is a date tree.
The willow tree is graceful and beautiful, and the jujube trunk is invisible and ugly.
Willow laughed at the jujube tree: "You look so ugly, look how beautiful I am!" ”
In the blink of an eye, autumn came, and the jujube trees produced large and red dates, while the willow trees withered.
Willow asked, "Why don't you laugh at me for not bearing fruit?" I used to be unaccustomed to you. ”
After hearing this, the jujube tree said to him, "Although you can't bear fruit, but you sprout fast, you are green early, you have your strengths." ”
Willow was ashamed when she heard it.
Many times, like Willow, we always look at our own strengths, but blindly stare at the shortcomings of others.
Zhuangzi once said: "Things are inherent, and things are inherently possible." Nothing is not, nothing is indispensable. ”
Everything in the world has its own value and meaning, and we must know how to respect and accept differences in our lives.
There is a famous "Toledian theorem":
Whether a person's wisdom is superior depends on whether he can accommodate the opposite thoughts in his mind at the same time.
The wiser the person, the stronger the receptivity.
The world is like a kaleidoscope, what is in the heart, you will see.
Limited to your own world, you will not see the wonderful outside, do not know how to appreciate others, you can only live
Prejudice and narrow-mindedness.
Only by knowing how to appreciate others can we win the respect and admiration of others.
Maugham once said that if a man can observe fallen leaves, shy flowers, and appreciate everything from the subtleties, life cannot treat him like this.
People who know how to appreciate have scenery in their eyes and heaven and earth in their hearts.
No matter when and where you are, you can always see the good side.
There's a true story: a white mother and son taxiing in a black driver's car.
The child asked the mother, why is the driver's skin black?
Mom thought about it and said, "That's god wanting to make the world colorful." ”
When he got out of the car, the black driver was adamant not to charge money, saying:
"I asked the same question when I was a kid, but my mom told me that because we were black and inherently inferior.
I think if my mother's answer had been the same, I might have had a better life. ”
A word of praise can affect someone else's life.
The world is originally rich and colorful, and people have their own strengths.
Seeing the world with an appreciative eye is a kind of wisdom and goodwill; living with an appreciative mindset is even more of a realm.
Putting aside bigotry and narrow-mindedness, learning to appreciate different people, discovering different beauty, and embracing the world with tenderness and kindness, we will have the whole world.
As Carnegie said, "Appreciating others is a kind of temperament, a kind of wisdom, and a kind of realm." ”
People who know how to appreciate have an inclusive mind and extraordinary wisdom.
They can find pearls in the sand, flowers in the green leaves, they can see the strengths of others, and they can see the poetry of life.
The old saying goes: "Give someone a rose, and your hand will have a lingering fragrance." ”
If you give good, the world will give you back the good, and when you look at others with an appreciative eye, you will also usher in the eyes of others to appreciate.
Clinton Hillary told one story: One spring, when she and her father were visiting the park, they saw an old lady, wrapped in a thick cotton coat and wrapped in a fur scarf, as if she were in the middle of winter.
She told her father that the lady looked strange and ridiculous.
After Dad listened, he said solemnly:
"Hillary, you lack a knack for appreciating others! This shows that you are not enthusiastic enough and lack friendliness when you interact with people. ”
Hillary was unconvinced. Dad said she might be recovering from a serious illness.
If you look closely, her expression of appreciating flowers is not serene and pleasant, and her expression is touching, don't you think?
Hillary observed the old lady again, and sure enough, the old lady's expression was peaceful and quiet.
Hillary went up to the old lady and said, Madam, your admiration of the flowers is touching, you have made spring better.
Excited, the old lady said thank you, took the biscuit from her bag and gave it to Hillary, and praised: "This child is so beautiful!" ”
Under the influence of her father, Hillary who knows how to appreciate others has achieved amazing results.
Learning to appreciate is the best way to interact with people.
As a famous saying goes, "Maintaining an appreciation for the world with a pair of children's eyes is the best cultivation for people." ”
When you learn to appreciate others, you can get praise from others.
People-to-people interactions often begin with appreciation and end with character. Being a person always has an appreciative heart, and friends are naturally all over the world.
Mencius once said, "He who loves others will always love him; he who respects others will always respect him." ”
How you treat others, others will treat you.
Click "watching", from now on, be good at discovering the beauty of life, know how to appreciate others, and your life can go farther and farther, and go more and more smoothly.
Author | The creek is lush green
Typography | Zheng to the north
Music | fairy tales