In December 2020, in rural Hebei, a boy weighing only 1400g came to this world 3 months early because of premature birth.
The boy's name was Xiao Jun, and he belonged to the very low weight of premature babies. Not only that, he also has 6 or 7 common complications of premature babies, such as respiratory distress syndrome, intracranial hemorrhage, necrotizing colitis, etc., and urgently needs hospitalization.
The county hospital where Xiao Jun was born was simply unable to cope with such a complex illness, and on the advice of the doctor, he was immediately sent to the Hebei Provincial Children's Hospital and was admitted to the neonatal intensive care unit on the same day, which was a full 105 days.
Xiaojun stayed in the neonatal intensive care unit of Hebei Children's Hospital for 105 days
A younger brother who is always taking care of his older brother
When Zhao Xingyu is mentioned, almost everyone in the village will say the same evaluation, "Righteousness, honesty, and good people." "The 32-year-old is a native of Hebei, if you look at the appearance alone, it is actually difficult to imagine that he is not strong, a person who bears the burden of taking care of the lives of a large family of 10 people.
Zhao Xingyu was the old man in the family, and not long after he understood things, he realized that his brother seemed to be different from others. Slowly, he learned from adults that his brother had epilepsy and could get sick at any time.
Zhao Xingyu told us the story of Xiao Jun
After the sister got married, Zhao Xingyu and the eldest brother were left to live with their parents. And Zhao Xingyu, the younger brother, has always played the role of "brother", taking care of his eldest brother in all aspects of life.
Zhao Xingyu's eldest brother's condition is good and bad, and the good time accounts for the majority, because he has been taking medication to control and has not been sick for a long time. In 2006, with the stabilization of his condition and consideration of his later life, Zhao Xingyu's eldest brother married a girl in a neighboring village who reacted slightly slower, "They formed a family for them, and they had a companion and a care for each other." ”
A year later, Zhao Xingyu had a big nephew, at first the family was still worried about whether the child would inherit the father's disease, but after birth, a series of examinations showed that the child was very healthy, and the stone in Zhao Xingyu's heart also fell most of the time, "Even if I can't take care of it later, my brother and son can rely on." After a few years, Zhao Xingyu relied on the money he saved from driving a truck, and he also married and started a family, and gave birth to two daughters successively.
Although the disease is well controlled, Zhao Xingyu's eldest brother is still unable to carry out farm work, and the family's more than two acres of farmland are all taken care of by Zhao Xingyu. The eldest sister-in-law can not do any heavy work, can only wash and cook at home, a family of three only rely on low income to survive, Zhao Xingyu from taking care of the eldest brother to take care of the eldest brother's family, the burden on his shoulders is getting heavier and heavier.
The road to the eldest brother's family, Zhao Xingyu has to walk several times a day
Fortunately, Zhao Xingyu's eldest nephew is still quite competitive, his grades have been good, and the results of going to the middle school in the town after graduating from primary school are also middle and upper grades, "The teacher said that if he can maintain this score, it is no problem to enter high school." The hope of the first college student in our family may be realized by him. "Now, every weekend, Zhao Xingyu will drive to the town to pick up his eldest nephew and go home for the weekend, and then drive back on Sunday night, rain or shine for more than a year."
Watching the eldest son grow up healthy, Zhao Xingyu's eldest brother and wife want to have a second child, Zhao Xingyu and his parents also feel feasible, "I am still young and can help take care of, after the eldest brother and sister-in-law are old, they have to rely on the children to take care of." In this way, Zhao Xingyu had another little nephew, Xiao Jun.
Xiao Jun's birth carries the hope of the whole family
Other people's "good uncles in China"
Xiao Jun's sudden premature birth caused the family to fall into panic. Zhao Xingyu's parents are nearly 60 years old, originally the physical condition is average, the eldest brother and sister-in-law can not go to Shijiazhuang, the wife must take care of the elderly and two daughters at home, so the heavy responsibility of accompanying Xiaojun to see a doctor fell on Zhao Xingyu alone.
At first, the medical staff thought that Xiaojun was Zhao Xingyu's son, whether it was going through formalities or communicating with the doctor about the condition, Zhao Xingyu always had to explain "I am his uncle". Every day he was busy, and soon Zhao Xingyu had a nickname of "Good Uncle of China". Even aiyou staff went to the hospital to visit back, talking about Xiao Jun's condition, several doctors and nurses in the neonatology department mentioned, "Is it the little boy who came to see the doctor with the 'good uncle of China'?" ”
Most of Xiaojun's hospitalization time is carefully cared for by medical staff
Due to the complexity of his condition, Xiao Jun was admitted to the neonatal intensive care unit as soon as he was admitted to the hospital, and at first Zhao Xingyu could also visit the hospital to follow up on the child's condition. Later, after the sudden severe epidemic in Shijiazhuang, Zhao Xingyu had to return to his home in the countryside, and Xiaojun entrusted himself to the care of medical staff, and the medication and treatment matters were communicated by telephone.
"It doesn't matter how much money you spend, the medicine you should use must be used, and it is important to save your life." Although he has a lot of debt, every time he talks to the doctor, Zhao Xingyu will firmly state his position. "When such a lovely little life comes to our house, I have the responsibility to take good care of him and grow up."
Zhao Xingyu felt that as an uncle, it was indispensable to take care of Xiao Jun
Soon, Zhao Xingyu's advance payment in the hospital was spent, which not only had his own savings, but also borrowed fifty thousand yuan from relatives. If Xiao Jun's treatment wants to continue, he must solve the problem of money. Knowing this situation, the medical staff quickly helped Zhao Xingyu apply for the "Aiyou Morning Star" - a rescue project for children with serious diseases.
Fortunately, Xiao Jun's treatment was very smooth, and when he was hospitalized for nearly 3 months, the main diseases were basically stable, and necrotizing colitis, which generally required surgery, was slowly cured through ordinary treatment.
"Except for a little problem in the lungs that needs a little attention, everything else has recovered!" After 105 days of birth, Xiaojun finally returned home for the first time. In order to take better care of him, Grandma also deliberately stayed here to help, and now Xiaojun is recovering particularly well, and his weight is steadily increasing.
After being discharged from the hospital, Xiao Jun is cared for by his mother (left) and his grandmother