When a person is sad, his heart longs to be understood and comforted, to have a shoulder that can cry, and to make his heart less painful and uncomfortable. In love, this shoulder that can cry is generally borne by the lover, and only the lover can be closest to his heart. But if the other party knows that you are very sad, but does not make any action, just silently watching everything happen, the despair that gushes out of the bottom of your heart will hurt yourself very painfully, and you hate yourself for loving an ignorant and unconscious person, as if the whole world has abandoned itself.
Some people's love is hidden, obviously want to care about each other, but really do not know how to warm the heart, always help more and more help. Although I want my lover to stop being sad, if you make the other person more sad because of your clumsiness, you will really deeply blame yourself for hurting the other party. Like these 3 signs do not want to love people sad, very know how to warm the heart, but can make each other happy and happy, let's understand it!
Cancer
Cancer itself is a person who needs to be cared for, looks strong on the outside, and will be vulnerable to various factors on the inside, but with the care of the family, the feeling of sadness can be avoided. But if you change lovers to grieve, Cancer feels the same pain, realizes that he can't always be protected, and thinks of ways to do something to make the other person's mood better. When you can communicate, Cancer will not continue to be silent, but will be a good listener, quietly listening to what the other person thinks, and will respond to the other party gently, not wanting to continue to stimulate the other party's sadness.
Cancer knows what sadness is like, has experienced the feeling of being in the abyss, knows that it is very uncomfortable for himself, and understands that the other party is receiving such pain. And even if Cancer is yelled at and told to leave quickly, they will treat their lovers gently, will not leave in a negative way, and let the other person suffer alone. Therefore, Cancer knows how to warm the heart, understand that in times of sadness, people will feel their loneliness and want to be understood. They will not tell each other a lot of big truths, but they will say some ordinary ordinary words, want to tell each other that life is as usual, they will try to take care of each other, they will not easily abandon each other, and the feeling of happiness and happiness will arise in each other's hearts.
Pisces
Pisces is usually weak, and it is easy to have a sense of dependence at every turn, and the sentimental personality often annoys the lover, and from time to time it is necessary to give Pisces psychological comfort and prove that they love Pisces deeply. When the lover is sad, I thought that the naïve Pisces could not do anything, afraid that I was already scared to hide it, but the result was that Pisces was trying very hard to show his clumsy side, trying to please the person he loved, even if he was afraid of being scolded, he would also say his care and love, and wanted to know why the other party was sad.
Pisces usually behaves unsatisfactorily, lacks expressive ability, and sometimes looks like a wooden man. But Pisces is not an ignorant and unconscious person, when seeing the lover sad, aware of their responsibilities, but also know how to warm their hearts, even if there is some reluctance in the heart, they will try to care for each other. Therefore, Pisces does not want to say anything more, the other party has to do what they want to do to be happy, Pisces will quickly do it, unlike usual there is a lot of hesitation and laziness. And to see the changes and actions of Pisces, the lover is actually very happy, can tease the wood of the Pisces, the mood will also feel happy and happy, and forget that they have just come for grief and pain.
Gemini
Gemini is a pistachio, after having grief, will take the initiative to solve it, and do not want to let the lover see their shameful side, tears across the cheeks. Gemini does not like sadness, they believe that the family is to be harmonious and happy, their emotions can not be brought to the lover, to make the other party feel happy and happy for love. But if it is the other party's sad time, Gemini can't sit still, doesn't want to be infected by the other party's sad emotions, and can't leave the other party's home, and will warm the other person's heart.
Gemini is a pistachio, not only will maintain an optimistic mood, find a lot of happy ideas for themselves, but also bring happiness to others. When the lover is sad, Gemini will sort out some new things and inadvertently make laughable words and actions. They want to make each other's mood better, and they will also do some heart-warming things, such as tidying up the housework and pouring tea and water for each other. Therefore, Gemini very much wants to make the lover happy and happy, and does not want the other party to maintain cold sadness, and the whole family lacks temperature, and they are afraid that they will be frozen in the cold! And gemini's positive attitude, so that the other party can not be seriously sad, you can feel that falling in love with Gemini, is a very happy and happy thing.
Sadness is a very bad emotion, making people feel lonely and painful, like falling into a cold ice cellar, and desperately need warmth. As a party of love, if you just turn a blind eye and take a non-attention attitude towards the sadness of your lover, it is bound to bring a rift to the feelings of two people and make yourself feel very painful. Therefore, in order to get the happiness of love, the feelings of the other party are also very important, and we must strive to warm the sad other party and cover the other party's heart, so that we do not have to fall into the pain of love, and each other can live happily and happily.