Author: Sinaves. Cold Cow SiJia
As we age,
Less and less do not like to be in the hustle and bustle.
Once drunk, ear-warming, passionate.
Gradually revealed the original real appearance.
A wine game,
I can't drink feelings, but I get drunk on friendship.
Songs,
I can't sing my heart, but I roar out unwillingly.
You come and go, you are more and less, you are deep and shallow...
Calculating everywhere, balance is difficult to control.
For the definition of a friend,
With a deeper understanding:
There are not many friends, and the two of them know each other.
So what is a confidant?
As the great calligrapher Qi Gong said:
What is a confidant?
Informed, informed, knowing.
How to be a confidant?
Empathetic, empathetic, communicative.
For love,
There is also a more personal understanding:
Wind and snow, ear grinding is not love.
Be able to accompany each other on ordinary days,
Can not give up when life is at a low point,
It is the truest form of love.
For family affection, I am also sober.
Blood is thicker than water, blood is sometimes not thicker than water,
Nor is it thicker than reality.
When the water is mixed with benefits,
Blood is not thicker than water.
For the world, it is gradually clear:
When the water is clear, there are no fish.
You can never change the world,
The only thing you can change is yourself.
Either conform, or stay away.
What can never be touched is the bottom line.
What can never be verified is human nature.
so
Fresh clothes and angry horses, singing and dancing on the surface of prosperity,
It's just a gorgeous robe with lice.
Young eyes can't see everything,
Immerse yourself in it and get carried away.
When the eyes are cloudy and the bottom of the heart is bright,
I saw it clearly, and I understood everything.
Seeing through without saying broken is the great wisdom of life.
So, in the bustling place, he retreated.
Read with an understanding eye and a tolerant mind.
Retreat, not escape,
It's about keeping yourself out of the way and being an outsider.
It's better to protect yourself.
Author: Chen Guohua, pen name: Chen Hua, HanNiu Sijia. He is a member of the Chinese Writers Association and the vice chairman of the Suifenhe Writers Association. Fiction editor of Far Eastern Literature. He has published the novel collection "Against the Current", "Flower Catcher" and the essay collection "Daddy's Guest", and has won many awards.