There will always be a lot of female friends asking me, how can I judge a man, whether he is sincere about himself or not? In fact, for such a problem, I believe that many women can't help but think about it when they encounter feelings, because women hope that those men who say they love themselves really love themselves, so that they can give their true hearts out.
In fact, if you want to judge a man, whether he really loves you, just listen to what he says to you, it is impossible to distinguish at all, because everyone will say it, but not everyone will do it, so, in a relationship, want to know if the man you love, whether he really loves you, just see what he usually does for you.
When a man falls in love with you, he does a lot of things around you, because when love is born, everything he does will be dominated by the love in his heart. And these are all things that people who don't love you can't pretend.
Therefore, in the process of heterosexual interaction, I want to know if a man, whether he is really really touched by your true feelings, and see if he will have these instinctive manifestations in the process of getting along with you.
1, when you are hard and busy, you will take the initiative to share it for you
Women must understand that a man who really loves you, he definitely does not want you to be very hard, so when he sees that you are very busy, he will definitely take the initiative to come to share for you, even if he is not very good at doing, but he is willing to try, willing to learn to do, in order to be able to help you share as much as possible, do not want you to be so hard.
And if a man, he does not have feelings for you, just pretends to love you, then, even if he is already with you, after he leaves work, see you alone is very tired in the busy outside, he will not say anything, but lying on the sofa alone playing with the mobile phone.
If the man you love, when he sees that you are busy, he can still sit on the couch and play with his mobile phone so peacefully, then, obviously, he must not love you enough.
Women must understand that the man who really loves you is not willing to work so hard for you, so when you are hard and busy, he will instinctively come over and share some things for you.
2, when you are sad and sad, will immediately come to coax you to be happy
A man with a strong nature, after falling in love with you, his heart will definitely become softer and softer, he can't see you sad, can't see you sad, unhappy. Therefore, when you are sad and sad, he will definitely take the initiative to come and ask you what happened, and he will take the initiative to coax you, comfort you, and enlighten you.
If after you quarrel, the woman will be sad to shed tears, the man sees, the heart will certainly be very uncomfortable, at this time, he will naturally not care who is right and who is wrong, but will take the initiative to coax you, do not want you to be so sad, the man who loves you is reluctant to make you sad and sad.
However, if a man does not love you at all or does not love you so much, then when you are sad and sad, he will certainly not care so much, not even a word of concern.
If so, his attitude towards you has reflected his intentions for you very well, he really does not love you, so when you are sad and sad, he does not bother to take care of you, and will not take the initiative to coax you.
3, when you encounter difficulties, he will come to help you immediately
When a man is genuinely in love with a woman, he will fulfill his duty as a boyfriend, he will protect you behind him, shield you from the wind and rain, and do not want you to be hurt.
So, when he learns that you are in trouble, he will come to your side without saying a word, he will tell you not to worry, everything is with him, he will guard you like an angel and keep you from harm.
This is a man who does not love you can not pretend, because the man who does not love you, when he learns that you are in difficulty, he is definitely not willing to help you, because he does not want to be involved in it, so he will deliberately resign, saying that he is very busy and has no time.
If this is the case, you really have no need to continue to love, his behavior has explained everything very well, and you will stop being stupid and give, and die early.
4, in his eyes, only you can be tolerated
When a man is emotional about you, then, from now on, in his heart, he can only tolerate you alone, and when he loves your strengths, he will also accept your shortcomings, of course, if there are better women around him than you, he will not look at it, because in his eyes, you are the best.
Therefore, even if a beautiful woman chases after him, he will decisively reject them because of you, and will not give them any hope at all, because he loves you, wants to give you all his love, does not want you to doubt him, and does not want you to suffer in your feelings, so he will give you a person with his own true heart.
After falling in love with a person, she is willing to become her need, more willing to become her dependence, will sincerely think for her, will sincerely consider for her, will try to give her happiness, give her happiness.
For a woman, the greatest happiness is to find the man who truly loves herself, but not every woman is so lucky. When you find that the person you love is only an illusion for you, and does not really love you, what you should do is actually leave, do not put yourself.