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Weibo suddenly appeared #Sun Li # hot search, many netizens like me, the first reaction was frightened, Sun Li what happened?
Click in to see that it was originally an interview with Sun Li, in the video, Sun Li first talked about his marriage with Deng Chao, married for 11 years, the two were always sweet as ever.
Asked: How two people with relatively large personalities tolerate each other and live in harmony in marriage. Sun Li said that she and Deng Chao are very similar, and everyone sees that she is misled by her role of bitter haha. In fact, I am a very optimistic person, not bitter at all haha.
She and Deng Chao are very unified in family planning, and people with traditional family concepts will not have particularly big contradictions and differences.
If you don't work, you have to spend the weekend together, and every night the family of four eats together and says goodnight before going to bed. And on holidays, it must be together.
And through the recent epidemic, she and Deng Chao know more about the preciousness of the family. The time for a family of four is increasing, and the children think that life is like this, and mom and dad are going to be with them.
After listening to this passage said by Sun Li, I understood that it was no wonder that after 11 years of marriage, her and Deng Chao's love was always sweet as ever, it turned out that no matter how busy they were, both of them put their families first, and the original family made them understand more about the company is the medicine for a good marriage.
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Sun Li's original family did not have the happiness that everyone imagined. For as long as she can remember, her parents have been arguing. Most children hear the phrase "If it wasn't for you, I would have divorced a long time ago", Sun Li's mother also said to her.
At the age of 12, Sun Li's parents divorced, the court only awarded a very small amount of maintenance, watching her mother cry, at that time she made up her mind that she would not get married in the future.
The marriage of her parents taught her to be independent, and it also left a shadow in her heart.
Deng Chao's original family is also very complicated, his parents are remarried and reorganized the family, with Deng Chao.
In middle school, Deng Chao was very rebellious, rebellious to the point of heinousness, contrasting with everything, and became a "little hooligan" in the eyes of others.
And his father is even more incompatible, and then his father beat him, Deng Chao secretly bought a train ticket to Guangdong, playing away from home, I think this is what many rebellious children will do.
Half a month later, he was found by his father, whose hair was much whiter. After knowing the work, his father had an illness, which made Deng Chao realize the strength of his father's love and the preciousness of family affection.
But just like these two people who also have unhappy original families, they don't have any expectations for love, and God let them meet and fall in love.
The two people who just fell in love, Sun Li, when talking about Deng Timeout, it is not difficult to find that there is light in their eyes.
The two have similar experiences, and they will feel sorry for each other and walk together. Two people who lack love form a happy family with love and tolerance, because they know what is most lacking and needed most before each other.
Therefore, Deng Chao said at the wedding, "I will be good to you, I hope that the two of us will be fond of each other, take good care of each other, I will take good care of you, no matter anything, I will love you well." ”
A simple sentence, but a long-term commitment.
Over the years, the two have also done bit by bit with each other all the way.
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It is said that the marriage of the entertainment industry is a shuluo field, divided and combined, each for the sake of interests.
In 21 years, there are nearly 10 celebrity couples divorced in the circle, and the reason for most divorces, on the surface, the official statement seems to be a personality disharmony, in fact, it is nothing more than gathering less and leaving more.
Actors are a special industry, filming a drama is several months, husband and wife are not together for two days, but in the play and others to fall in love, a long time, coupled with less and less communication with the family, their feelings are prone to problems.
Ordinary couples in life, if they often go away from home, do not meet, at the beginning they still feel nothing, and after a long time, they will slowly find that communication becomes less and less, and there is no common topic.
It's better when you don't have children, and you can do whatever you want. Once you have a child, the contradiction will suddenly arise, the woman complains that the man is not at home and does not care about himself; the man complains that the woman does not understand the hardships of earning money and supporting the family.
Mutual resentment and incomprehension will inevitably cause a gap in the feelings between husband and wife, and if it is not handled properly, it will end in divorce.
Between any couple and couple, if there is no long-term companionship as the basis, then all the sweetness will gradually wear out with time and distance.
Let us have more companionship, more love, and always have a beautiful intimate relationship.