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A few days ago, a fan left a message in the background: "I always feel that I don't deserve that person, so I want to wait for myself to get better and start again, but I hesitate in my heart, and when I get better, that person will still be around him." ”
Seriously, the answer to this question, most likely, will not be.
Before watching "Rhinoceros in Love", the male protagonist Ma Lu recalled the scene when he first met Mingming: you stood at the corner of the stairs, with a certain fragrance, a little wet, strange breath, when you passed by, you knew that you were crying. That's when things happened.
At that time, I did not understand why falling in love with someone would be very sudden, precious love, should not be in life to witness a big event and a small love, until I understand that each other should be the one who loves each other.
But then when I grew up, I realized that some love exists, and it really happens at that moment, it doesn't care if you're ready or not, it doesn't matter if you're right, more often, it's the perfume of that moment, it's his white shirt, it's her ripped jeans.
It's not that love is cheap, but because when you fall in love with someone, you put it all down to the cause of love.
At that time, if you catch it, you will catch it, and if you can't grasp it, you will immediately scatter.
I used to believe in logical rationality, but later in every love I have talked about, I will find that reasonable logic is not so applicable in love.
I met a girl before, and we didn't know much about it, but in the process of laughing and playing, the eyes of two people were cleverly locked on each other. At that moment, when you see her laughing, you will feel like a spring coming out of a spring, that joy that you can't stop by any means, and when you see her frown, you will feel like a huge canopy has been pulled up on a sunny day, and the world will lose color in an instant.
But later, I forced myself to endure that liking, always felt that my education was not bright enough, the value was not enough, and even felt that a thread from the button was the reason why I did not deserve to be liked, I chose to hide the story, and wait until I was good enough to continue to write.
However, time will make the stranded feelings no longer complete.
Many years later, in a chance encounter, the girl said to me: "It is already rare that the pure impulse of love can exist for a moment." ”
Yes, the sun and the moon look at each other, like a turn, we can meet a person who loves each other is already rare enough, but many times we will push this rare encounter away because of various conditions, so that after many years you will find that no matter how good you become, it is difficult to get the kind of romance that falls in love with each other in an instant.
It's easy to get better, and you have a lot of time to follow the full direction in the future of your life, but it's really hard to meet someone who loves each other.
Believe it or not, when you meet the man who smells of perfume, white shirt, and ripped jeans again, even if all the details are the same as his, you may not be able to renew your love, because that person is not him.
Liking a person is like this, it is the pure love and impulse of transcendent foreign objects, it is bright concern and empathy, not, waiting for a proper time, waiting for a proper mutual.
We don't have to practice love clumsily, we should boldly let our instincts drive us closer to love.
Maybe it's really because we like it so much that we become bottomless.
We always feel that we should walk a long way, climb a very high mountain, and have enough light to be eligible to walk with him, but feelings often do not allow the existence of waiting.
Just like yogurt that is overdue, there is no shirt that you are willing to buy, one day, you will be disappointed to find that after the wrong time, you no longer have the qualifications to have, and the same is true for people who love each other, some people really turn around for a lifetime.
At my age, I often hear people say, "I don't feel that way anymore."
Yes, the heartbeat is easier than anything else to fade, so that many people who come after it are trapped in the embarrassing dilemma of being afraid of losing, afraid of losing, and labeling everyone as a material.
When love comes, don't beat love to pieces because of your inferiority and cowardice.
He loves you, not how good you can be in the future, but at this moment, nothing else, just want to love you.
Use a small amount of aspirin as an analgesic for your mind.
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