How many people like it, starting from love at first sight or long-term love, and how many people like it from the initiative. When a person expresses like, it is never clear in three words and two words, so when you like a person, it often starts from the initiative, and then begins to spread to mutual initiative, if a person will never take the initiative to find you, and your initiative can not be exchanged for his response, what does this mean?
First, your position in his place is not so important
Maybe when you take the initiative, he will also take the initiative to respond to you, but he will never take the initiative to chat with you, nor will he look for you to chat when there is nothing to do, generally speaking to you is to let you help or let you share his worries, which is equivalent to using you as his worry machine. Often in this case, you may not be so important to him, after all, the purpose of his initiative is not the same as your active purpose. Therefore, at this time, you must pay attention to distinguishing the relationship between you, and do not continue to rush stupidly.
Second, he doesn't know how to talk to you
Among the people we know, not everyone is very good at chatting and communicating, and there are many people who are not good at chatting, because in their world, many things are relatively "straight" and not good at covering up or expressing them in a roundabout way. Therefore, when chatting with people, they will only be short parents, and the way of caring for people is also very simple, if they can, they would rather express themselves with actions than use words to express their behavior. Therefore, his inactivity may be because he is not good at chatting, and he is also afraid that the topic he is talking about is not of interest to you, which will lead to accelerated loss of you.
Third, some things know the outcome before they even begin
Many people can clearly feel each other's intentions in their daily behavior, especially in the expression of emotions. Some people are very sensitive to feelings, as long as you reveal a little like, they can understand your intentions, but also understand what you want to do. So when you take the initiative, they will choose to avoid or turn a blind eye and not hear, this is because you are not their ideal type, nor is it the object they want to cherish, they turn a blind eye to you, hear and do not hear, in fact, is a protection of each other's relationship, but also afraid and expected results of the occurrence. So they will actively avoid your signals to prevent the expected results from happening. Therefore, some things often have results when they have not started, and this is not because your initiative is meaningless, but many things have long been doomed.
Fourth, you are not his ideal type, and even the foundation is not up to standard
I believe that many people have their own mate selection standards, and in many cases, they will not easily let go of their own requirements, nor will they easily make their own choices. When a person meets their own standards, they will choose to take the initiative, but many people ignore that a slap is not sound. Therefore, when you choose to take the initiative, the other party does not take the initiative to respond, nor does it take the initiative to find you, you must understand that it has not yet met the other party's mate selection standards, if your long-term initiative has not responded, then you will slowly give up. A person who never takes the initiative to find you in the long or short term also shows that he is not interested in you, or does not like you so much. Therefore, at this time, you should also look at a little, not that you are not good enough, but that your likes are not worthy of him, nor do they deserve to have.
Like a person, always from the inside out, the initiative is also from the inside out. If a person says that he likes you, but he does not have much initiative, then to a large extent, it means that he does not like you so much, although this situation can also be said to be that he likes it very carefully, but this is also a manifestation of not liking it enough. Therefore, when you take the initiative for a long time, the other party does not respond, it means that you are most likely not his destiny, you should also let go appropriately, perhaps the person who can often take the initiative with each other is your destiny.