Recently, the Internet has been frantically brushed by Haiqing teacher "You are my god", as everyone knows, in terms of parenting, Haiqing teacher is still a god!
Haiqing, who has played many "tiger mother" roles, also has a 16-year-old son in her own home, and through her daily "achievements" posted on Weibo, people can't help but sigh: "What kind of fairy child is this?" ”
Haiqing once posted a Chinese painting of his son, "Mountain Residence Map", which can be said to have some professional skills on the body. Although Haiqing said that his son was painting backwards and forwards, the pride in his heart could not be stopped at all.
When he was 10 years old, Haiqing's son drew a pencil drawing that won the championship in the competition, and some people expressed their willingness to buy 30,000 yuan.
In addition to painting, Haiqing's son is also good at calligraphy, and the four words "Meilan Zhuju" that he once wrote were also on the cover of the magazine.
In addition, he is also very good at sports, winning three gold medals in the Los Angeles Swimming Championships and winning three golds and one silver in the Asian Swimming Championships.
In terms of music, it has not fallen, and violins and pianos are involved.
Do you think that's the end of it? No! Importantly, his studies have not fallen behind at all, and he is quite disciplined!
Seeing here, I believe that many parents and friends who force their children to practice the piano and write homework every day will be envious, how can they cultivate such a self-disciplined child? Today, let's take a look at Haiqing's concept of education!
First, respect interests and give freedom
Because she is filming outside all year round and has less time to accompany her children, Haiqing mainly educates her son in an open and free way, and she does not pay special attention to the child's score, but attaches importance to the child's all-round development. She enrolled her son in a total of 7 interest classes, but it was not forced, basically all of them were of interest to her son, as long as the child was interested, she would support it.
Haiqing once said: "Although the child is still young, in fact, he already has his own small ideas and small views. Can't do too much harm to her, including what he likes and hobbies, I've always respected him. ”
Second, be strict with yourself and accompany by example
Haiqing said that if her son goes to the interest class, she will also practice alongside, and Haiqing usually gets along with the child in a reciprocal manner, and will not look down on the child. When the son was three or four years old, the two painted together, and later, it became to smear colors on each other, and the colorful mother hugged her colorful son to take a bath, and they got along as a friend.
When his son is quietly writing his homework, Haiqing will also take out a book next to him to read. Influence the child through their own self-discipline and become a role model for the child to learn.
Third, easy education, more praise
In haiqing's daily release of the dynamics about her son, although she cannot accompany the child all the time, she can pay attention to the child's every progress and praise it without hesitation. Moreover, she has always created a relaxed atmosphere for children. This relaxed and free atmosphere can cultivate children's self-reliance. On the contrary, the more severe it is, the easier it is to increase the rebellious psychology of children.
In the process of accompanying children to learn in their daily lives, we must also be good at seeing the progress of children, encouraging and praising more, and children also need some "sense of achievement" to better mobilize their enthusiasm.
Therefore, from the child's interests and hobbies as a guide, parents should set a good example, encourage the child more, and believe that the child will become more and more self-disciplined!