Text/Coriander
If life is always in adolescence, how good!
But this is just a fantasy, just a beautiful vision.
Where is the ageless youth in life? Where are the unchanging years in life? It seems that in just a moment, youth is gone.
The crowd after the seventies has gone to half a hundred lives, no one wants to, no one likes, but there is no way, and there is no way to disobey.
When people reach middle age, they have experienced ups and downs, ups and downs, and they can't be clearly said in one or two sentences. From youth to middle age, people are either running on the boundary of survival or running on the road of learning and enterprising.
The reason why I am so tired is to master more skills, to live better in this world, and to not be eliminated by this society.
But as people walk, they often forget themselves and forget how to place their bodies and minds in this complicated situation.
In life, the health and placement of the body and mind is a very important and important part. If the body and mind do not return to their place, life is easy to lose its direction.
What is the homecoming of the mind and body? That is the correct position of people on the way to the end of life, to live according to their own hearts, and to bring their body and mind to the level they want most, which is the return of the body and mind.
Throughout life, people are always learning various skills, as the saying goes: live to be old and learn to be old.
But people always forget that there is actually a skill that people need to learn the most, especially when people reach middle age. This skill is the ability of people to be alone.
The more people who can have this ability, the more their lives can actually reach a relatively high realm.
The more a person who is able to be alone, accustomed to being alone, or even likes to be alone, the more calm his mind is. And calm is a major realm of life, and many achievements often arise in peace.
People who are good at being alone are also better at thinking. He can separate himself from the world in a complex environment. No matter how the world changes, he always has a clear understanding of his position and the boundaries he can reach.
Learning to be alone is also the cognitive ability that people need to be middle-aged. Or, everyone has a different personality, some people like to be lively, some people may be quiet. None of this is a disadvantage, but it is still two different concepts from personal solitude. The bustle can be superficial, and the quiet may be shallow, but the real ability to be alone is that no matter where the person is, his soul, his soul, will have a quiet and clean corner of himself.
The world is prosperous, and the world is also complicated. How people are alone in this complicated world is also a very deep learning.
But no matter how complex the world is, if people can learn to be alone, they can win a place for themselves.
When people reach middle age, many things have to be looked down upon, a lot of interpersonal relationships, a lot of external things, should learn to let go.
Learning to be alone is actually learning to give up.
People have desires, and the size of desires also represents the extent to which people can eventually practice.
A person who desires too much, even if he gains more, the more he will lose.
People's renunciation is actually to reduce their own desires and reduce some unnecessary external objects in their lives.
Being alone requires a sense of peace and tranquility; being alone also requires a kind of renunciation.
But often, it's easier said than done, but it's hard to actually do it.
People always have a habit, a habit of life, a habit of feelings. Desire can sometimes become a habit.
Habits are difficult to change, if you really want to change, you need to make a lot of determination and courage.
The ability to learn to be alone is the same. It's not that if you want to be alone, you'll have that ability right away. Ability, in addition to being born, is more learned.
And this ability is not in the books, but in the complicated social environment, in the cultivation of personal virtue.
The more a person can master this ability, the more blessed he will be in his life.