When you think of "little fresh meat", who comes to mind?
Perhaps, you will think of Lu Han, Li Yifeng, Zhang Yixing, Yang Yang, etc., one of them.
In fact, 22 years ago, there was also a "small fresh meat" that became popular by virtue of its appearance and became a public lover.
At that time, he would receive tens of thousands of confessional letters every day from girls from all over the country.
Even, there is a woman who spent 60,000 yuan specifically to find him to get married.....
This "small fresh meat" is Xu Yajun.
I have to admit that in any era, people with high looks will always be sought after.
Xu Yajun is no exception.
Therefore, his emotions in this life are very rich, after 4 marriages, all of them are great beauties.
In this regard, Xu Yajun said somewhat Versailles: "I don't think I spend my heart."
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Xu Yajun was born in 1964 to a military family in Handan, Hebei Province.
Subsequently, due to the change of his father's job, the family moved to Beijing.
Close to the cultural capital, Xu Yajun's literary and artistic talents have also been well played.
His parents sent him to a major literary and art primary school in Beijing.
Because of his outstanding acting talent, Xu Yajun, who was young, was selected to join the children's performance team under CCTV.
Whenever CCTV needs small actors, it will come to the children's performance team to choose.
Near the water tower platform first get the moon.
In 1975, 11-year-old Xu Yajun starred in his first work in life, "Youth Like Fire", and officially entered the show business circle.
Since then, his acting path has begun to be smooth.
In 1980, after graduating from the Central Academy of Drama, he was assigned to the China Children's Art Theatre.
There, Xu Yajun acted in dramas for 6 years, laying a solid foundation for his future acting career.
Excellent appearance and solid acting skills have made many people start to pay attention to Xu Yajun.
A few years later, Xu Yajun had the honor of starring in the TV series "Finding the World Back" with Song Dandan.
For the bad boy "Earl" in the play, he won the Popular Television Golden Eagle Award for Best Actor.
Xu Yajun, who has thick eyebrows and big eyes and is handsome and charming, became the first male actor to appear on the cover of China's "Popular Film" magazine, and also became a male god in the hearts of thousands of women across the country.
Xu Yajun was completely red.
However, this happiness did not pass, and the punishment of the unit came:
Because he took the play privately, Xu Yajun was punished by the theater and could not receive any script for three years.
This news was tantamount to a slap in the face and hit Xu Yajun.
However, fortunately, in his reputation, peach blossom luck also came.
02
Huang Jianping, a girl in the same theater as Xu Yajun, looked at the handsome Xu Yajun and had long been secretly in love.
It is said that women chase men, and the layer of yarn.
Under her active pursuit, Xu Yajun surrendered his weapons within a few rounds, and the two soon fell in love.
In those days, love was almost the same, and basically they would get married.
Xu Yajun and Huang Jianping are no exception, and they flashed their marriage shortly after they confirmed their love affair.
In the days when he was punished by the theater, Huang Jianping has been next to Xu Yajun to encourage him and cheer him up.
This deeply touched Xu Yajun.
After a sweet time, a bad news breaks the peaceful life of the two:
Huang Jianping was found to be suffering from an incurable disease.
By the time the results were found in the hospital, Huang Jianping's life had entered the countdown.
Although Xu Yajun tried her best to save her, in the end she passed away forever.
The death of his beloved wife depressed him for a long time.
Whenever he remembered his wife's voice and smile, he would wake up crying from his dream.
Perhaps, Heaven could not bear to let this beautiful man continue to be depressed, and let another beautiful woman come to his side.
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This beautiful woman is Zhang Xi, an actor in the same theater.
In the years after Huang Jianping left, Zhang Xi took her role and has been accompanying and caring for Xu Yajun.
Over time, Xu Yajun was touched by Zhang Xi's love and true feelings, and the two naturally entered the marriage hall.
After that, Xu Yajun focused on his career.
Zhang Xi retreated behind the scenes and became the woman behind Xu Yajun.
She naively thought that as long as she was good to men, the other party would be good to her.
It was a big mistake.
Gratitude and touching do not equal love.
Once a man meets the love he has in mind, all your good becomes "bad".
In 1992, Xu Yajun starred in the TV series "Wind and Rain Beauty", which won the "Flying Sky Award" and the "Golden Eagle Award" consecutively.
As one of the main actors, his popularity has once again risen to a higher level.
The number of people looking for him to shoot dramas has also begun to increase.
The actress he works with is also more beautiful than one.
In this case, Xu Yajun met He Qing, the "first beauty of the classics".
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Born in 1964, He Qing, a native of Quzhou, Zhejiang, is an actor in Kunqu opera.
The elegant Gangnam beauty, coupled with the picturesque temperament, when Xu Yajun first saw her, he completely fell.
And He Qing was also fascinated by the handsome and handsome Xu Yajun.
The two fought fiercely in the crew.
But as soon as the scene was finished, they were all worried.
Xu Yajun has married and started a family, and He Qing also has a boyfriend Liu Wei who has been talking for 5 years.
What should I do?
After discussing, the two decided to have a showdown with their respective partners.
Xu Yajun went back and told Zhang Xi about his liking for others.
Zhang Xi was so angry that he had a heart attack and was almost sent to the hospital for rescue.
However, Xu Yajun's side was determined to divorce, and Zhang Xi could only bear to agree.
On the other hand, He Qing and her boyfriend Liu Wei also broke up smoothly.
In this way, the two braved worldly controversy and joined together.
After marriage, He Qing gave birth to a son "Xu He" for Xu Yajun.
From the name of the son, you can see how loving they were at that time.
Xu Yajun hopes that He Qing can return to his family and teach his husband and children at home.
However, He Qing, who loves acting, does not want to give up his career too early.
Over time, children, families, careers, etc. are intertwined, and a series of trivial things make their contradictions escalate.
Finally, in 2003, the marriage of the golden boy and the jade girl also came to an end.
The three marriages hit the rocks, so that Xu Yajun temporarily stopped the pace of love.
It wasn't until 5 years later that he rekindled the flame of love.
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In 2008, Xu Yajun met actress Zhang Shu when filming "The Days We Walked Together".
Since then, because the two love to play golf, they have gradually become acquainted and fallen in love.
When Zhang Shu told his parents the news that he was going to marry Xu Yajun, the second elder expressed strong opposition.
Because in their eyes, Xu Yajun has been married three times, and he is not a reliable man in any way.
At this point, in order to please his future father-in-law and mother-in-law, Xu Yajun went to visit his home every three to five minutes.
The number of times he went, Zhang Shu's parents also changed their impression of him, and they acquiesced to their daughter's marriage.
In 2010, his wife Zhang Shu, 34, gave birth to his son Tuantuan, a 46-year-old Xu Yajun.
Perhaps because he is older, Xu Yajun has more of the thoughtfulness and gentleness of a mature man.
After falling in love with Zhang Shu, even if he is busy and tired, he will fly back and forth to accompany each other every day.
As long as Zhang Shu "misses you", he will immediately appear next to me.
Taking the child to do the examination and changing the child's diaper, all things are Xu Yajun's own hands.
As soon as the child is born, the problem comes.
Both sides are actors, who will take care of the children when filming?
Here in his ex-wife He Qing, she once said: He wants me to be at home with my children, but I like acting too much and don't want to give up my career.
In Zhang Shu's case, there is no such problem.
First, because her acting career is mediocre, it is not as famous as He Qing;
Second, she has no ambition in her career.
Therefore, after marriage, Zhang Shu willingly retired from the show business circle, always married and taught his son, and became a full-time wife.
Every day, he worries about the family's chai rice oil and salt, and takes care of his stepson Xu He.
In the face of this rare "virtuous wife", Xu Yajun was overjoyed.
Half a hundred years in life, a successful career, and four marriages, and the ex-wife are all great beauties, and now the life years are quiet.
I have to say that Xu Yajun, 58 years old, is the big winner among domestic actors.
Author: Ink
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