No, you don't have the ability to lose your lover, you should just reflect on what a lover is
The ability to love people starts with loving yourself, and I have always emphasized this issue, you know, you love yourself, fill yourself with love and happiness, and then overflow, give love to others, so that you love people
Love, but do not ask for anything, just your true outpouring, just you are free to be yourself, even if the person you love is gone, you still have not lost the ability to love, you can still live better
If you feel that you can't live your own life without a lover, then I want to tell you that it is because you must not love yourself well, so there will be so many emptiness and cracks that need to be filled by others, but you must know that when you did not meet him in the beginning, you were still yourself, you had your own wonderful life, and at that time, you could also live happily
Let's start by being nice to ourselves
If you try to get love by being good to others, it will certainly be painful, because if you make yourself feel happy, let yourself feel loved in the way you please others, and then ask others to do it the way you like, others must be painful when they carry out some of your requirements, and when others do it in the way you ask, you will begin to doubt and fear how long this love will last
Then once you start to forcibly change yourself, asking yourself to be what others like or others ask for, causing yourself to be miserable, and finally inevitably contradicting the other party, and then separating
But, baby, isn't love supposed to exist for the sake of both parties being happy and living a better life?
Why is it the source of our suffering?
I think the reason is only because you don't love yourself well, you don't love yourself enough
Baby, true love, is to live your own life wonderful, full, beautiful, complete, and then share with each other your happiness, your beauty, so full of vitality of you, no one will be willing to refuse it
And if you give the right to live a beautiful and wonderful life to each other, that is, give up your right to explore the beautiful world, it will also bring great pressure to the other party, two people together, in order to share their beauty with each other, rather than ask for each other's beauty
Baby, I know you have too many sad moments, those once beautiful, has always reminded you that you can't give up this relationship with your heart, but, under all these premises, please start with loving yourself first?
You first become an independent, happy tree, fill yourself with love, and then share this love with others, then, please believe that in the near future, you will harvest a sincere and eternal love
* I'm Fat Ran, if you want, I'm happy to listen to your story, remember to point a little attention and then go!
(The author's original plagiarism must be investigated.) Image from the Internet and the story has nothing to do with infringement and deletion)