Waiting is a beautiful word.
However, waiting is also like a gamble, good luck, willow dark flowers, bad luck, miss a lifetime.
Therefore, if a crush is always waiting, hoping for flowers to bloom, without rain and dew, most of them will end up withering into mud.
Between men and women, women are always slightly reserved and shy, she likes a person, but will not take the initiative to confess. She has you in her heart, and will constantly tempt you to show favor to you, but she is more eager for you to read her meaning, to have the same good feelings for her, and to be able to take the initiative to pursue her.
Therefore, in life, women treat ordinary friends and treat people they like differently.
Treat ordinary friends, she will abide by the duty of friends, will not cross the line, even chat will be polite, will not chat deeply, and will not talk to you for no reason, adding trouble to you;
And for the people she likes, she will pay special attention to her own words, will pay attention to her own image, does not want to leave a bad impression on the other party, and even when she is with him, she will "deliberately" trouble him, when chatting, deliberately "pick" him, want to have more contact with him, more interaction.
Therefore, the woman's mind seems difficult to understand, in fact, if she has a person in her heart, she will have a lot of "small actions" with ulterior motives in the relationship between this person and her.
She will use these small gestures to hint at men, I am interested in you, don't you understand? Come and chase me."
Always when you are in trouble, only look for you, no one else can
In "The Year of Hurry", it is sung: We owe each other, we want to break the connection...
Perhaps, a woman likes you, what she wants in her heart is to have a relationship with you, let you notice her, although she will hide her own thoughts, but she will constantly hint at you and give you "trouble".
There are always some film and television dramas, there will be such a scene, the man is not in front, the woman can carry a bucket of mineral water, and when the man is in front, even the lid of the bottle of pure water cannot be unscrewed.
The woman's weakness seems to be sub-occasion.
When she meets someone she likes, she will become a delicate person, slightly heavier things, can't move, other people are not good, you must be able to help her take it; the computer at home is broken, other people can't fix it, just pick the place you will fix bad; can't get up in the morning, just call you the night before, let you come to tell her to "get up"...
Her mind has been "revealed", and she can only tell you bluntly that I have a crush on you.
The husband of a former friend was her "trouble".
The friend has a little playfulness, her husband is a red person in the eyes of the teacher at that time, a famous talent in the department, the friend made up his mind to chase him at that time, but several times to chat with him, the other party did not pay much attention to her, just in time for her to have a homework hanging subject, just take advantage of the situation "trouble" him, let him make up for himself.
The make-up class is true, chasing him is also true, the two people are getting closer and closer, every time they go to the canteen to eat together, go to self-study together, and finally the man is successfully taken down by her, the two people have been married for many years now, very happy.
It can be seen that good love is troubled by each other.
Therefore, women often trouble you, no matter how big or small, as if you want you to enter her life, you should have a feeling, don't be silly to think that the other party is just simply "looking for you", don't be stupid to wait, if it is also interesting to her, you may wish to try to respond to her.
You know, only someone who a woman has a special trust in herself will trouble him so much.
Always in a group of people, be sure to sit next to you
Perhaps, the saddest thing in love is not that the person you love does not love you, but the person you love, who does not know from the beginning to the end that you are loving him, and even knows that you love him, but still pretends not to know.
A woman seems to be a creature that never takes the initiative, but if she has a good feeling for you, she will also uncontrollably want to get close to you and get close to you.
She won't say a lot of ambiguous things to you, she'll worry, you think she's frivolous, she'll be afraid that you can't even do it with ordinary friends. For example, a woman who can casually talk about meat strips, in front of the people she likes, she will still be slightly shy, she will still hope that in his heart, she is the innocent girl wearing a white dress.
However, she does not say it, but will use her own body language to tell you that she is interested in you.
For example, a group of people eat together, she always has to sit next to you, relying on you closest; everyone goes out to play together, in the car, she must sit next to you; there are many people in the elevator, she must stand next to you to feel safe; friends go hiking together, she must accompany you, she must be with you, only to feel fun... If she has you in her heart, she will regard you as the deepest reliance in her heart, and she will want to be the closest person to you in the eyes of others.
And, when you encounter difficulties, she must be the first person to come to you to help, because she cares about you in her heart, so she will willingly pay for you without half a complaint and help you as much as she can.
Even if you have many shortcomings in the eyes of others, in her heart, she will feel that you are the most handsome and cool person.
Therefore, some men, do not think that women are so adoring you, do not be that "universal faith man", you must know, only in the eyes of people who love you, you will be so valued, will someone be so good to you, no regrets.
Always inside and outside, all "tickling" you
Perhaps, in love, the most feared thing is that a person uses joking words to tell the truth of the heart, and that person does not understand at all.
Men, you must understand that when a woman is creating ambiguous feelings with you inside and outside the words, most of the time, she has a little thought about you.
In particular, to say to you some words that are only between lovers, "You are the best", "I like to be with you", "What are you doing looking at me so affectionately"... It seems to be a joke, but it is actually testing you; it seems to praise you, but it is actually confessing to you.
With these seductive words, she is telling you how she feels about you in her heart, and she is also expecting you to respond to her.
Man, always around the love around, do not know how to cherish, after losing, only to know, the original love was once so close to themselves.
I remember seeing a story once.
A girl likes her colleagues very much, whenever the man works overtime, she accompanies him, always brings two breakfasts she makes herself in the morning, gives a man, the man has been ambiguous, but also does not refuse, the girl often said a word to him: I suspect that I owe you in my previous life, and I have come to pay off my debts in this life.
All her colleagues saw that she was interested in this man and was trying to match.
Once everyone went to sing together, someone proposed, let the girl sing a couple chorus with the boy, and the boy did not answer the microphone, saying that he could not sing, the scene was very embarrassing, at this time, another colleague helped the girl break the siege.
Since then, the two people have drifted apart, and the girl has finally walked with another colleague.
The man later came back and wanted to chase it again, but it was too late.
It can be seen that women are good to you, rarely for no reason, some of the seductive words she says, rarely will be unintentional, she has ideas about you, she will continue to pay while testing your meaning to her.
If once you give her the feeling that she is unintentional and not interested in her at all, it is likely that she will withdraw quickly.
After all, the essence of love, which should be to give, is to respond to each other.
Conclusion:
A woman's mind is actually very simple.
You know, if it wasn't for the people she cared about, she wouldn't show affection to people who didn't matter.
If she lets go of her own reticence, takes the initiative to pay you, takes the initiative to pry you, and takes the initiative to trouble you, it must not be just to be an ordinary friend with you.
In the "West Lake Story", it is said: Nai Meng Langjun fell in love at first sight, so the concubine felt it in her heart.
The right time, the right person, can fall in love with each other at first sight, perhaps, is the most beautiful love in the world.
However, in life, there will always be beauty, there will also be loss, love a person, not only a feeling, but also in life, can meet a person who understands you.
Therefore, true love needs to understand each other and give to each other in order to continue love.
Therefore, if you also have affection for her, don't let her wait too long, since people have shown their sincerity, take the initiative to take a step, don't chill the other party's heart; if you feel that she is really inappropriate, then you may wish to stay away appropriately, consciously remind, do not ambiguously accept the other party's good, causing her to misunderstand.
In this world, the best love is to meet a person, the years are the same, the heart is the same, but if there is only one person who is addicted to love, it is better to pick it out early and not to get involved with each other.
Finally, may every couple of lovers be able to treat each other sincerely and not waste time waiting.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!