There are many combinations of old husbands and young wives in the entertainment industry.
The combination of these old husbands and young wives is mostly combined in the case of abandoning the wife with hair, and such examples are especially many in the director's circle.
Zhang Yimou abandoned his wife and married Xu Ting, who was 31 years younger than himself, and their marriage was broken because of the supernatural scandal.
When Chen Kaige was young, he used his ex-wife Hong Huang to get a GREEN CARD in the United States and turned around and married Chen Hong.
Now Chen Kaige and Chen Hong's son are thriving in the entertainment industry.
Feng Xiaogang divorced his wife Zhang Di for Xu Fan, and after marrying Xu Fan, he also had a lot of scandals.
The married life of these great directors is the same, and the one I want to talk about today is no exception, Zhang Jizhong and his 31-year-old wife, Du Xinglin.
Unlike other wives who swallowed their anger, Du Xinglin had repeatedly defended himself publicly.
"I am not a gold worshipper, and the people who say I am a gold worshipper not only do not understand love, but also have bad intentions!"
These are all remarks made by Du Xinglin in public when the two were just married.
She tried to refute the media reporters' perception that their marriage was "a gold-worshiping woman on the throne."
Now the two have been married for many years, and have given birth to a pair of children together, the two sons of this old husband and young wife are often used as a talking point after tea and dinner by netizens, and they have to take it out to laugh at two sentences.
Today, let's take a look at it together, after Du Xinglin married Zhang Jizhong, who was 31 years older than himself, did he really gain happiness?
01. Staying in the Ocean and the first marriage
In 1982, Du Xinglin was born in Lianyungang, Jiangsu Province, to a well-off family.
Both parents were intellectuals, which laid the foundation for a good educational environment from an early age.
Inheriting the advantages of his parents' intellectuals, Du Xinglin was full of learning talent from an early age, and his academic performance was very good, and he never needed his parents to worry.
Du Xinglin's parents are more traditional, so they have used many "dogmas" to restrain their daughters since childhood, such as access control, etiquette, etc.
Perhaps because he grew up under these constraints, Du Xinglin will be so 'out of line' in many behaviors when he becomes an adult.
Despite such restrictions from his parents, Du Xinglin still did not read the book pedanticly and did not become a nerd.
Since she was a child, she was smart and able to speak the Tao, and she was already the object of crush on many male classmates in junior high school.
But Du Xinglin had lofty goals and ambitions in her heart, and she ignored them in the face of the small love affairs of her student days.
After graduating from middle school, Du Xinglin, who immersed himself in studying, was admitted to the university of his choice.
During college, Du Xinglin, who is both excellent in character and learning, has been working as a part-time tutor outside the school to help children learn English.
Thanks to her professional ability and careful patience, her part-time career has been thriving.
It is precisely because of this part-time experience in college that after graduation, Du Xinglin began his first career in life - An English teacher.
She was working at New Oriental, a well-known English training institution.
During his time as a teacher, Du Xinglin was very satisfied with his work performance.
She has repeatedly told her friends that her students love her classes.
If Du Xinglin had stayed in New Oriental and buried his head in deep cultivation to this day, he might have been a generation of gold medal teachers.
But Du Xinglin has an ambitious personality, and she will never settle for a lifetime to be an ordinary teacher.
Du Xinglin is a standard speculator, in order to be able to access the larger world and more opportunities, within a few years she quit her job as an English teacher and went to France to study.
It is precisely because of this decisive choice that Du Xinglin met the first springboard in her life after returning from studying abroad, that is, her first husband, Huang Taiyuan.
In 2009, when the 27-year-old Du Xinglin returned to China after completing her studies, she did not choose to develop in her hometown, or went to Taiwan to engage in planning-related work.
Regarding the growth of Du Xinglin's life and ability in the years of studying abroad, we do not know.
But since Du Xinglin returned to China, the label she added to herself has changed from "young and capable English teacher" to "elite planning" and "Chinese Audrey Hepburn".
During the planning period, Du Xinglin accumulated a large number of contacts and also met many big people who were not rich or noble.
Among them is Huang Taiyuan.
Huang Taiyuan is 20 years older than Du Xinglin, a famous planner in Taiwan, and can be regarded as Du Xinglin's predecessor.
Huang Taiyuan was a Du generation who accumulated wealth by his own hands, and he already had a billionaire wealth at that time.
Because they are peers, the two have a lot in common.
A successful rich businessman in his forties and a young returnee in his 20s who are young and beautiful are in the ambiguous stage of mutual appreciation.
At this stage, Huang Taiyuan and Du Xinglin jointly established a planning company, with Huang Taiyuan as the chairman and Du Xinglin as the executive president.
Du Xinglin's business vision is very good, under her management, the development of the two companies is booming.
Huang Taiyuan also gradually had other ideas about this young and beautiful and capable girl.
It just so happened that Du Xinglin also had this intention, and the two hit it off and became a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.
But at this time, Huang Taiyuan had a family and marriage.
As the relationship between the two continues to heat up and the relationship tends to stabilize, Huang Taiyuan has the idea of marrying Du Xinglin.
So he decisively filed for divorce from his wife, who had been married for many years.
On the fourth day after his divorce, he posted on social media: "On April 18, 2013, I finally successfully divorced. Greeting the happy spring of me and the princess!!! ”
Before this dynamic, Huang Taiyuan sent it a month ago, that is, during the existence of the marriage relationship, the content is like this:
"The princess revealed to me deeply today that in fact, she was very afraid that I would hang up, because she would be very sad, and the first time she said this, she was so moved!"
According to the interaction between the two after marriage, we learned that "princess" is Huang Taiyuan's love name for Du Xinglin.
Then from the timeline, it is almost a real hammer Du Xinglin is the third to know the three, interfering in the marriage of Huang Taiyuan and his ex-wife.
At the end of the same year that Huang Taiyuan divorced his ex-wife, the two held a wedding ceremony and became a couple.
Du Xinglin even showed the wedding photos of the two on social platforms in a high profile, and usually her husband Huang Taiyuan kissed his own photos.
After getting married, Du Xinglin did not stop the pace of her ambition.
With the financial support of her husband, Huang Taiyuan, she founded an aesthetic educational institution called "Gardenia Women's Society".
According to herself, the original intention of the organization was to help women who joined the association develop self-confidence and enhance their charm.
At this stage, Du Xinglin has many titles on his head.
"Vice President of the Sino-French Women's Life Aesthetic Education Alliance", "Image Etiquette Tutor", "Hypnosis Mentor", etc., but most of them are titles she added to herself.
But in the process, Du Xinglin still came into contact with more successful people.
In the process, she met the second springboard in her life, that is, her husband, the well-known director Zhang Jizhong, who was standing.
02. From "Little Assistant" to "Little Wife"
On September 2, 2016, Fan Xinman, the wife of the famous director Zhang Jizhong, suddenly posted on the social platform.
The content directly refers to Du Xinglin's interference in the marriage and the transfer of Zhang Jizhong's property behind his back.
The ex-wife said in the text: "Du Xinglin, you can not even know that Zhang Jizhong has passed our marital property to your name, you are innocent, now you know, right? It's my stuff, don't tear your face and grab it! ”
Fan Xinman's remarks were based on the yin and yang strange atmosphere Du Xinglin not only interfered in the marriage between the two, but also lived in the marriage room of the two, slept in his own bed, and transferred Zhang Jizhong's property.
Afterwards, he pretended to be innocent and said that he "didn't know anything."
This matter suddenly fermented on the Internet, and everyone began to investigate the root cause, how did Du Xinglin and Zhang Jizhong get involved?
In 2015, Du Xinglin, who had been living in Taiwan for a long time, finally decided to return to her hometown of the mainland to develop, and she frequently traveled back and forth between the mainland and Taiwan, and gave many unlearned lectures in the mainland.
It was in these lectures that she was recommended by the developer and met Zhang Jizhong, who was already a generation of famous directors at that time.
When the two met, Zhang Jizhong was already 64 years old.
But Du Xinglin did not care about this, she was very enthusiastic to take the initiative to talk with Zhang Jizhong, and the two met and hated each other in the conversation.
For this enthusiastic, attractive, and capable young lady, Zhang Jizhong, like Huang Taiyuan at that time, couldn't help but fall into it.
At this time, Zhang Jizhong also had marriage and family, and Du Xinglin was also in a marital relationship with Huang Taiyuan.
Du Xinglin transformed herself from a successful strong woman with various labels to Zhang Jizhong's agent and personal assistant.
After returning to Taiwan, her attitude towards her husband Huang Taiyuan has also become more and more cold.
But how could the ambitionist Du Xinglin be willing to do such a low-status job, it turned out that her purpose was far from this.
At the end of 2015, just as he resolutely chose to resign to study abroad, Du Xinglin decisively chose to divorce her husband Huang Taiyuan.
Abandoning this former springboard, she is going to go to the next stage of her life.
After that, there was a scene in which Fan Xinman exposed Du Xinglin's involvement in the marriage.
Fan Xinman is no ordinary housewife.
Before marrying Zhang Jizhong, she was also a program producer on a major television station.
The two have been in love for 12 years, married for 14 years, and created a family business with a valuation of more than $300 million with mutual support.
According to her, it was the transfer of property that completely angered her.
She and Zhang Jizhong discussed that the divorce was a matter for the two of them, and asked Du Xinglin to get out of her house.
The netizens who ate melon instantly boiled over and began to ask Du Xinglin about the authenticity of the matter.
The two times I have interfered in other people's marriages, the objects of interference are successful men, and the age gap is larger than one.
Netizens immediately gave Du Xinglin the definition of "a golden girl with a heart".
In the face of netizens' exploration, Du Xinglin has always said that he is just an ordinary little assistant, and he does not know or participate in the affairs of the boss and his wife.
Touched by her innocent words, netizens began to believe that Du Xinglin was just an innocent worker who was involved in this marriage storm.
At this time, Zhang Jizhong stood up and refuted Fan Xinman.
He said that the divorce was because Fan Xinmanxiao cheated on the two men's common son, director Xiao Qi.
This wave of reversals has stunned netizens even more, and the wonderful ethical melon has gradually made everyone forget the role of Du Xinglin.
Du Xinglin was able to become invisible in this incident.
Fan Xinman then denied Zhang Jizhong's accusations of cheating on him, and Cheng Xiaoqi was just a friend.
And she countered Zhang Jizhong, saying that Zhang Jizhong not only had a junior who was 31 years younger than herself, but now even her illegitimate children were almost three years old.
Fan Xinman taunted Zhang Jizhong, "For 20 years, I have been like this, I don't do anything, but I want to sell my reputation and reputation." ”
Since her rebuttal was not supported by evidence at the time, the storm gradually subsided.
After the two agreed to divorce, no one cared about it anymore.
Public opinion once again paid attention to Zhang Jizhong and Du Xinglin, which is 2020.
03. If people drink water, cold and warm self-knowledge
On September 13, 2020, Zhang Jizhong suddenly publicly admitted in front of the media that Du Xinglin was his wife who had been married for three years and the mother of his daughter.
He said his family was legally formed and his children were born legally.
At the end of the article, he expressed his affectionate confession to Du Xinglin: "He has paid a lot for this family and suffered a lot, and I am very grateful to her." ”
As soon as this remark came out, the netizens who believed that Du Xinglin did not intervene at the beginning were angry, and the netizens who punched their faces felt that they had been deceived and began to dig deep into Du Xinglin.
With the wedding photos of the two people being exposed on the Internet.
Netizens found that after pretending to be innocent, Zhang Jizhong and Fan Xinman divorced at the end of 16 years, and Du Xinglin married Zhang Jizhong at the beginning of 17 years.
After marriage, Du Xinglin swallowed his anger and secretly married for three years, until he gave birth to a pair of children, and then he revealed that he was "Mrs. Zhang".
When the two married, Du Xinglin was 35 years old and Zhang Jizhong was 66 years old, and netizens recalled Fan Xinman's words when he first accused Zhang Jizhong.
The 31-year-old Xiao San and a bastard son of mixed blood are now confirmed one by one.
From an innocent "little assistant" to a superior "little petite wife", Du Xinglin has become a snake and scorpion woman who destroys the family and deceives the public in the eyes of netizens.
Zhang Jizhong has also become a model of old cattle eating tender grass, starting with chaos and eventual abandonment, and the reputation of the couple has both fallen to the bottom.
In the face of long-term insults and ridicule from netizens, Du Xinglin often complained about herself, saying that she married Zhang Jizhong because the two were happy with each other, not because of money.
Zhang Jizhong has also repeatedly stood up to protect his wife, claiming that his wife takes care of this family very hard, hoping that netizens will not violence her online.
Du Xinglin also shared his hardships of getting pregnant and having a child on the Internet.
She said that because they could not conceive normally, they had to use technology, and she did multiple egg retrievals and three test tubes before finally having a pair of children.
He also said that her husband was considerate of her hardships, took the initiative to take on the obligation to take care of the children, and often woke up in the middle of the night to find that the husband was nursing two children.
The two often post photos of their sweet life after marriage on social media.
For example, the couple takes the children on a spring outing.
Zhang Jizhong brushed Du Xinglin's hair.
The couple walked together in the snow.
Zhang Jizhong peeled oranges for his beloved wife.
Zhang Jizhong dressed as Santa Claus to make the children happy.
Du Xinglin took the children to put on traditional costumes to celebrate Zhang Jizhong's 70th birthday.
Are some years of quiet pictures, as if in a fight with netizens, the more you say that our marriage is not pure, the more we want to be happy to show you.
The two love each other as "old master" and "little sister", and Du Xinglin has also once confessed Zhang Jizhong in a long text.
She said being with Mr. Zhang would "make people completely ignore his age, he has energy, and his energy is even better than that of young people." ”
epilogue:
Did Du Xinglin live after marrying Zhang Jizhong? The answer must be happiness, whether her purpose is money and fame, or pure love, she gets it.
Although the two have been facing the crusade of public opinion and morality and ethics, marriage is like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge, maybe they are really simple and pure true love.
Although Du Xinglin has twice interfered in other people's marriages, although Zhang Jizhong was once a prodigal son, the two have always stayed together.