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We have all heard of a midlife crisis, but what is a midlife crisis? Some people say they are unemployed, some people say they are short of money, they earn less, they are old and young, and they don't have enough to spend! Some people say it's an unhappy marriage!
It usually refers to a psychological dilemma experienced by middle-aged people between the ages of 40 and 60 when facing multiple pressures such as career, health, family and marriage. Broadly speaking, a midlife crisis encompasses a variety of challenges and difficulties that may be encountered at this stage of life.
The midlife crisis is different for everyone.
Let's take a look at the answers from netizens!
The real anxiety of the noon crisis is not loneliness, poverty or aging, and people have never lived in the way they like when they reach middle age, they once thought that old age is a distant thing, and suddenly found that youth is a longer thing, and they can't help but sigh that time is really too short. is no longer the high-spirited and ambitious young man he was back then!
The anxiety of middle-aged people is that the parents who used to be mountains are old, and the baby in the palm of their hands is still underage, and they want to give them more company and a better life, but they find that they are powerless.
When people are young, they can escape a lot of things, but at the moment of taking responsibility, you are not qualified to be young, you have to have a job, you have to take care of your family, you have to protect your children, and you have to have a tree for your image. Ten years ago, even sentimentality was earth-shattering, and ten years later, the more painful it is, the more silent it becomes; The more bitter, the more silent. Time has worn away the youthful frivolity, and it has gradually precipitated the cold and warm self-knowledge. Doing things that match your age is called responsibility, and it is also the value of a person's life. The scenery is still there, and people are no longer teenagers...
The life of a middle-aged person feels that the two of them live more like enemies, they have been revolving around the children's family, giving up some things for the sake of the children and their husbands, living without self, and have always been humble for the big family, three o'clock and two lines every day, and they are old without living for themselves.
A real midlife crisis is anxiety about a child's future.
When I reached middle age, I was suffering from internal friction while healing myself, and I wanted to open it for a while, and I was entangled for a while, and I wanted to complain in a circle, which didn't seem appropriate. I want to find someone to talk about my depressed feelings, but there is no one like that.
Time is good, don't pass, it's half a life to raise your eyes!
The bigger midlife crisis is that you never have time to think about how you like to live.
It's really difficult for middle-aged men, and everything has to be taken care of. Spring, summer, autumn and winter rotate continuously. And there can be no complaints. It speaks to the hearts of our middle-aged men.
I am a laid-off worker in the nineties, but also a secondary school student in the eighties, and now I am retired, after more than 30 years of experience, summed up a truth, if you do not have business acumen can only be a worker, no matter how high the level of learning, in order to leave a way out for yourself in the future, it is best to learn a skill, no matter when and where you can survive. Especially for the highly educated people in the rural areas and those who go out to work, don't lose the one-third of an acre of land and houses in the countryside, that is the way out when your life is not satisfactory.
You will find that you are married, you buy a house, you have children, but you are unhappy, and there is no way out, you can only have a hard headache, day after day, and you can't see the end.
Countless people ignore a truth, that is, many things do not need to be meaningful, eating, drinking and having fun is not equal to wasting time, hard-working is not equal to extraordinary significance, when you are anxious about internal consumption, you must remember that life is just a superposition of various experiences, as long as you want, you can do those seemingly meaningless things, such as being in a daze, watching the sunrise, counting the stars, your experience is the greatest meaning. Life is not necessarily about doing things that everyone thinks are meaningful, meaning is given by oneself. Life is a wilderness, not a track, as long as you are enjoying the moment, it is meaningful.
Life is not for one thing, more time we are experiencing, eating, sleeping, watching movies, working, traveling... It's all in the experience, everyone has different dreams in their hearts, and it is meaningful to fight for it, even if the result is not satisfactory, we enjoy the process of completion!
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