Instead of getting married, it's better to be single.
This is a first-class actor Chen Jin who has fulfilled a lifelong promise.
When Lu Yu interviewed Chen Jin, he asked her why she chose not to get married for the rest of her life.
Chen Jin said: "I think everyone is lonely, and in the end it is still their own and their own life, so I don't want to get married and have children like most people. ”
Not only her, but even her brother, who plans not to marry for the rest of his life, said he hoped he would live longer than his sister so that he could take care of her when he was old.
Originally, the two were a clear stream in the entertainment industry, but since 2002, there have been rumors that Chen Jin and actor Wu Gang are together, and the relationship between the two is unusual, and even said that Wu Gang and his ex-wife Zhao Ying divorced because of Chen Jin's intervention.
The more outrageous things spread, the more speculation about Chen Jin, but 20 years later, Chen Jin and Wu Gang have not married, and the two have been single.
Why did Chen Jin and her brother Chen Zhun choose not to marry and be infertile together?
What were Chen Jin and Wu Gang planning?
Brothers and sisters who don't take the usual path
Chen Jin and his brother Chen Zhun grew up in the army compound, but they did not fit in, they did not play with other children, did not talk to them, and always did their own things.
Chen Jin's father is a university professor, his mother is a drama actor, born in such an intellectual family, parents are more enlightened about the education of their children.
Parents don't force them to have to play with other children, they don't force them to do things they don't like, they let the children choose for themselves, and they will respect their children's choices to the greatest extent.
Chen Jin has had his own understanding of art since he was a child, for example, in the era at that time, most children were satisfied with food and clothing, and would not pursue fashion, but Chen Jin liked to wear some very special clothes, she felt that it was very fashionable.
Other children felt incredible when they saw Chen Jin wearing patched clothes and complacent, but Chen Jin didn't care about other people's opinions at all, and it seemed that he didn't like to follow the rules since he was a child.
Chen Jin's brother Chen Zhun is also like this, other children are playing with sandbags, shuttlecocks, cards, etc., but he never plays these things, he has his own ideas and pursuits, only focusing on doing his own things.
Chen Zhun likes to love his sister very much, from childhood to adulthood, he has let her sister, and he said that he will always take care of his sister.
Chen Jin's parents felt strange when they saw the two children so different, but they still respected their choice, after all, they were all doing what they liked, and they were not mischievous.
They do not spoil children, and even let go of children too much, not to say that they eat and sleep with them, and when they are busy, they will be directly put in the nursery, which also causes the two children to be not close to their parents, but it does not mean that they do not love their parents, but they just get along by default.
When chen jin and her brother were young, they agreed that the two would not marry or have children for the rest of their lives, and would take care of each other when they were old.
From their childhood life, we can also find some reasons, they are accustomed to this relatively cold life, do not need marriage and children to tie up, bind themselves.
Chen Jin told her mother that she wanted to learn dance, and her mother agreed, sending her to a dance class to study, but it didn't take long for her to be persuaded by the teacher to quit. It seems that Chen Jin does not have a talent for dancing.
Chen Jin's mother is a drama actor, when she is at home, she often watches drama programs, and sometimes there are some performance actions, under the influence of the ear, Chen Jin became interested in drama performance, and she told her mother her ideas.
Chen Jin's mother of course respected Chen Jin's idea, so Chen Jin began to focus on the study of theater performance.
Chen Jin's brother Chen Zhun likes photography, so he began to concentrate on learning photography.
After studying hard, Chen Jin was admitted to the theater performance major of Shandong Academy of Arts.
After entering the university, Chen Jin did not relax, but studied harder. According to her college class teacher, in college, she could figure out a single action and an expression of a character all day, sometimes not going to bed until two or three in the morning.
In 4 years of university life, she has won almost all the awards in the school, and the scholarships have been soft.
After graduation, Chen Jin was assigned to the Air Force Repertory Theatre and has officially begun to perform drama since then.
In 1987, Chen Jin starred in "Snow Peak Love", in which she played five corners alone, playing the heroine vividly, and the whole performance was very smooth, which was praised by the director and other colleagues.
Chen Jin, who just started her acting career, was well received by a number of directors, so she also had more opportunities, and later she received an invitation from the crew of the movie "The Devoured Woman" and has since stepped into the entertainment industry.
Receiving this movie, Chen Jin was nervous, because she had not actually fought, and there was still a certain difference between theory and practice, so in order to play a good role, she studied day and night, and played the spirit of staying up late to study when she was in college, and the colleagues in the crew all appreciated her.
In 1992, Chen Jin won the Feitian Award for "The Rising and Falling Tides".
At this time, Chen Jin has just graduated for three or four years, as soon as he debuted, he played the heroine, which is a proper God to appreciate the meal, every role played by Chen Jin is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, even if you don't know her, but for the role she plays, many people will feel familiar.
At this critical time of the rising period, Chen Jin's acting career suffered setbacks, no director looked for her to act, and in an instant Chen Jin fell into a deep disappointment, and she fell into a period of professional confusion.
20 years without eating rice, re-emerged
After winning the Feitian Award, there was no director looking for her to act, Chen Jinjin did not know why at first, felt very confused, until once a director said to her outspokenly, because she was fat, even playing a village girl, which hit her deeply.
She has always regarded polishing her acting skills as the most important thing for an actor, and she has been working on it, but she did not expect that it was because of her own figure that her career suffered setbacks.
Chen Jin fell into a period of confusion, she was thinking about whether to change herself to continue this career, or to choose the direction that suited her again.
Remembering that he was interested in clothing design when he was a child, and often cut clothes to wear, Chen Jin decided to try the clothing design he was interested in.
She specially enrolled in a costume design cram school, studied for several months, and finally she gave up, she really can't learn, she still likes to express herself more jumpy actor career, costume design needs people to be able to calm down and need inspiration, Chen Jin feels that he is obviously not like this, and he gave up.
So Chen Jin began to be an actor again, but if he wanted to have a play, he had to lose weight, and since then Chen Jin has begun a 20-year-long road to weight loss.
Chen Jin's weight loss strategy is very simple, that is, to control the mouth and open the legs.
She hadn't eaten rice in 20 years, she hadn't eaten staple food, and many times she ate only one peach a day and drank a cup of coffee if she was hungry, which was the amount of food she ate for a whole day.
In addition, she also exercises often, hardly eats much every day, and also exercises with high intensity, which makes Chen Jin want to give up many times, but she thinks that if she gives up, she will give up her career, and finally she gritted her teeth and persevered.
Chen Jin, who has lost weight, has not only become beautiful, but also her temperament has become elegant, which may be related to the fact that she was born into an intellectual family and has heard about it since she was a child.
In short, After the success of weight loss, Chen Jin has changed greatly, her temperament is very suitable for playing female cadres, in addition, due to age, many middle-aged women such as mother-in-law and mother-in-law in TV dramas and movies have also found Chen Jin.
But Chen Jian does not care, the supporting role is good or the protagonist, as long as there is a chance to let herself play acting, she feels very satisfied.
With a clean image and skilled acting skills, Chen Jin has brought us many very good roles.
In 2006, Zhang Yimou's "Full of Golden Armor" invited Chen Jin to participate, Chen Jin played a supporting role in It, but Chen Jin's acting skills were enough to catch up with the protagonist, Zhang Yimou admired Chen Jin's acting skills very much, he said that if Chen Jin was allowed to play the role of empress, I am afraid that he could perform more wonderfully.
In order to shoot the scene, Chen Jin disregarded her own physical condition and insisted on following the crew to Hunan, she suffered from eczema, very serious, in a wet place with her will be very detrimental to her physical cultivation, but she did not hesitate, this shooting is very successful.
The "Eighteen-Hole Village" filmed this time won the love of many audiences, so Chen Jin won the Hundred Flowers Award, so that Chen Jin almost won all the awards that could be won in China.
Although now he can only take on some roles of mother and mother-in-law, Chen Jin has no resistance, and none of the roles have been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, such as Qi Heng's mother in "Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin"; The Mother in "All Is Good"; Dr. Zhao's Mother in "Ode to Joy", etc., and some female cadre roles, Chen Jin has played very well.
Insist on not getting married and infertile
Chen Jin, who insisted on being unmarried and infertile all his life, was rumored to have been with Wu Gang for 20 years, and the intersection between them began in the 2002 film "Seventeen Days of Life and Death", in which they played a couple, and it was also at this time that Wu Gang and his wife were preparing for divorce.
There are rumors that it is precisely because of Chen Jin's intervention that Wu Gang and his wife Zhao Ying divorced, but this is people's speculation and there is no evidence, so we must not be biased.
Because of this drama, the relationship between Wu Gang and Chen Jin is getting better and better, and they often walk and chat together, and even go out on a trip together, and they are very good friends.
Wu Gang and his wife Zhao Ying are peacefully divorced, Wu Gang is an actor, Zhao Ying went to the sea to do business, the two gathered less and more, and there are no children, so after consultation, they divorced.
Most of the roles played by Wu Gang are full of righteousness, such as policemen, prosecutors, etc. In heavyweight television such as "Storm Court", "Hero Age", "State Cadres", Wu Gang has starred, and the role has been portrayed very successfully.
This is inseparable from Chen Jin's help, in the process of getting along, Wu Gang also found more and more that Chen Jin really resembled his confidant, Chen Jin of course also had this feeling, and the two felt sorry for each other.
In life, Wu Gang often invited Chen Jin to eat at her home, Chen Jin was well taken care of by her brother, so her own life ability was really not enough, she often went to Wu Gang's home to eat, and sometimes her brother would also go.
Chen Jin's brother Chen Zhun and Wu Gang are also very compatible, and he has always regarded Wu Gang as his brother.
Now Chen Jin and Wu Gang are about 60 years old, the years have precipitated their friendship, some people hope that they are really together, but Chen Jin has publicly stated that he will not get married, Wu Gang has not been married, and the feelings of the two have survived by this friendship that transcends love.
Last year, there was a video sent to Chen Jin and Wu Gang together, they did not dodge in the slightest, generously do their own things, Chen Jin first said something with a bald man, and also took out his ID to check some things, and then Wu Gang came from the side of the road, naturally gave his wallet to Chen Jin, Chen Jin took it and put it in his bag, and the two drove home together.
Chen Jin has said many times that she feels that the value of contemporary women should not be tied to marriage, and a person who is independent can still live well.
She also never shoots variety shows, she disdains and does not want to earn these dollars, even if she receives the role of mother-in-law, she also takes every opportunity to perform seriously.
However, she really likes things like jewelry and jade, and went to buy a bracelet at the first time she got paid after filming in the past nine years.
At home, she bought a lot of jewelry, basket by basket, which shows that she really likes it, and she doesn't think about relying on these appreciations or anything, it's pure liking.
According to the age, Chen Jin is also considered to have entered old age, the only thing she worries about is her father and mother, her father's health is not good, she has many times at night nightmares and is frightened to wake up, dreaming of her father being tortured by illness, her heart is very depressed.
Therefore, she must raise her body to take good care of her father and mother, she is also afraid of aging, and even afraid of dementia, but it is always a natural law of man, which cannot be reversed, and can only adjust her mentality to face it well.
Now she has begun to eat rice, for her body is often exercised, take on the role is suitable for herself, do not shoot some bad in her old age will not be worth the loss.
Love is not limited to a form, marriage and children is just a road, through platonic love, accompanied by old age is also a kind of happiness, all kinds of tastes can only be experienced by those who have experienced it.
Chen Jin and Wu Gang are like friends carrying each other to old age is also a happy life, I hope they have a good time.