Some people live in high-rise buildings, some people are in deep ditches, some people are full of light, some people are rusty, and there are thousands of kinds of people in the world.
This is a sentence of "Heartbeat", which shows the huge gap between people. People are not born equal, and people will have huge differences in appearance, IQ, family status and so on.
Some people are born with no worries about food and clothing, while others are doomed to poverty. Some people are talented, but some people are mediocre, and most of us live in the latter.
Therefore, walking in this world, most of us have to suffer countless losses ourselves, and fall through countless times to understand some experience and wisdom in dealing with the world. So what changes will a person have when he is enlightened? Once a person is enlightened, there will obviously be these three transformations in the body.
01. Everything begins to weigh the pros and cons, and the feelings are right and wrong
Mo Yan once said: People with good nature are late-ripening, and they are ripened by inferior people. Later, although he was enlightened, he was still kind and sincere, constantly looking for the same kind, and finally became the loneliest one.
Good people are ripened by bad people, and only later are enlightened. Because good people are more emotional, sincere and righteous, pay attention to fairness in doing things, until they encounter all kinds of bad people who cheat and hurt them, and even good people have experienced countless betrayals, and finally realized: soft heart and kindness will only harm themselves, thin feelings and forgetfulness are the weapons to survive.
This society is like this, when fairness and justice are not declared, and kindness is not rewarded as it should be, but it brings all kinds of unnecessary trouble and harm to itself.
Most of the people who are kind people meet have ghosts, calculate their interests, and guard their own three-point field, and good people will not always be silly and kind.
Good people finally understand one day that most people see only profit money, not feelings and right and wrong.
In order to resist those who hurt and exploit, good people will also begin to change themselves, put away their kindness at the right time, adapt to the law of the jungle of this society, imitate some people who hurt him, and begin to weigh the pros and cons of everything, and the feelings are right and wrong.
Just because good people are enlightened does not mean that the essence of good people has changed. Good people just suffered from the cold of the world, and human feelings were cold and warm, and they also became refined. Everything begins to weigh the pros and cons, and the right and wrong feelings are put aside just to better protect themselves.
02. No more glass hearts, less concerned about other people's opinions
In fact, most of us will have a glass heart when we are young, and we have gone through a process of caring about what others think.
The difference is that in this process, some people are very fragile in their hearts, and they have always been unable to support Ah Dou and cannot grow up.
And although some people are fragile, but the experience of life will force her to open up, grow, become stronger, understand that life is their own after all, the shoes do not fit, only they know best, so there is no need to care about other people's opinions.
Love to evaluate others are often useless people, really excellent people have all their energy and thoughts on themselves, and they do not have time to gossip about other people's things, and people who are enlightened understand this, and they do not care about the outside world's views.
03. Start valuing your time and rarely talk nonsense
Before a person has opened the door, he lives like a confused and panicked little rabbit, jumping from side to side, and he does not know where to go, very dazed, no goal.
Only when a person is truly enlightened will he begin to reflect on his life and find his true position in life.
At the opening ceremony of Stanford University, the American literary critic William Dreisewitz said a thought-provoking statement:
"You need to affirm your own values and think about the path to success as defined by yourself, not just accepting the life that others have given you and the choices that others have given you."
Enlightened people have direction in their hearts, know what they live for, what they should do every day, and what kind of person they want to become.
Spinoza said that there is nothing that human beings are most powerless to control than their tongues, and the last thing they can do is to restrain their desires. Because you have to put time on yourself, you can do what you want to do, become the person you want to do, and people who are enlightened will begin to cherish their time.
Because it is understood that the stupidest idea of people in this world is to change others, so enlightened people do not easily give others any advice, give any advice. Enlightened people will restrain their own problems of being a good teacher, and rarely talk nonsense.
The things that I once couldn't understand, I can figure out after I opened my mind. The things that have been calculated can be put down after the trick is opened. Things that were once confused will be understood after opening the trick, and it can be said that people's enlightenment is also a process of sudden enlightenment.