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Li Xiang's method of raising his daughter has been complained about, many people are simply "black" and "black", complaining that Wang Shiling, who was raised by the rich, is too fat, and Wang Shiling, who was raised by the rich, has a bad personality, and when he gets angry in the program, he directly takes off his clothes and throws his clothes on the ground.
In addition to these clues, it is also predicted that the daughter who has been raised so richly will not have any great achievements in the future.
Li Xiang previously responded to the "rich daughter", saying, "Whenever others say that I raise you too delicately, I never refute it, and the treasure I gave birth to with my life is not only delicate."
I think this is the mentality of every mother towards her daughter.
The difference is that ordinary mothers earn a few thousand yuan a month, tens of thousands of yuan, and the "local tycoon" mother Li Xiang's family expenses exceed 600,000 yuan every month, wearing tens of thousands of yuan of clothes for her daughter and carrying a handbag of 10,000 yuan.
Ordinary people think that this "arrogance" is too wasteful, but relative to their income, this is the normal level of raising children, not to mention that people only have one daughter, of course, to give the child the best material needs within the scope of their ability.
Materially rich, spiritually, spiritually
Many people complain that Li Xiang is a "local tycoon", and the children raised are at most "children of the landlord's family", which has no connotation.
The public only sees her material supply to her daughter, and everyone can't see it spiritually.
In fact, people are rich in raising daughters, material is only a small aspect, and more energy and financial resources are still poured into the education of children.
Li Xiang had previously played a video of Wang Shiling on the social platform, and the little girl spoke standard English and was very fluent.
In addition, Wang Shiling is proficient in painting, which should be inherited from his grandfather's good genes, and his grandfather's good genes are not inherited to his son, and it is also a good thing to inherit them to his granddaughter.
Painting this matter is not hard work can have results, Wang Shiling's paintings have long caused quite a stir, we objectively see, if her mother is not Li Xiang, her paintings are also exquisite, the level is very high.
Wang Shiling was honored again, and his works were qualified for the Touring Exhibition of the Louvre Painting Exhibition
These two days, Wang Yuelun congratulated his daughter on his new achievements on the social platform, and Wang Shiling's new work "Garden" was awarded the "Gold Medal" in the first "Little Maupassant Cup" International Art Joint Touring Exhibition, and was qualified to participate in the touring exhibitions of the Louvre Museum and the Swan Castle in France.
This is a great honor for a 13-year-old.
After all, the children of the rich are different, and Wang Shiling's starting point is the focus that many people can't reach throughout their lives.
And this child is indeed talented, leaving aside her family background, her own creative ability should also be recognized.
Wang Shiling's excellence should be recognized and understood, and it also shows that Li Xiang really did not spend less thought and time in educating her daughter.
Education itself is this truth, parents are willing to spend energy, financial resources into it, if the child has a little talent, naturally will be well educated.
And Wang Shiling's excellence once again confirms a truth, parents can indeed affect the height of children, but also affect the child's life.
Capable of enrichment, accepting children without the ability may be as ordinary as we are
For the children of ordinary families, they cannot reach the initial stage of others for several lifetimes. That is the reality.
If you have the ability to be rich, you will provide a good material life and spiritual life for the child, provide the child with good resources, and if you do not have the ability to be rich, the child will be reborn in an ordinary family, then let the child accept the life of an ordinary family.
Generation after generation is like this, the child stands on the shoulders of the parents, start another new life, if the parents do not provide good conditions for the child, the child relies on himself to fight alone, in the end, the strength is weak, only a very small number of talented players finally achieve the class jump.
Most ordinary children will be as ordinary as their parents, only slightly better off than their parents, and they may have bred more prominent offspring.
There are fewer and fewer examples of jumping directly from the bottom, not because the children at the bottom are not smarter, but because the threshold of social class has increased.
When all people begin to pay attention to the education of their children, parents are the guides of their children's destiny.
I read an article on the Internet that said that if there is no deposit in the parent's account, it will be very difficult for the child to grow up.
This is very easy to understand, parents provide their children with a good house and car, and the children will get more opportunities, whether it is life or the workplace will be easier.
Parents have nothing to prepare for their children, children enter society alone after they become adults, he has to save money to ensure that he can survive, and others can use the money used for basic survival to broaden their horizons, so it is always difficult for both kinds of people to stand on a level.
This society gives the rich too many choices and very few choices for the poor, even how to raise children.
Rich people can choose to raise children richly, or they can choose to "raise children poorly" purposefully, just like Guo Jingjing, who can obviously give children the best life, but let children live an ordinary life, and guide children to feel the hardships of life.
But the poor have no choice, if the poor want to raise children richly, the price is the basic life of the whole family, the result is that the child is not well raised, but also may develop a "white-eyed wolf", not grateful, but also resentful parents, resentment of their failure to reincarnate into a rich family.
The poor can only raise children poorly, according to their personal economic strength to raise children, and it is likely that they will eventually raise ordinary and ordinary children like themselves.
Accept this reality, if the child really has talent, he will shine, this is the honor of the family, if the child does not have talent, then send a positive message to the child, let the child become a happy and sound person, this is enough.