She has been a "glass doll" since she was a child, and she needs to be taken care of in her daily life. Once depressed, she began to face life positively under the care of her family, and she used her deeds to influence many people to face life positively through speeches.
Her smile and voice made her harvest her own love, although her husband is also disabled, but they are extremely happy, what kind of life experience is this? This issue of Ziya Childlike Character Observation will take you into the wonderful life of Chen Jingqi.
Suffer from congenital osteogenesis imperfecta
42-year-old Chen Jingqi is a Malaysian, suffering from congenital osteogenesis imperfecta, which is commonly known as "glass doll", the body is slightly hit by a fracture, and doctors also assert that she will not live to be 20 years old.
When she learned that she was suffering from this disease, she was also very sad, and even depressed for a while, but fortunately, she still had the warm company of her family. Gradually, Chen Jingqi began to accept the reality, she understood that anyone can suffer, human life is only once, she should persist and live well.
No one knows how Chen Jingqi survived. For a congenitally incomplete child, the world is full of cruelty and helplessness, she has fallen into anxiety and depression more than once, often insomnia, the body is not very thin, and she is also full of pessimism about life.
Every time she sees those healthy and lively children, Chen Jingqi's heart is so eager to be able to grow up happily in the sun like them.
In life, Chen Jingqi will encounter strange and surprised eyes from others everywhere, which makes her very painful. Her heart is rich and sensitive, and she cares about these things very much, so she closes herself off, does not want to go out, does not want others to see her, and does not want to cause trouble for others.
In those dark years, Chen Jingqi was coldly watched and ridiculed by the people around her, who always looked at her like a monster, which made her very distressed.
Parental encouragement
Once in the shower is also, very troublesome, accidentally touched the body, can not move, can only rely on the mother to barely complete the washing, which made her once think that she was a waste. In the face of herself in the mirror, such an ugly, different body from others, she once hated herself.
Fortunately, Chen Jingqi has a father who loves her very much, his father often encourages her to be sunny and cheerful, and Amelie is the nature of girls, who said that girls with physical disabilities cannot be liked.
Her father told her that as long as her heart is sunny, don't always have a sad face, no one likes a child who always has a sad face. As long as she keeps smiling, other children will play with her.
Father's words are like rain and dew in the spring, nourishing Chen Jingqi's nearly dry heart, although God did not give me a sound body, but I still have to live a like, life is my own, decide how to face, but also depend on myself.
Start speaking
Since then, Chen Jingqi has begun to change herself, she loves life from the bottom of her heart, and begins to have positive energy from the inside out. People saw her petite and mutilated body, no longer pity her misfortune, but was impressed by her confidence and sunshine, and gradually, Chen Jingqi began to have friends.
Because of her unique experience and her optimistic and tenacious spirit, in Malaysia, people have begun to invite her to speak one after another to inspire others.
Chen Jingqi will be her own experience and perception, as well as the attitude to life, today's changes, sincerely share with everyone who needs help, those who suffer misfortune like her, began to face life positively, everyone was inspired by Chen Jingqi's spirit, more and more people began to get out of the inner haze, choose a positive and optimistic attitude to face life.
Every time she shares her speech, Chen Jingqi will have a sense of happiness and fulfillment, because she is no longer the skin bag that looks annoying, she knows her value and is doing things that are meaningful to herself and others.
meet
Perhaps there is an endless fate in the dark, and the "glass doll" has also ushered in its own love.
In 2011, Chen Jingqi was invited to speak in Taiwan. She was in a wheelchair and found the barrier-free passage here very convenient, so she decided to stay and travel around the island, that is, during the dozens of days of her stay in Taiwan, she met her current husband, Xu Shihuang.
Xu Shihuang is also a disabled person, because he accidentally touched a high-voltage line when he was a child, and after one operation after another, he had to accept the reality of his severe disability. Today, his right leg is only above the knee, the left leg is still half of the thigh, the arms are only the shoulders, and only the left arm is equipped with a prosthesis.
Such a body is a heavy blow to a child, both physically and mentally. Xu Shihuang also had a time of closing himself off, and his experience was very similar to Chen Jingqi. The cold eyes and ridicule they have suffered, only they themselves know.
Chen Jingqi and Xu Shihuang met in the disabled group, an invitation from a friend, they officially met, and they saw each other as before. In the process of getting along, Chen Jingqi understood that Xu Shihuang needed her company and care, so she bravely confessed to Xu Shihuang. Subsequently, the two began a sweet love.
Dating between them is much more difficult than the average person, because both people are disabled, going out in a wheelchair, and need to be thoughtful every time. Sometimes it's hard to get in and out of the car, and sometimes there's no special passage to the mall, which are the problems they have to face.
Life is not easy, not to mention two disabled people, thinking of this, Chen Jingqi was once a little afraid, and even had the idea of breaking up.
However, the occurrence of an incident completely touched Chen Jingqi. Once, when Chen Jingqi was on the bus, because the driver master did not fix her, there was an accident, and she fell to the ground.
After learning this news, Xu Shihuang was very anxious, plucked up courage, and took the bus to go out for the first time in his life, in order to catch up with Chen Jingqi. She knew that Xu Shihuang had crossed the biggest hurdle in his life, and she also deeply understood that Xu Shihuang was afraid of losing himself.
Stay together
Since then, the two people have felt more and more in their hearts that meeting each other is a rare and precious encounter, and the other party is the greatest favor of heaven in this life, and they have come together and entered the palace of marriage.
Like ordinary people, they also need to face the trivialities of life and chai rice oil and salt, but the difference is that their feelings after marriage have not been weakened by the many difficulties of reality, because they have deeply felt the difficulty of life for each other.
At home, Chen Jingqi will help Xu Shihuang shave and wash her face, and Xu Shihuang will also take care of Chen Jingqi and help her take things from above.
Two disabled people, in this way, became a family, they depended on each other, the days were full of taste, their hearts were filled with this hard-won feeling, and they stepped through the dark years of the past.
There is a saying that children who have gone through suffering know best how to be strong. Although Chen Jingqi's life has been full of too much heartache, whether in body or soul, she has been tortured, but she still has a positive and optimistic heart.
She loves life today, and through her speeches and sharing, she has inspired more suffering people to walk through the haze. Sometimes, it's only when we close ourselves off that we feel extremely painful.
Today, Chen Jingqi is more than forty years old, far beyond the doctor's assertion that she can only live to the age of 20, and her confidence and optimism have sincerely touched many people.
She was happy, had a happy family, loved her husband, and spoke, a career that really allowed her to realize her self-worth.
Well, this issue of Ziya Childlike Characters observed that it is over here, what do you feel about the touching love between Chen Jingqi and Xu Shihuang? Feel free to leave a comment in the comments section below.
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