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When I was 38 years old, I wondered if I wanted to go to a two-year college degree in radiography, and then I told my friend, "I think I'm too old, and when I get my degree, I'll be 40." ”
A friend said, "If you don't go to school, you'll still be 40, a 40 without a degree." ”
I'm 60 now and that degree certificate changed my whole life.
- Zhihu
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There was once a study of people aged 70-80. Ask them what is the most regrettable thing in their lives? Most people say: Regret not doing what you wanted to do. If you can do it all over again, you must take the risk of doing what you want to do.
I often hear people say: I did the wrong thing, chose the wrong person, did the wrong thing, said the wrong thing. But still live in regret of the past, not to make any changes, because of the fear of taking risks.
In fact, life is either exhausted in fear or blossoms in adventure. Overall, most people miss the opportunity of life in fear and linger in regret.
In fact, life is a journey to find the right one in the wrong. It doesn't matter if you do the wrong thing, choose the wrong one, do the wrong thing, say the wrong thing, the important thing is: nothing is done, and time is gone.
The most painful tears flowed from the grave, for the words that had not yet been spoken and what had not yet been done.
—Harriejej Beecher Stowe
We all regard the days as inexhaustible, inexhaustible to go through. In fact, whether there is tomorrow or not I don't know. Live every day as if it were the last day, and there will be many fewer regret days.
If you look back and all you do is be afraid of others saying, afraid of other people's jokes, afraid of others pointing fingers, then you must be getting farther and farther away from happiness.
Happiness and unhappiness, good or bad, depends on how much time you spend being afraid and how much time you spend building. The ratio of fear to building determines the quality of life.
Life is not an exchange, not an observation, not a comparison, not a complaint, not a waiting journey.
Life is a journey to show your potential and realize your dreams in the process of improving yourself and helping others. A journey that deviates from this direction returns with a lot of entanglements, contradictions, insecurities, and pains.
No choice is perfect, there is always something to gain and something to lose. The key is to drill down and insist on it.
In regret, there is almost always a "not" or "never"
There is a social experiment that makes people who are running away stop and say the regrets that have been hidden in their hearts and are reluctant to mention to others.
There is a sentence on the blackboard: write down the biggest regrets of your life.
It's full of all kinds of life. When the blackboard is gradually filled with these regrets, you will find that people regret that they have one thing in common:
There are many more things in life that you regret not doing than regretting doing the wrong things.
Life is short, so it is better to do wrong than to choose not to do. Don't wait until the years are gone, the opportunities are gone, the health is gone, and the sighs and regrets are empty.
Don't miss the present moment out of regret, don't lose the future out of fear.
The greatest harm in life,
It comes from relationships between people.
Injuries in relationships are also healing in relationships.
All the pain,
All can be healed in relationship grooming.
Open your eyes to the world, close your eyes and look at yourself.
Tonight (April 19) at 19:30
Coach Xiaofei accompanies us,
To find, to discover, to feel the lost love.