There has always been a question, what are the most suitable two people? Some people say that there are heavenly unions, but where are there so many heavenly unions? What is the most comfortable state between couples? When together, what is the best?
A lot of times, being together, just to not be lonely. Two people living together, facing different things together, and slowly getting better together, this may be a better state. However, whether it is idealism or materialism, everything starts from one's own heart, but the things that are focused on are different. In fact, the ultimate goal of two people together is to make themselves happy. Whether you give or get, it is to satisfy your heart. For example, make the people you like happy, in fact, you will be happy in your heart. It may be a win-win, but sometimes, it's just a one-sided feeling.
Why some people are disgusted when they are together, or rather, knowing is disgusting, this is something that runs counter to cognition or some of their own wishes. Therefore, when you see it, you will be disgusted, so, from the beginning, the attitude will become ambiguous.
You will find a very interesting phenomenon, originally wanted to say interesting, but it is not fun, so it is only very interesting. You will find that another person described from someone else, if it is good, then you will ignite a little respect from the heart, that is a respectable person. However, when a person is described as a bad person, everything is different. If life doesn't intersect, then your definition of ta, that is, the definition that someone else describes to you. And if there is an intersection, sometimes, you will find that it is not the same as others. Some things may not be true, and the things described by others will more or less add their own color. Therefore, sometimes what the eyes see and the ears hear may not be true.
Many times, there will be such a phenomenon in love, two people together, obviously very good, but by others to provoke dissension, resulting in two people finally unhappy and scattered, and then others will tell you, this is the inappropriate performance. However, two people together, the most important thing, is it just two people? After all, the person who wants to accompany you to old age, if you don't trust each other, maybe there will be no white head and old age.
What is the most comfortable state between two people? The most comfortable thing is maybe not romance or companionship, maybe just you know what I want, I know what you want. Life is so simple, it doesn't need to be gorgeous, it doesn't need much surprise, the best, just what you give, is exactly what I want. Or, to put it another way, what you want, ta just can give you.
People who are trustworthy may not be able to rely on for a lifetime, trustworthy people, may one day lie to you, the world is uncertain, many times many things will change, many people, have become their own hate. We can switch between different selves in front of different people, but we can't always be consistent. Those who say they do not forget their original intentions, in the end, forget themselves. Forget who you were, let alone get back to your original self.
There is no good in this world, there is no bad, good and bad, just relative. What we can accept is good, what we can't accept is bad. Of course, most people define morality, law, and this kind of not depending on one person to decide good or bad. Here, good or bad, is just in love, you judge a person's good or bad. This may be the performance of the other party, what is good for you is naturally good, and when it is not good, it is bad.
Why, at the beginning, two people who have just fallen in love feel that the other party is deeply attracted to them. And after a period of time, everything changes, is it people who have changed? Or can't the disguise be hidden? If you talk about PUA, or scumbag, that's it, there's no need to discuss, it's not love at all. What is said here is, why does love change in the end?
The of a thousand miles was destroyed in the ant nest, and every small thing may cause the dam to collapse. You don't know what the other person wants, blindly paying, may not have a good result. Caring and dead heart are two different states, maybe still together, just caring, you can see in your eyes, and dead heart, what you see is that it doesn't matter. So, sometimes you will find that some people, love or not, it doesn't matter anymore. Some people, on the other hand, still care about everything, cry, make trouble, others will say stupid, only you know, that is, care.
The best, most comfortable state, perhaps, is that what I need is exactly what you want to give. What I want to give is what you want.