The person who does not love you will never be wronged by himself to accommodate you, if you do not meet his wishes, the first thing he thinks of will be to try to change you to cater to him;
And the person who truly loves you will respect your preferences, try to accommodate yourself, and will not be domineering and selfish to force you to make changes for him. Love is inclusive, and love is accommodation.
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People who love you
I will never force you
People who really love you can't force you to do something you don't like, or make you say something insincere. Because love is never possession and control, but your existence itself, it is enough to make my heart move and rejoice.
To love a person is to respect his personality and preferences as an independent person. Love for the purpose of possessing each other is to play hooliganism with the lover, and it is not to treat the lover as an independent person.
Some men, knowing that their wives can't drink, but when they go out with a few fox friends, under the coaxing of a completely unreasonable rabble, they have to force their wives to drink, thinking that they have face in front of their buddies, like a big husband who can make his wife obey. Such a man, for the sake of his own face, forced his own woman to meet the unreasonable requirements of others, is not worthy of the title of husband.
People who really cherish and love you will never force you to do something against your heart and make you feel uncomfortable. Because I love you, your position in his mind will always be the first, nothing else can shake him, coax you to be happy, make you happy, let you go smoothly is not too late, of course, will not force you.
People who love you
Will take the initiative to accommodate you
Love is mutual tolerance, but also mutual accommodation. In the life of husband and wife, it is inevitable that there will be some small frictions, even with their parents or siblings, it is inevitable that there will be disputes. If you don't break up because you can't get used to some of each other's words and deeds, you can only choose to accommodate love. People who are willing to put down their own body, ignore all discomfort, and take the initiative to accommodate you, must love you very much.
Some time ago, a popular TV series "Parental Love" of the Central Television Station told a moving love story. The naval officer played by Guo Tao and the capitalist Xiaojia played by Mei Ting, the two people have different personalities and living habits are also very different - the difference in birth and the disparity in education level make the two people at first incompatible because of different living habits and concepts, but later because they love each other, they learn to accommodate each other, learn to cater to each other's lifestyle, and eventually end up happy.
The so-called husband and wife, although it is very nonsensical, but after seeing many real couples, it is impossible to argue, it seems that there is indeed such a thing - people who love each other will become more and more similar, whether it is appearance, words and deeds or living habits. This is essentially mutual accommodation, and ultimately accommodation to the extent of "changing" oneself.
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People who love you
You won't be asked to change for him
If a man says to a woman, I love you very much, but I don't think I like some of your flaws yet, can you change it for me? Hearing such words, women can directly let him roll as far as he can, this kind of selfish self-man, is absolutely not really in love with you. And the person who truly loves you will never blindly ask you to make changes for him or her to become what he likes in order to satisfy his own preferences.
All men who ask their women to please themselves are stupid children who treat women as playthings, and women will have a very unfortunate time when they meet such men. In daily life, some men always let their wives handle internal or external affairs according to their preferences, and even dictatorship is so dictatorial that even his wife's words and deeds and even dresses up. In the eyes of such a domineering man, a woman is her own private property, and once it does not meet her own preferences, the woman must be forced to change according to her own requirements.
The person who has always asked you to give for him, to change yourself for him, has never really loved you at all. All unreasonable and selfish demands are manifestations of never considering and considering you. People who impose their will on others are selfish people who only care for themselves and love themselves, and this kind of person does not know how to love people.
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Two people living together must be considerate and accommodating to each other.
Migration is because of love,
So you won't selfishly ask him to cater to your tastes and preferences,
Make changes against your heart.
The best love,
It's two people who accommodate each other,
Take the initiative to make changes for each other,
Eventually it became more and more compatible, more and more like.
The so-called husband and wife phase, not just look like,
It is more a matter of words and deeds, lifestyle accommodation,
Harvest full of happiness.