A person's excellence comes from the strength of the heart, kindness, warmth, determination, enthusiasm.
1, maintain the original intention, firm inner goals Can successfully complete the goal of people have a tenacious heart, will not change their goals because of any pressure from the outside. The road to success is all tribulation. On the road to learning the scriptures from the Western Heavens, every step taken is a hurdle. Any cowardice directly ended all dreams, then everything will pass away with the wind, maybe three years, maybe five years, maybe ten years, Tang Sanzang did not give up, and finally walked 108,000 miles and obtained the True Scriptures.
In the process, there are all kinds of tribulations, temptations, and facing death. None of them had the determination to defeat him.
Maintaining the original intention is the spring bud of a person who insists on completing his inner goal. Planting, there is hope for success, with hard work and sweat to water it, the original heart will grow into a towering tree, all the wind and rain are worth it.
2. Bravely face your mistakes and know how to change. A person's maturity is from indulging oneself to controlling oneself.
Self-discipline is a very good means. Growing up requires debauchery and rebellion, but not all debauchery and rebellion can be achieved.
Recognizing your mistakes and facing them bravely, it becomes especially important to understand the meaning of change.
If you just indulge your mistakes, then you can only go further and further down the road of failure, and eventually you will lose yourself. Only by actively changing one's mistakes can we stay away from the ignorance and pedantry of the past and reap the joy of success.
3, kind and warm, to be a person who affects the positive direction of others, to positively influence the people around you, but also to lead by example.
People with virtue will meet people with high moral character, and people without virtue will only make others more despicable. This is not simply a group of people, but a magnetic field, when you are good enough, for shameless things, you are dismissive, those ugly people can not affect anything about you, a person himself is excellent, will attract good people and things.
A clean circle, a noble soul, and a comfortable relationship are proof of a person's kindness and warmth.
Such a person will make people feel like a spring breeze, and they can smile when they think about it.
The best of themselves should have these beautiful qualities, break the original ignorance and pedantry, in order to see a wider world, in order to meet better people. Life is a practice, cultivating one's own mind, cultivating one's own nature, cultivating one's own character, and cultivating one's own virtue.