Psychologists point out: your dress will expose your heart, can not be wrong!
Clothing, food, shelter, travel, these are the things that are most closely related to our daily lives, dressing is the first to bear the brunt, which shows the importance of clothing. The writer Guo Moruo once said: "Clothes are symbols of culture, and clothes are the image of thought." From this, it is not difficult for us to see that dressing is not only related to the external image of people, but also reflects a person's psychology.
If we have not interacted with others beforehand, and we want to take the initiative in the interaction, then we may as well pay attention to other people's clothing when meeting. Because what type of clothing a person likes to wear is often determined by people's psychology and aesthetic concepts, if we understand the "psychology of clothing", then we can draw some of the most basic frameworks through the clothing of others.
Japan is arguably the most fashion-conscious country in the world. They usually wear proper civilian clothes, must be suits and shoes when they go to work, and change into national costumes - kimonos - every festival. According to sociologists, this clothing culture of the Japanese people represents the character of this nation: rigorous and orderly.
The famous Japanese entrepreneur Konosuke Matsushita once told such a story.
Once, a young man came to panasonic to apply, and when someone from the human resources department interviewed the young man, Konosuke was silently observing the candidate.
After half an hour of conversation, the head of the personnel department was very satisfied, and finally he asked the young man a question: "What is your expected annual salary?" ”
The young man replied unhurriedly, "10 million yen (equivalent to about 700,000 yuan)." ”
The head of the personnel department nodded, because in his opinion, such an experienced and capable young man's salary expectation of 10 million yen was not excessive, but at that time, Konosuke was nearby, and the head of the personnel department decided to let the young man go back to wait for the news, and he tentatively asked the boss, "Mr. Panasonic, how do you see this young man?" ”
The supervisor thought that Konosuke would agree to the hiring, after all, such a talent is rare, but Konosuke's answer was: "Let him find another high, right?"
"Why," the supervisor asked incomprehensibly.
Konosuke said slowly, "I don't know if you just noticed, this young man's tie is dirty and wrinkled, and the way he wears the tie is also wrong, a person who wants to get an annual salary of 10 million yen should have a tie worthy of his own, the tie he wears reflects that he does not pay full attention to the job, and this person is likely to be a person who can't do his best at work, this kind of talent, not only has no effect on our company, but is also likely to cause damage." ”
The supervisor immediately nodded after listening, just now he also noticed, but he did not care so much, it seems that the boss observed carefully.
There is no doubt that a person's dress can roughly reflect a person's character. So, specifically in practice, how do we see a person's "character" through his clothing? Specifically, there is a consensus on the following points:
(1) Like the same style. Most people who wear the same style of clothing at any time have their own distinct personalities, they generally have a strong sense of self, love and hate, this kind of person is generally more honest and trustworthy, words must be done, but often some are high and arrogant, sometimes may not fit in.
(2) Dress plainly or luxuriously. A person who likes to wear simple clothes is generally more introverted, rational and calm, diligent and down-to-earth. On the contrary, if a person always likes to pursue popularity and loves to wear luxurious clothes that are relatively luxurious with their economic strength, then there is a good chance that such people will love vanity and spend money on it.
(3) Dress simply or complexly. A person dressing relatively simply shows that he has great confidence in himself, has more courage in life, works cleanly and sharply, and does not drag mud and water. On the contrary, if a person dresses too complicated and changes three styles in two days, then this kind of person may pay more attention to reality, have a strong desire to control, love to dominate others, but they do not like to be constrained.
The difference in clothes can also reflect a person's personality. For example, people who like to wear casual clothes generally have a more bold personality, informality, open-mindedness, confidence in themselves, and like an unfettered life. People who like to wear suits are generally more serious, their personalities are relatively stable, and they generally have a strong sense of enterprise.
There are still many people who like to wear jeans, and a survey in the United States shows that people who like to wear jeans generally have a bold personality, much like people who wear casual clothes, but their personalities are more extroverted.
In addition, a person's preference for the color of the clothes can also reflect a person's personality. A survey by sociologists shows that people whose clothes are relatively single in color, black or white, generally have a more cheerful personality, and can often be left and right in the social field, and can eat anywhere. And those who are keen to wear the bells and whistles are likely to be a vanity admirer, and their clothing makes them extremely prominent, revealing a desire for publicity and love to express.
In fact, in life, there are many details in a person's dress that can be excavated and analyzed, in addition to clothes and pants, a person's shoes, hats, and accessories on the body can also reflect a person's state of mind. The simplest one is that the concept of time of a person who does not leave the watch all year round is certainly not far behind, and we can further infer that this kind of person is generally more rigorous and reliable.
Therefore, as long as we can pay attention to observation, when dealing with others, we can see people as "probably" at the first glance, and with this "probably", we can grasp a certain initiative in dealing with others.