Where the heart goes, what the body moves, like a person, we will spare no effort to be good to her.
People who are carried away by love will show fanaticism and obsession when they get along.
In their view, giving everything they have is the best way to interpret love.
But ironically, the deeper you love someone, the worse you may end up losing.
Blind and unrequited efforts may not be exchanged for reciprocal responses and recognition.
So, love a person not too full, love to "seven points" is just right.
Leave a point for "dignity"
Reckless and desperate to run to a lover is a way to pursue happiness.
There is no shame in surrendering yourself in a relationship, because that person is worth it.
But if you can't respond for a long time, it means that she doesn't pay enough attention to you.
Feelings that make you give up your self-esteem are most likely to bring pain. People who love you won't always be condescending.
Learn to love yourself, then seek the love of others, and retain a sense of dignity in exchange for respect and recognition.
At any time, don't become an appendage of love, once you give up the bottom line, you will appear incomparably cheap.
Even if you love her to the bone, don't habitually obey and accommodate, unequal love, after all, will not last long.
Set aside one point for "principles"
Two people of the opposite sex who get along and are attracted to each other will involuntarily approach each other.
We are willing to change for love, and we want to mold ourselves into the other person's favorite.
Love is magical, it makes everyone take down their guard and take the initiative to please the other party.
Caring about a person, the heart will be flooded, and the original "framework" is no longer important.
But true love is not a compromise, but a two-way rush after mutual recognition.
No matter how much you like a person, you must also stick to your original intention, uphold the principles, and retain a personality and self.
If you completely lose yourself, then you will lose your confidence and right to speak, and you will be very tired.
Leave a point for the "way out"
When you fall in love with someone at first, you must be ready to accompany you for the rest of your life and grow old with a white head.
But countless realities tell us that feelings that have undergone tests can only persist to the end.
Although love must be cherished and relationships must be maintained, we also need to maintain a sense of sanity.
People who have no way back and have a weak personality will regard their lovers as the only reliance for the rest of their lives.
Even in the face of neglect, betrayal and violence, they still choose to compromise and forgive.
Love that cannot bring warmth and pampering has no need to persist at all.
Leave a point for the "way back" and learn to say "no" to injustice, so as not to completely lose your way.
With the enthusiasm of "crazy to love" and the courage to retain "timely stop loss", this freedom of progress and retreat is actually a kind of self-protection.
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