In the Four Precepts of the Mortals, it is written: "The creator of destiny is heaven, and the one who establishes fate is me." ”
It is God who creates destiny, and it is oneself who establishes destiny.
There is a word called "settle down and live a life." That is to say, it tells us that a person's life has a landing, and the spirit has sustenance, which is a good life.
Everyone wants to become a rich man, but the more hope, the greater the disappointment. It's not that if you work hard, you will reap the rewards, and if you have a wish, you can make your wish come true.
Many people have hearts higher than the sky, and their lives are thinner than paper. I want to make a fortune, but I have been very poor.
People with good fortune often have the following characteristics, and everything has a fixed number. Everything happens for a reason, not being hit by a pie for no reason.
1. The pattern is very large
Have a long-term goal of making money.
The ancients said, "Aim high." ”
If a person does not have lofty ideals and ambitions, there is no way to become a great instrument.
People who can make a lot of money are often ambitious people, rather than staring at the small favors in front of them.
Let's say your hometown is a small mountain village, and you want to open a south grocery store in the village. But have you ever thought that even if the whole village comes to take care of your business, you will not make a fortune, because there are only a few hundred people in the village, and everyone's spending power is very limited.
If you want to make a fortune by opening a south grocery store, you have to go to the big city and make millions of people your customers.
Why do so many people live a life of displacement? Isn't it just to make more money? If you can make a fortune at the doorstep, who wants to go far away?
People with good fortune have a big pattern, set lofty goals for themselves, and plan steps to make money.
Think of the money you earn as capital, not a "consumer good." When you learn the method of making money, all your money will move and have the ability to fission.
People who are easy to satisfy and stable in this world often do not make a fortune, but are at best relatively rich.
2. Broad-mindedness
Tolerate others and maintain "harmony".
Make money, pay attention to "harmony for the precious, harmony to make money." If the people around you argue with you every day, you simply don't have the heart to make money. If you argue with someone early in the morning, you're depressed all day and too lazy to make money.
When the environment you live in is harmonious, your enthusiasm for making money will increase, and you and others can also form a mutually beneficial pattern of making money.
Creating a harmonious environment requires softness, not strength.
If you take the initiative to be soft, you will be like cotton, dissolving the forces from the outside; you are like a sponge, you can absorb the surrounding water; you can also be like a spring, you can flex and stretch.
For example, when you come home, your lover blames you for making too little money, and you think about how hard you work, you are very aggrieved, and you immediately quarrel with your lover. As a result, the husband and wife have a disharmonious relationship and lose the "backing" to make money.
Be a person with a broad heart and tolerate all people, and you will find that on the road of life, there are no enemies at all, not even enemies.
Your nemesis, from a certain point of view, is also someone to exploit. When he says provocative words, he often pokes at your weaknesses, and also points out your shortcomings, which is the force that spurs you forward.
Bad things can become good things, bad people can become friends, the key depends on how big your heart is, how warm your heart is. Warm others with your heart, and all contradictions can be resolved.
Of course, maintaining a harmonious atmosphere is not to tolerate without a bottom line, but to tolerate with a bottom line. Others have provoked you, you have forgiven others, it is generosity; others have bullied you, you dare not make a sound, it is a nest, there is an essential difference between the two
3. Thick accumulation and thin hair
Insist on accumulating the ability to make money.
We all know that there is a big director in Taiwan named Ang Lee.
We all know that he once had been idle at home for 6 years, and many people comforted themselves when they were confused, it doesn't matter if they are not successful now, didn't Ang Lee also lose his job when he was young?
However, what you don't know is that Ang Lee is really idle, but he has never been confused, on the contrary, he chose the path very early and has always been very determined.
In 1981, Ang Lee entered New York University, during which time he shot short films such as "Chasing", "I Love Chinese Food", "Beating the Artist", and "Shady Lakeside".
Among them, "Shady Lakeside" won the New York University Scholarship and the Best Short Story Award in the Independent Film Competition hosted by Taiwan.
His graduation work " Dividing Line " won the New York University Warserman Award for Best Director and Best Picture.
In the six years of idleness, Ang Lee has actually been reading, watching films, and writing scripts.
And he and his agent were both in high spirits, and some unsatisfactory opportunities, they both turned down.
In 1990, Ang Lee completed his debut film "Pusher" in only 24 days, and won the Golden Horse Award for Best Director nomination in one fell swoop.
Later, he filmed "Eating Men and Women", "Brokeback Mountain", "The Fantasy Drifting of Young Pi" and other world-renowned masterpieces, and won the Academy Award for Best Director many times.
If you think about it, you will find that in fact, there is no such thing as "getting rich overnight" in the world.
So why do so very few people, you think they are ordinary, suddenly one day to rise to fame?
That's because when you take root silently, when you struggle alone, others can't see it at all.
Three hundred and sixty lines, line out of the shape, what to do as long as the head of the industry five percent, can earn money, if you want to "get rich", you have to do to the head of the industry one percent.
Instead of constantly changing industries and looking for opportunities, it is better to work hard in a certain field in a down-to-earth manner.
No one can succeed casually, and all those who jump up are "planned for a long time".
An eagle that can soar in the sky has actually undergone repeated practice and test flights.
A fish that swims freely, learns to avoid predators, and is not absolutely free.
A frog can catch a pest by jumping up, but it actually waits for a long time in the grass and gathers explosive power.
If you want to become rich, you have to practice hard, and relying on opportunistic ways will not work.
Those thieves, who have done things that violate the law and discipline, even if they get a lot of money, will eventually harm others and themselves, and there is no good end. All the things that make you rich overnight, which seem tempting, are actually deep traps.
People with good fortune are people with ability, not relying on luck. When a person's ability is strong enough, do anything, be sure, and will succeed.
Ability is the strength to get rich, and it is the source of strength to go uphill.
4. Get rich in a muffled voice
Dress up as a pig and eat a tiger, and know how to disguise yourself.
Pigs are honest and stupid, tigers are powerful and aggressive.
If you stand in a crowd, you will most likely guard against those who may attack you and take the initiative to approach those who are honest.
In everyone's subconscious, there is an instinct to "seek advantages and avoid harms". With honest people, you can feel safe and actively cooperate and work together.
Smart people know how to hide their "strength" and pretend to be honest people in order to gain the trust of others and develop together with others.
Being a person, the more low-key, the greater it is. Lower your posture, other people's wisdom will flow into your brain like flowing water, and other people's money will flow into your wallet like flowing water.
You want to make other people's money, but often bully others, but always show off yourself, then you will be rejected by others, but also attacked by the strong, your way of making money, is not advisable.
Smart people always make money in obscurity, even if they make a fortune, they will not make a sound, but continue to pretend to be poor and continue to make more money.
"Man's life is destined by heaven", many people have misunderstood this sentence, believing that a person's fortune is arranged by God. In fact, it is not, a person's fortune can be controlled in his own hands.
Enhance the ability to make money, enlarge their own pattern, establish a good circle of contacts, adhere to low-key humility, and fortune will naturally come.