In 2009, Alyssa Jia appeared in front of the camera.
Tearfully accusing her husband Sun Zhihao, because he could not let his daughter meet with him, Jia Jingwen's words immediately triggered public opinion, and people turned against Jia Jingwen.
Seeing that things were making a big fuss, Sun Zhihao came out and said that Jia Jingwen had been in contact with her daughter, and it was pure nonsense not to let the mother and daughter meet.
Listening to Sun Zhihao's words, netizens have sided with him.
And this is just the prelude to Sun Zhihao and Jia Jingwen's fight for custody of their daughter.
In the following six months, the two sides have spoken out one after another, as if the happy life of the past is just an illusion. And netizens even looked at the two people's speeches, in the clouds.
Finally, in 2010, the two officially divorced, and both had rights to custody of their daughters.
Finally, the vigorous divorce war is over.
It is reasonable to say that two people who attack each other because of the bad words of divorce will not have any connection any way.
But after a few years, the two slowly reconciled.
Sun Zhihao got married again, and Jia Jingwen generously sent her blessings.
At the graduation ceremony of the eldest daughter, the two came to the scene one after another, and also stood next to the daughter to take a photo, which is also the same frame that the two have been missing for a long time after divorce.
And why Jia Jingwen chose to reconcile after the years, a large part of the reason should be attributed to her husband Xiu Jiekai.
At that time, Jia Jingwen chose Xiu Jiekai, who was unknown, not for money or fame, but for love, even though the fame difference between the two people was so large, but Jia Jingwen still insisted on marrying Xiu Jiekai.
Of course, it turns out that Jia Jingwen's impulsive choice is indeed right.
After getting married, Xiu Jiekai still has the same concern for Jia Jingwen, and he always relates to Jia Jingwen's emotions for the first time and enlightens her at the first time.
He knew that Jia Jingwen had become sensitive and inferior because of the first failed marriage, so he did not take the initiative to mention it in front of her, asking, he only needed Jia Jingwen to be happy, happiness, is the greatest happiness.
It is under the love and companionship of Xiu Jiekai that Jia Jingwen slowly reconciles with the past, she becomes smiling, becomes happy, and even when she sees her ex-husband, she no longer speaks harshly to each other.
Compared with the difficulty of getting out of marriage, Sun Zhihao is much more calm, and after the divorce, he once again found a new love, and chose to turn back to the shore for his lover.
Sun Zhihao can afford to put down the love, but also let people admire the happy love of Xiu Jiekai and Jia Jingwen.
However, there are also loopholes in happy love.
On the show, Xiu Jiekai ignored the fact that Jia Jingwen gave birth three times, and even wanted to have another child.
Little S heard it and directly widened his eyes in disbelief.
Xiu Jiekai did not seem to feel the shock of the other party, and continued, "Both of them like children very much."
This ambiguous answer allowed netizens to see a happy marriage for the first time, and it turned out that it was not completely full of sunshine.
Some people even think, is Xiu Jiekai really a model husband? Or, is the marriage of the two really the best choice?
In 1974, Alyssa was born.
With the passage of time, Jia Jingwen has also become more and more unique, and this beauty has also allowed the scouts to find her.
At that time, Jia Jingwen was still in middle school, a pair of large eyes looked particularly energetic, and under the recommendation of the scout, she shot the advertisement.
What makes Jia Jingwen really want to take the actor route is from her father.
Because of her father's illness treatment, she almost emptied the family's money, and even had a lot of foreign debt, in the face of this situation, Jia Jingwen had to first take a leave of absence from Nortel and go to the major drama crews to audition, to win a chance, and use the remuneration to treat her father.5
But my father's illness was too severe, and in infinite pain, my father died.
But Jia Jingwen did not relax, she knew that the family's debts were still many, and she had to take responsibility to repay the huge amount of money.
It is also this idea that makes Jia Jingwen go farther and farther in the show business circle and shoot many classic works.
"Little Li Flying Knife", "Yitian Slaughtering Dragon", "Supreme Red Face", "Divine Doctor Hero"... All made her more and more famous.
And just when the career blossomed, her love also quietly came.
In 2002, Jia Jingwen met the rich Man Sun Zhihao.
In Sun Zhihao's body, Jia Jingwen found her father's shadow, humorous and spoiled, so she fell uncontrollably into Sun Zhihao's charm.
Under the impulse of love, Jia Jingwen quickly became pregnant with Sun Zhihao's child, but at that time, the two people were only lovers and did not marry.
Unmarried and pregnant, Jia Jingwen was put on the cusp of the storm for a while, although people were controversial, but she was determined to be with Sun Zhihao, and she wanted to lend it to Sun Zhihao.
The news that the actress is married into a rich family has made Jia Jingwen suffer a lot of criticism.
But she did not flinch, bore her daughter to the clamor of insults, and officially married in December 2005.
However, this love is not as happy as Jia Jingwen imagined. Just the day before giving birth to the child, Sun Zhihao was still drinking and driving a car with beautiful women on the road, and as a result, the road was checked, and Sun Zhihao was arrested for drunk driving.
Even after giving birth to a child, Sun Zhihao was not stable.
In less than two months, Sun Zhihao and his fox friends went to a nightclub in Shanghai, red light and green wine, accompanied by hot girls, Sun Zhihao was unhappy to drink wine.
At this time, Jia Jingwen was alone in Taiwan, guarding the empty house alone.
After watching the marriage, Sun Zhihao was still so careful, people have changed their direction, feeling that Jia Jingwen has suffered grievances, and Sun Zhihao is not worthy of Jia Jingwen.
However, in the face of netizens' unevenness, Jia Jingwen is still peaceful.
He even talked about the advantages of his husband on the show, and he was in a state of complete trust for the warblers and swallows around his husband.
In front of the camera, Alyssa Jia does everything she can to maintain hard-won love, happiness, peace, like on the lake, calm and innocent.
But the lake will always be broken one day.
Jia Jingwen also paid the price for the illusion of love she had woven.
In 2009, Alyssa Jia appeared in front of the camera, but this time she was no longer smiling with happiness brought by love, but she was in tears in front of the camera.
Her eyes were red and swollen, and she accused her husband, Sun Zhihao, of not allowing herself to meet her daughter.
In Jia Jingwen's mouth, she has not seen her daughter for four months, she does not know where her daughter is, and there is no way to contact her.
Looking at The tearful Jia Jingwen, people have softened their hearts and accused Sun Zhihao of Huaxin.
In the face of Jia Jingwen's remarks, Sun Zhihao gave another set of words.
He said that Jia Jingwen knew where her daughter was, although she could not meet, but the mother and daughter had been in contact through the Internet, and no one had blocked the meeting.
Watching the two parties insist on their own words, the netizens watching the drama are looking at the eyes.
But that's just the beginning.
Jia Jingwen said that Sun Zhihao was abusing her family, Sun Zhihao denied it, and the backhand said that Jia Jingwen was ambiguous with others, and Jia Jingwen said that there was nothing to do, hoping that Sun Zhihao would let go of the custody of her daughter.
Later, Sun Zhihao proposed that divorce was OK, but he wanted Jia Jingwen to give 26 million yuan in alimony.
For Sun Zhihao's lion opening, Jia Jingwen of course disagreed.
Faced with the two sides' disagreements, Jia Jingwen and Sun Zhihao reached the point of going to court, and the two ran from the United States to Taiwan to fight a lawsuit.
The tug-of-war between the two did not come to fruition until half a year later, that is, in 2010, the two officially divorced, and the daughter was raised by two people.
In 2011, the court's decision brought the farce to an end.
Before junior high school, her daughter had to study in Taiwan, Jia Jingwen's focus was on her children, and Sun Zhihao had the right to visit her daughter.
This physically and mentally exhausted divorce war is over, but it gives Jia Jingwen an indelible shadow.
Jia Jingwen was on the show at the time, and she bluntly said that this love was a wrong choice from beginning to end.
However, compared to Jia Jingwen's sadness, Sun Zhihao was not affected by half a point.
After the divorce, Sun Zhihao held hands with the beautiful woman Lin Ruoya, at that time, it was only two years before Sun Zhihao divorced.
For Sun Zhihao's love affair, people are not optimistic, but they did not expect that Sun Zhihao had turned back to the prodigal son.
The two talked about a low-key and sweet love, although they fell in love, But Sun Zhihao did not reduce his care for his daughter.
He will take his girlfriend Lin Ruoya to see his daughter play together, and the number of meetings has increased, and the relationship between Lin Ruoya and her daughter has also eased up a lot.
Although there is no blood relationship, Lin Ruoya is extremely fond of her daughter and often drags her shopping.
On the other hand, in order to ease the mood of divorce, Jia Jingwen focused on her career. "Palace Locks" and "Tianlong Eight Parts" once again made Jia Jingwen active in front of the public.
And the last time she met love was in 2014, when she met Xiu Jiekai, who was not yet famous.
Jia Jingwen knows her own situation, has been married, has children, is still old, and xiu jiekai is not a good match, but she is still irrepressibly moved by xiu jiekai.
Gentle, considerate, and careful all make Jia Jingwen extremely moved.
However, for Jia Jingwen's past, Xiu Jiekai knew, but did not care too much.
He knew that he was in love with Jia Jingwen and could fully accept her past, "that was part of her life", Xiu Jiekai thought.
So under the two loves, Jia Jingwen and Xiu Jiekai were together, and in 2015, Jia Jingwen became pregnant.
At the time, she wasn't married.
In this regard, once again unmarried and pregnant, the other party is still a nameless little star, people feel that it is not worth it, but the person Jia Jingwen identified, can not change.
In 2015, Jia Jingwen gave birth, and her and Xiu Jiekai's first daughter was born, and jia Jingwen's second daughter.
In the same year, the two married.
In 2016, Jia Jingwen and Xiu Jiekai's second daughter was born.
And it was this year that Sun Zhihao also married his girlfriend Lin Ruoya, who had held hands for many years.
At the wedding, Sun Zhihao led Lin Ruoya through and then held his daughter's small hand, and the atmosphere was very sweet.
Jia Jingwen, who learned that Sun Zhihao was married again, also sent blessings, which was the first sign of relaxation after the divorce of the two, and Jia Jingwen could let go of her previous hatred, but also thanks to the love of her husband Xiu Jiekai.
After getting married, Xiu Jiekai not only did not weaken his concern for Jia Jingwen, but instead loved Jia Jingwen with 100% love.
He knew that Jia Jingwen was very sensitive to the past, so he did not let her remember the past, but let her focus on the future.
Xiu Jiekai has no itinerary, so he will work as a chef at home and cook for Jia Jingwen.
Even start the day with a sweet good morning kiss.
The two people participated in the show together, and Xiu Jiekai thought that Jia Jingwen would continue to exercise for the sake of the show, and a worried expression appeared on her face.
He tried to take care of Jia Jingwen, but the other party was still injured, and he saw Jia Jingwen's burned fingers, and his brow was locked.
He rushed over to look at Jia Jingwen's hand, and after finding that there was no major problem, he was relieved, but the nagging on his mouth was not less.
In addition to being good to Jia Jingwen and good to her daughters, Xiu Jiekai has not forgotten Jia Jingwen's eldest daughter. Although he is the child of Jia Jingwen and Sun Zhihao, Xiu Jiekai is not alienated because of this.
Family dinners, travel will also take the eldest daughter, and the eldest daughter will not be forgotten on the birthday.
Under the love of Xiu Jiekai, Jia Jingwen slowly moved towards maturity, and the biggest sign of maturity is reconciliation with the past.
In 2019, the eldest daughter's graduation ceremony, Xiu Jiekai and Jia Jingwen arrived, and those present did not know them, as well as Sun Zhihao.
As the saying goes, "enemies see each other and divide their eyes", but Jia Jingwen does not want to pursue the past, and Sun Zhihao is even more under the love of Lin Ruoya, magically retracting the previous nature of picking flowers and sticking grass.
The two took photos with their eldest daughter, and Jia Jingwen also put the photos online.
After that, life was no different from before, and in 2021, it was the eldest daughter's 16th birthday.
Sun Zhihao and his wife Lin Ruoya took photos with their daughter to celebrate their birthday, and Jia Jingwen also posted sweet wishes for her daughter online.
For the second daughter and the youngest daughter, Jia Jingwen naturally will not forget, always give the best to them, and after finding happiness again, Jia Jingwen also reopened her career.
The movie "Waterfall" she starred in was released in Taiwan, the film won a good reputation, and Jia Jingwen was once again seen for her excellent acting skills.
At this time, Jia Jingwen, everyone knows that she has achieved happiness again, but unexpectedly a show, people have doubts about this.
On the show, Xiu Jiekai unabashedly said that he wanted another child, because both people liked children.
Even in the little S asked the question again, "Don't you think that the three children are already very annoying"?
Xiu Jiekai still did not change his answer.
He knew that Jia Jingwen had given birth to three children, but he also seemed to have forgotten everything that Jia Jingwen had endured when she gave birth to three children.
He even forgot that as early as the 2021 event, Jia Jingwen had already made an answer to this question.
"I've had three, and I've paid a lot.".
Unexpectedly, a sentence that seemed to be complaining did not allow Xiu Jiekai to see.
Because of this, people doubted for the first time that the couple was really happy? Is it really loving?
It is true that Xiu Jiekai gave Jia Jingwen unconditional love, and Jia Jingwen could completely rely on him and trust him.
But is this love perfect? Not necessarily.
If he really loves, he may think about the risks that his wife faces in giving birth, give up the idea of having children again, or listen to his wife.
But compared with Sun Zhihao, this may be the happy life that Jia Jingwen dreamed of, right?
Sun Zhihao, who once spent a lot of time and wine, brought harm to Jia Jingwen, which is enough to be called a shadow.
So now accepting a somewhat flawed marriage does not seem to be difficult for Jia Jingwen, after all, there is love in it, which is also the best choice.