Many friends will always say that love is too complicated to make people wonder.
Some people, do not know how to fall in love, once in love is a lifetime.
Some people, no matter what they do, can't make the other person fall in love with themselves, and they will never love.
But the feelings themselves are not clear, maybe this man is not good for you when he is with you, but when he meets a destined woman one day, he is eager to give her all his tenderness.
To you, he may be a total scumbag, but to another woman, he is a perfect and good man.
Jia Jingwen's ex-husband Sun Zhihao is such a man that you can't understand.
Once Jia Jingwen was also full of the hope of a little girl, she entrusted her life to this man, but she never thought that one day the man she loved would become a nightmare in her life.
When fighting a divorce lawsuit with Sun Zhihao for the custody of the child, Jia Jingwen also did her best to fight with her ex-husband to the end, and the two people who originally slept together went to the point of being enemies.
Even in front of the reporter, Jia Jingwen shed tears of grievance uncontrollably, exposing a woman's fragile moments in front of the camera.
In the end, Jia Jingwen not only lost her years of youth but also paid NT$26 million to Sun Zhihao.
Jia Jingwen's marriage can be called a tragedy, because not only is she not loved by her husband, but also suffers from her husband's domestic violence, and even her mother-in-law is full of disgust and cold eyes, and there is no family warmth at all.
Quite a few people are very distressed Jia Jingwen, scolding Sun Zhihao is a scumbag, but in 2016, Sun Zhihao announced the news of marriage again, this time his wife is Lin Ruoya, lin Ruoya after marriage does not want children, the mother-in-law did not urge her, and her attitude towards her is simply a world away from Jia Jingwen.
And it is not only the mother-in-law who likes Lin Ruoya, when others think that Sun Zhihao will definitely continue to abuse domestic violence in the future, they find that he is unusually good to his current wife, it can be said that Sun Zhihao is about to spoil Lin Ruoya.
Why is it that Sun Zhihao, who is also a husband, has such a big difference in attitude towards The two wives of Jia Jingwen and Lin Ruoya?
Let's review together, when Jia Jingwen married Sun Zhihao, it was when her career was booming, when the two people were still young, often encountered things that were easy to argue, but few people were willing to take a step back and make compromises, if a man was not willing to tolerate a woman, or even constantly angry with her, it could only show that he did not love this woman enough, and his mind was not mature.
When Sun Zhihao was still immature in his mind, he married Jia Jingwen, which was destined to be a unhappy ending.
It can only be said that the time when the two people met was too wrong, but after the divorce, Sun Zhihao gradually began to reflect on himself, learned the lessons of marriage with Jia Jingwen, gained growth, and he did not want to be labeled as a domestic violence man for a lifetime.
So Lin Ruoya appeared at just the right time, and she met Sun Zhihao, a good man after maturity.
In fact, many men are two looks in front of different women, and may be completely violent to some women, and they can't restrain their temper, but for some women who have entered their hearts, they are reluctant to hurt, because they will be distressed.
Because of love, so compromise, because of love, so concessions, Lin Ruoya may be the white moonlight that successfully entered Sun Zhihao's heart, Sun Zhihao is willing to change his temper for her, willing to become a better man for her.
And this is what Jia Jingwen can't let Sun Zhihao do for her.
In addition to such things in the entertainment industry, there are many such phenomena in real life.
Before a friend of mine told me that he had an uncle who had been married twice, and in the first marriage, he was a man who did not care about his family, only cared about spending his days and drinking outside, never considered his wife's feelings, even the children he never asked, and did not bother to do anything in the family, all thrown to his wife.
Finally, one day, her wife couldn't stand it and filed for divorce from him.
Later, he married a new wife, and this time many people thought that there was another poor woman who was going to suffer, but unexpectedly, he turned into a good man who cared for the family, and he could be said to be gentle and considerate to the new wife, so that people could not even believe that this was the same person?
Maybe this is also a thing to a thing, everyone will meet the person who can cure themselves, willing to do anything for that person to become a better self.
In fact, Jia Jingwen is the same, her original misfortune was only because she chose a person who was not suitable for herself, when she met Xiu Jiekai, a man who really loved herself, after she divorced, she was able to find her happiness completely.
Xiu Jiekai is different from Sun Zhihao, he is very fond of Jia Jingwen, the two people are also very sweet and happy after marriage, Jia Jingwen also gave birth to two children for her, and the family of four lived an enviable life.
Therefore, blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, no one is suffering forever, if there is no Domestic Violence of Sun Zhihao, perhaps Jia Jingwen will not divorce, so she will not be with Xiu Jiekai, and fate may have long been tied together by the red line of many people.
At least now Jia Jingwen is living a very happy life and living a wonderful life, this is her life, she should thank Sun Zhihao's ruthlessness to complete her and Xiu Jiekai's affection.
And Sun Zhihao should also thank Jia Jingwen for leaving to teach him how to become a good man.
If it's painful to be with someone, I suggest you leave this person, because the person who loves you can't make you so miserable, and only without this person can you meet a better person.
When you meet the person who is best for you, you will know that what you have experienced before is really nothing, after all, these setbacks and tribulations are used to make you grow.
Fate is not as unfair as you think, try to free yourself, maybe you can start a new life.
Friends, why do you think Sun Zhihao's attitude towards Jia Jingwen and Lin Ruoya is so different? If there is any different view, you can leave a message in the comment area to discuss oh ~？